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What Is Sidelining? What Can We Do About Being Sidelined? . by Alice B. Clagett

What Is Sidelining? What Can We Do About Being Sidelined?

Image: “Sidelined,” adapted from Image by Alexander Fox | PlaNet Fox from Pixabay – Pixabay License

Image: “Sidelined,” adapted from Image by Alexander Fox | PlaNet Fox from Pixabay – Pixabay License

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  • INTRODUCTION
  • WHAT DOES SIDELINING MEAN?
  • HOW ARE PEOPLE SIDELINED?
  • WHAT TO DO IF I AM SIDELINED IN MY PERSONAL LIFE OR IN MY CAREER?
  • CONCLUSION
  • PSYCHIC IMPRESSIONS EMBEDDED IN MUSIC

INTRODUCTION

Dear Ones,

I heard about a new word today: Sidelining.


WHAT DOES SIDELINING MEAN?

I asked Google AI: What does sidelining mean?

Google AI said: “Sidelining means to exclude someone or something from an important activity, making them feel unimportant or preventing them from participating, like a sidelined athlete who can’t play or a worker whose key tasks are removed. It can also refer to a secondary job (a ‘sideline’) or, in film, musicians appearing on camera. Essentially, it’s about putting something/someone to the side, away from the main action or importance.

In general/social contexts:

  • Exclusion: To push someone out of a group, decision-making, or activity.
  • Marginalization: Making someone feel less significant or relevant in a project or situation.
  • Example: A manager sidelining an employee after a disagreement, giving them less important work.

In sports:

  • Benched: A player kept from playing due to injury, poor performance, or team decision, often watching from the sidelines.

In business/jobs:

  • Secondary income: A job or business done in addition to one’s main occupation (e.g., photography on weekends).
  • Film/Music: ‘Sideline musicians’ are hired to appear on camera (miming) in movies, distinct from recording.

Other meanings:

  • Physical: A line marking the side of a playing field.
  • Railways: A short track alongside a main one (a siding).

In most modern usage, `sidelining` implies a deliberate act of removal from the central action or importance, often negatively.”


HOW ARE PEOPLE SIDELINED?

I asked Google AI: How are people sidelined?

Google AI said: “People are sidelined through subtle exclusion, like being left out of meetings/emails, having roles reduced, or input ignored, often masked as ‘normal’ workplace dynamics, leading to less influence, fewer opportunities, and feelings of invisibility or being demoted, affecting careers and mental well-being, with underlying biases often playing a role in marginalizing diverse perspectives.

Workplace Sidelining (Common Methods)

  • Exclusion: Not invited to key meetings/emails, left out of informal chats, or group activities.
  • Reduced Influence: Your ideas are dismissed, credit is stolen, or you’re micromanaged; input isn’t sought.
  • Stagnant Growth: Consistently passed over for promotions, training, or challenging tasks; moved to less vital projects/teams.
  • Communication Breakdown: Less frequent or direct communication; withheld information.
  • Undermining: Receiving excessive negative feedback, being held to different standards, or having your ‘style’ criticized.
  • Invisible Labor: Being expected to do menial tasks (like making coffee) while others discuss projects. 

Beyond Work (Social/Systemic)

  • Social Exclusion: Being ignored, ostracized, or made to feel like an ‘other’ due to cultural differences or `otherness`.
  • Systemic Barriers: Lack of access to resources, opportunities, or basic services due to socio-economic, cultural, or political factors.
  • Bias & Stereotypes: Being sidelined because of your background, gender, or perceived personality (e.g., ‘too direct’).

What it Feels Like/Results

  • Demoralization, lack of motivation, and low confidence.
  • Anxiety, depression, or emotional distress (especially in sports/career shifts).
  • Feeling unheard, untrusted, or that your contributions don’t matter.

What to Do (General Advice)

  • Document: Keep track of instances.
  • Communicate: Have direct, respectful conversations.
  • Advocate: Speak up for yourself and your inclusion.
  • Seek Allies: Build relationships with supportive colleagues.
  • Evaluate: If things don’t improve, consider moving roles or organizations where you’ll be valued.”

Alice’s Analysis: I see from this that I have been sidelines about a zillion times in my life without actually grokking in its entirety what was happening to me. If I had known I might have said, ‘Say, I feel I’m being sidelined. Can we talk about it?’ … or something like that.


WHAT TO DO IF I AM SIDELINED IN MY PERSONAL LIFE OR IN MY CAREER?

I asked Google AI: What to do if I am sidelined in my personal life or in my career?

Google AI said: “When sidelined in life or career, focus on self-compassion, regain control by setting small goals, and proactively communicate to understand why (career) or reconnect with others (personal); then, either strategize for growth within the current situation (upskilling, networking) or plan an exit if the environment is toxic, using this time for healing and discovering new interests.

In Your Career

  1. Seek Clarity: Talk to your manager to understand why you’re being sidelined (visibility, performance, politics) and what’s needed for inclusion or promotion.
  2. Increase Visibility: Ask for specific responsibilities, volunteer for key projects, and ensure your contributions are known.
  3. Develop Skills: Use downtime to learn new things, aligning with future goals, and create a plan with your manager for advancement.
  4. Network & Explore: Connect with your professional network and explore new opportunities, maybe even finding roles valuing your strengths more.
  5. Manage Emotions: Keep resentment in check, focus on your strengths, and consider if the organization is right long-term if things don’t improve.

In Your Personal Life

  1. Practice Self-Compassion: Acknowledge the pain, allow yourself to grieve the situation, and don’t blame yourself for feeling unproductive.
  2. Take Ownership: Recognize the choices you do have in how you react and shape your future story, rather than dwelling on what you can’t control.
  3. Reconnect & Rebuild: Invest time in family and supportive friends, as they often get pushed aside during busy times.
  4. Find New Purpose: Use extra time to meditate, focus on nutrition, try new hobbies, or pursue things you’ve always wanted to do.
  5. Seek Support: Talk to a therapist or counselor to process feelings and learn coping mechanisms for emotional turmoil.

General Strategies for Both

  • Set Small Goals: Break down large objectives into tiny, achievable steps to build momentum and positivity.
  • Focus on Health: Prioritize your mind-body-soul well-being, as it’s foundational for resilience and recovery.
  • Create a Routine: Establish a daily structure with productive, positive activities to feel in control and motivated.
  • Follow Your Intuition: Don’t jump to the next trend; instead, tap into your inner guidance to find truly aligned paths forward.”

Alice’s Analysis: Google’s advice sounds quite reasonable to me. What do you think about it?


CONCLUSION

I see from the above that the word ‘sidelining’ has a game-playing connotation. If a player is kept from playing during a game (if he is ‘benched’) he is said to be sidelined.

I asked Google if sidelining is a form of Bullying; Google averred that it is. Thus I added Sidelinging to my Bullying category under the subcategory ‘Game playing’. Here is the revised Bullying subcategory …


PSYCHIC IMPRESSIONS EMBEDDED IN MUSIC

I channeled these words as I heard the great music by Daniel Massa that is in this post. I think they are psychic impressions embedded by the musician in the music. I wonder if you can hear these words too? …

“Rain is falling down.
I’m walking in the rain, and I’m wet.
I’m walking in the rain, and I got wet.
Without the rain, I would not be wet.
On the other hand,
Without the rain,

The people would be dead.
I don’t mind
Walking in the rain.

And then at the end of the music I heard:
On the other hand,
I don’t mind
If the rain would stop.”

There was another time when I heard psychic impressions embedded in music. That was in the 1990s. As I recall the album was “Woolunda: Ten Solos for Didgeridoo” (1993) by David Hudson. IN the Australian Aboriginal culture, ‘Woolunda’ is the place of life after death. Here are highlights from the “Woolunda” album …

Video: “David Hudson – Woolunda (Ten Solos For Didgeridoo),” by BLISS, 28 April 2023 … https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6q9KC-B4JGY ..

I was playing the music loudly, and sitting right on the floor of my apartment right in front of the speaker. What I heard was the whispered words ‘My People … My People … My People.” I heard these words over and over again.

I had never heard of psychic impressions overlaid on or embedded in music before. I was so amazed by what I had heard that I phoned the artist and asked if I had heard right. He laughed and said, “Well, MAY-be.” I was amazed he would speak with me at all; he was quite famous even way back then.

And then on the other hand, I feel it is good to steer clear of very famous people. That’s a sure path to a personal inferiority complex … and surely is no way to escape being sidelined. Don’t you feel it to be so?

In love, light and joy
This is Alice B. Clagett.
I Am of the Stars … and so are you!

Compiled and published on 31 December 2025 revised on 17 February 2026

NOTE: In this post, quotes from Google AI are in light blue font.

Image: “In the Game,” adapted from Image by Alexander Fox | PlaNet Fox from Pixabay – Pixabay License

Image: “In the Game,” adapted from Image by Alexander Fox | PlaNet Fox from Pixabay – Pixabay License

 

Music by Daniel Massa from Pixabay – La Lluvia – Pixabay License

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Bludgeon Words

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Dear Ones,

‘Family’ is a bludgeon word. Like ‘Religion’ and ‘Nationality’.

In love, light and joy
This is Alice B. Clagett.
I Am of the Stars … and so are you!

Written and published on 20 November 2025

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Notice: “Lightworker Alchemy 2” Has Been Transcribed . by Alice B. Clagett

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Dear Ones,

I have just transcribed the video “Lightworker Alchemy 2,” in case you would like to take a look …

Link: “Lightworker Alchemy 2: Tools for Protection – Negative Aliens – Religious Opposition – Are Demons Helpful? – Direct Knowledge of God,” by Alice B. Clagett, filmed on 12 May 2025; published on 14 May 2025; and transcribed on 26 September 2025 … https://wp.me/p2Rkym-CuK ..

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God bless you all
And keep you safe,
And be with you
Through all your days!

In love, light and joy
This is Alice B. Clagett.
I Am of the Stars … and so are you!

Written and published on 26 September 2025

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Lightworker Alchemy 2: Tools for Protection – Negative Aliens – Religious Opposition – Are Demons Helpful? – Direct Knowledge of God . by Alice B. Clagett

Lightworker Alchemy 2: Tools for Protection - Negative Aliens - Religious Opposition - Are Demons Helpful? - Direct Knowledge of God

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  • INTRODUCTION
  • VIDEO BY ALICE
  • SUMMARY OF THE VIDEO
    • INTRODUCTION
    • MY FAVORITES
      • Redux: Misqualified Thought Forms
    • FERAL DRIVES – PACK INSTINCTS
    • HEALTH – HEALING
    • HUMAN SPECIES AND INTERSPECIES AND EXTRATERRESTRIAL COMMUNICATION
      • The Importance of This Category
      • Human Species Communication
      • Interspecies and Extraterrestrial Communication
        • Negative Earth Animals
        • Negative Alien Beings
    • THE LIGHTWORKER IDEAL OF PEACE ON EARTH
    • MENTAL FILTERS
    • MIND
    • PHYSICS OF ASCENSION: ASTROGEOPHYSICS – DIMENSIONS – TIMELINES – MASTERY OF TIME AND SPACE
    • PROTECTION – SANCTUARY – UPLIFTMENT
    • PSYCHOLOGY – PSYCHIATRY – SPIRITUAL COUNSELING
    • TWO CONFLICTING TOPICS: SELF-HELP VERSUS HELP FROM OTHER PEOPLE
    • RELIGIONS OF THE WORLD
    • SOCIAL ISSUES – HUMAN AFFAIRS – SOCIAL PLANNING
    • STAR BEINGS
      • Sidebar: How to Contact the Great Beings Known as the Planets of Our Solar System
    • THEOLOGY
    • MORE MISQUALIFIED THOUGHT FORMS
      • The Difference Between Theology and Theosophy
    • CONCLUSION
    • MORE INFORMATION
  • VIDEO CREDITS

INTRODUCTION

Dear Ones,

The topic of this video is “Tools for Protection – Negative Aliens – Religious Opposition – Are Demons Helpful? – Direct Knowledge of God.” This is the second of five videos in the Lightworker Alchemy series.

There is an edited Summary after the video.

VIDEO BY ALICE

SUMMARY OF THE VIDEO

INTRODUCTION

Hello, Dear Ones.

It’s Alice. I Am of the Stars.

We have been talking about strange thoughts in the noosphere, and how very odd they are … and how unrelated to us as Lightworkers … and whether they have to do with Sympathetic Magic, or maybe Black Magic practices from this country or that.

We have not yet discussed Black Magic from the Philippines. Before we do that, I think it would be a good idea to go over some of the tools in my website “Awakening with Planet Earth” that you can use to rid yourself of upsetting, recurring threads of misqualified noospheric energy in the noosphere.

You will find a tab called “Contents” under “More” on your handheld. Or it may be easily visible on my home page if you are using a PC. That tab includes a long table of Contents from which I am about to offer some examples.

MY FAVORITES

Under the category “My Favorites” are many different subcategories. One interesting subcategory is “Prayers – blessings – mantras – chants – affirmations – white magic – by Alice.”

Those are new ways that I come up with that may allow you to counter the Dark, and to make your energy feel very Light. It might be prayers or blessings or mantras or chants or affirmations or White Magic by me.

By ‘White Magic’ I do not mean White Magic that fights the Dark. I mean White Magic that creates Light.

Redux: Misqualified Thought Forms

In the last video we were talking about some very odd thoughts that I cannot place anywhere. These thoughts sound to me like what animals think; for instance …

  • The thought of throwing urine into a victim’s yard,
  • Or throwing feces into their yard,
  • Or throwing feces at them,
  • Or poisoning the victim’s plants,
  • Or trespassing on their property and vandalizing their property,
  • Or poisoning things inside their house (the thought, not the action),
  • Or having your cat hunt on the victim’s property. Why is that so bad, I wonder?
  • Or throwing rats or rodents into the victim’s yard. Why is that considered so bad? Why do I in fact think of it as being a very bad thing?
  • The notion of acting out rape on another person and visualizing that you are raping the victim;
  • All kinds of curses, like …
    • curses that the victim should fall down,
    • curses that the victim should fall ill,
    • and so on.
  • The notion of sending one’s Spirit (which I think of as the astral body) into the victim’s home to inflict harm on the victim’s wife or children,
  • Or of sending one’s Spirit into a pet of the victim or into a wild animal, and having that animal inflict harm on the victim.

I think that will do for now in terms of misqualified energy. We talked about this last time too.

FERAL DRIVES – PACK INSTINCTS

There is a category that I have in “Awakening with Planet Earth” that might help explain this. The category is “Feral drives – pack instincts.”

At one time, years ago, I found myself channeling all kinds of things about feral drives and pack instincts … mainly without research. It just came to me. But there were also some field trips to zoos in early morning hours in San Diego many, many years ago; and also reading I did about Jane Goodall and her work; and that of other researchers on primate behavior, which led me to an understanding of feral drives and pack instincts.

I think my writings on the topic “Feral drives – pack instincts” might help explain these very ‘out there’ thought forms that seem to be circulating through the noosphere.

‘Feral’ means ‘wild’. It might have to do with  wild instincts, or pack instincts, that were the motivating factor for the behavior of primates before they became human beings. These might be very deep within ourselves. We might be liberating them. We might be transforming them to the Light, and to higher understanding, so that we no longer act them out.

I suggest reading the posts in the category “Feral drives – pack instincts.” That includes the subcategories on …

  • Bonding,” “Competition,”
  • Dominance – submission,” and
  • Pack ordering.”

I think all those would be especially pertinent.

HEALTH – HEALING

Then there is my category “Contents: Health – healing.” In that category there is quite a bit. Among the available choices I suggest …

  • Activations of Light and Invocations,”
  • Languages of Light and Sound,” and
  • Physical Regeneration.”

That is because these are relatively new methods of healing the physical body and maintaining personal health that have been conveyed or channeled by the Lightworkers for all humankind.

I will read them to you again …

  • “Activations of Light and Invocations,”
  •  “Languages of Light and Sound,” and
  • “Physical Regeneration.”

These are in the larger category “Contents: Health – healing.”

HUMAN SPECIES AND INTERSPECIES AND EXTRATERRESTRIAL COMMUNICATION

The Importance of This Category

There is a category called “Contents: Human Species and Interspecies and Extraterrestrial Communication.” If, as a Lightworker, you would like to know whether animals have been grabbed by a Black Magic person and caused to attempt to inflict harm on you … spiritually, mentally, emotionally, or physically … then it might be good to know what the animals are saying to you.

In the category “Contents: Human Species and Interspecies and Extraterrestrial Communication,” there are many examples of what animals are speaking … transcriptions of what they are saying.

These transcriptions, along with the videos, allow you, as a human being, to develop the Ascension gift of Universal Translation. (For more on this see my blog category “Universal Translator from the Alpha Centauri star library.”)

Once you do that, you will know whether you need to do one of the Lightworker activities, such as Activations of Light, Invocations of Light, Languages of Light, or Languages of Sound, in order to heal yourself and prevent that from happening, so that you can arise above that and beyond that, to the greater Light.

Human Species Communication

It is our right, as Ascending human beings, to know the languages of all the beings of Earth, and of all the extraterrestrial beings … whether they be negative or positive extraterrestrial beings.

Once we see the Light, and hear the Light, and understand the Light, then we can have a positive effect on the Light. We have to understand what is happening in order to know that we rise beyond that through alignment with God or through the help of our Ascension team, or through change-up in the Dimensions and Timelines … whatever method we choose.

So we recognize when there is danger, and we turn to the Light. This category “Contents: Human Species and Interspecies and Extraterrestrial Communication” can do that for us. It can lay the groundwork for an understanding of where we are at this moment in this dual Universe … so that we maintain form; so that we stay healthy; so that we can do the work that we were sent here to do.

Also in that category is a discussion of “Subconscious and Unconscious Symbolism.” That category is for human beings, so that we can rise to an understanding of our subconscious and unconscious minds; so that we can move past that, to our higher minds; and so that we can avoid acting on the basis of things that we do not even know exist in our own energy fields.

Interspecies and Extraterrestrial Communication

Then as far as Interspecies Communication is concerned: A lot has been made of Negative Alien Beings. And a lot ought have been made of Positive Alien Beings … of Christed Alien Species without whose help we would not be here now.

There are, here on Earth, many beings … including reptiles and insects, among others … and including hostile micro-organisms, that work against our survival here on Earth. Everyone knows this.

Overlighting all those beings are Negative Alien Beings.

Negative Earth Animals. We all know to stay away from ants and termites and very aggressive bees and giant reptiles on foreign islands and venomous snakes and hungry mountain lions … and all the beings that threaten our survival on Earth.

When we stay away from those beings, we stay away from the influence of Negative Alien Beings. Do you see?

Nevertheless, it is very good to know the language of the hostile beings on Earth. In doing that, we also can counteract the overlighting Spirits of these beings, which are what popular literature calls ‘Aliens’ in a misguided attempt to use those Alien spirits to wage war against other human beings.

Negative Alien Beings. We human beings need to unite together to keep at bay the Negative Alien Beings which overlight the hostile beings … the predators that might prey upon humans. Here in the cities of Earth it is very easy to forget how many of these there are.

-It might be mold on barley.
– It might be infestations on our crops. It might be great flocks of grasshoppers that come down and eat our crops.
– It might be the great predators of the wild that will grab us if we find ourselves suddenly in the wilderness without support of what comes so easily to our aid in the cities.
– It might be the lack of medicine in rural locations, leading to our murder by hostile micro-organisms.

The idea that Negative Alien Beings will help us to fight other people is an irrelevant notion. The Negative Alien Beings are the forces destroy modern society … that destroy our lives … that destroy civilization.

THE LIGHTWORKER IDEAL OF PEACE ON EARTH

If we band together with other cultures that promote harmony in the world, then we will be doing a better job than if we were trying to fight other cultures.

If there are cultures that are overlit by these beings, then I can see that there might be a problem.

We as Lightworkers feel, not in fighting the Dark, but in increasing the Light. So the things that we do to increase our Light we feel will increase the Light of the World, and promote Peace and loving relationships between nations. We think these are more important than fighting.

On the other hand there are times … as everyone knows … when people must fight in order to preserve their own countries. We hope it will not come down to that. But instead, we hope that the things which people choose to watch, on their free time, on television, might promote a notion of Peace and inspiration for all the peoples of Earth, instead of casting Darkness into the noosphere.

It is hard to find that kind of viewing on television or in the movies. But the things that we choose to do … no matter how hard they are to find … might bring joy into our lives, and joy into our neighborhoods, and joy everywhere on Earth.

These are things that we can always choose to do.

You would be surprised how much our joy affects the joy of everyone everywhere … more so than self-defense. But here in this world and in these times, I admit that we must first set a state of survival for ourselves … and from there, move into joy.

MENTAL FILTERS

Now let’s go back to the categories you may find helpful …

There is a category called “Mental Filters.” I came up with this category to show how we come up with notions bubbling up from the subconscious mind, which then automatically influence our conscious behavior.

If you read a few of the Mental Filters described in that category, I think you will get an understanding of your own ‘jack-in=the=boxes’ that spring forth from your subconscious mind and suddenly cause you to act in a certain way.

That might then give you a chance to act rationally, where other people may not be acting rational, and not to be influenced by these weird snippets of information floating around in the noosphere.

MIND

Coming up next: The category “Contents: Mind.” In that category I suggest the subcategory “Mastery of Mind.” If you read that subcategory through, that will help, because we must master our own Minds in order not to be influenced by other people who want to master us.

We must stand with and for ourselves, in the Light of God, in order to prevent other people from tainting our energy field with Darkness. We have to have a notion what we are a stand-alone feature of our energy field.

We stand alone, with God. None other may injure us. Only God is there with us. He is there with us throughout this experience of this reality and this incarnation.

“Mastery of Mind.” That is the subcategory.

PHYSICS OF ASCENSION: ASTROGEOPHYSICS – DIMENSIONS – TIMELINES – MASTERY OF TIME AND SPACE

Then there is a section “Contents: Physics of Ascension: Astrogeophysics – Dimensions – Timelines – Mastery of Time and Space.” That whole section is extremely important to the Lightworker.

It is new information that is channeled by me … sometimes by others … sometimes we band together and channel things. Why not read that one through? Whatever strikes you as especially important.

PROTECTION – SANCTUARY – UPLIFTMENT

In terms of protecting ourselves from noospheric misqualified energy, there is a blog category called “Contents: Protection – sanctuary – upliftment.” This includes, for instance, meditations, prayers, prophecy, songs, and stories. All these will be helpful. These are for inspiration.

PSYCHOLOGY – PSYCHIATRY – SPIRITUAL COUNSELING

Then there is a blog category “Contents: Psychology – Psychiatry – Spiritual Counseling.” I vote for Spiritual Counseling. But others may like Psychology and Psychiatry. It is up to you. The category is there for you to peruse.

I think you will find many new things in it … things at which you may raise an eyebrow. These are tools available for free at my website.

TWO CONFLICTING TOPICS: SELF-HELP VERSUS HELP FROM OTHER PEOPLE

Reading again these two conflicting topics … or you might say, complementing each other: “Contents: Protection – sanctuary – upliftment.” That is one. “Contents: Psychology – Psychiatry – Spiritual Counseling.” That is another.

One is self-help. And the other is help from other people.

RELIGIONS OF THE WORLD

Just beneath that is the category “Contents: Religions of the World” … whatever religion appeals to you. I find interesting “Esoteric lore – occult mysteries – arcana.” That is because there are certain insights in that subcategory that supplement the world religions.

The thing about religion is that a lot of people think religion is the only answer.

But for the Lightworker a lot of the time religion is an impediment to bringing in the Light. That is because people often identify social values with religion. They mistake faith for institutions or for people in high places in institutions. They mistake faith for a building or a congregation.

Faith has to do with the presence of God in our hearts. Insofar as attendance in a church increases faith in God, then that church is useful to us … the Lightworkers … in bringing in the Light.

The minute that there are conspiracies and plots, or diminution of the Light, or an attempt to grab the Lightworker and put him or her in a Lightless cage, then religion ceases to be helpful to us.

The problem, as I see it, is that religion is an earthly institution, and that God stands beyond all that. Somehow we have to spring out of that trap of religion and find in ourselves the guiding Light of the foundation of all religions: the existence of God within us and beyond us.

If we can then attend a church service, or go to temple, read esoteric lore, or whatever it is … and not be caught within that box … but still remembering the Light as it comes down through us … If we can do that, then it is safe to go to church or temple or wherever it is. If we cannot, then we have to steer clear.

A lot of people going through this Ascension process find within their church nurturing and sustenance sufficient to their need in Ascending. It is up to you.

It’s like Jesus Christ in the temple: Lightworkers, like He, are cast out as pariahs, and so forth. Their Light is too great.

If that is the case for you, then try not to worry about it. Just go and worship in the temple of nature. Or worship in your own home. Make your house a great and beautiful place where God can reside with you. If you pray for those people in those other places during their time of worship, maybe that will help too.

So there is more than one way to do it. There are those that feel safer in a church or temple, and those that are cast out from that environment. And there may be churches and faiths where you as a Lightworker are welcome.

SOCIAL ISSUES – HUMAN AFFAIRS – SOCIAL PLANNING

I see, in the table of Contents, quite a few categories that are not that important because they are bound by time and space.

Contents: Social issues – human affairs – social planning” is a huge category. It includes things like …

  • Culture,”
  • Economics – economy,”
  • Government,” “History

… things that a lot of people find very interesting, but which are not too important to the Lightworker. We Lightworkers find these of less interest because they are topics specific to a particular timeline and dimensions. And we rise past that, as Lightworkers.

It is okay to look at this category, but it is not too important, I feel. The full name of the category, again, is “Contents: Social issues – human affairs – social planning.” You could put that on the back burner and save it for later on.

STAR BEINGS

Beneath that category is “Contents: Star Beings.” That is quite interesting to most Lightworkers.

I work with some of the Star Beings. But you may find most of that information elsewhere, with others of the Lightworkers. I suggest you just see what I have. It may supplement what you know.

There is a subcategory “Planets – Council of Nine.” That has to do with the Planets in our star system.

The Planets themselves are great beings. And the Sun is a great being. That is the basis for the notion of Astrology.

You as a Lightworker can come in contact with those great beings known as Planets … with the Sun itself … and with the Planets and Suns of other star systems. You can do that.

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Sidebar: How to Contact the Great Beings Known as the Planets of Our Solar System

How can we contact and speak with the Planets of our Solar System? The answers are here ….

Link: “Compendium: Lightworker Homework,” by Alice B. Clagett, compiled and published on 20 June 2022; revised on 14 July 2023 and on 11 September 2024 … https://wp.me/p2Rkym-rqc ..

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That will help rise you to rise above social issues, human affairs, and social planning. You will be in the Greater Light, far beyond what we call the ‘passing show’. So you might want to take a look at “Planets – Council of Nine,” which, as mentioned above, is a subcategory of the category “Star Beings.”

THEOLOGY

Another interesting category is “Contents: Theology.” That has to do with the study of God.

It is because of Theology that we have the current conflict in urban environments, and in countries like Brazil and the Philippines, between the Angelic Realm and the Demonic Realm.

If people were not so crushed together, I think they would immediately come to an understanding that alliance with the Angelic Realm is far preferable to alliance with the Demonic Realm.

Through the Angelic Realm we can live healthy, happy, fulfilled lives. But through alliance with the Demonic Realm we descend into Darkness.

All the Lightworkers know this. And yet, in the big cities … for instance, Los Angeles, here in the United States … or in Brazil, or in the Philippines, and in many other places on Earth … there is a great conflict with the Demonic Realm.

That conflict has established itself with some of the people, and is warring with the Angelic Realm. If you are a Lightworker, it is quite a Light show. It is quite incredible sometimes.

But we, as Lightworkers, need to detach ourselves from that fight.

The Dark always wants to war with the Light. But, as you know, the minute you walk into a Dark room and turn on the Light, the Dark flees. The Dark has no chance, really.

Only by marrying the Dark to cause-and-effect do we meld our energy with the Dark and come out with Grey-Grey.

That is not a good idea for a Lightworker. Do not turn the Light halfway on by fighting the Dark, here in the big cities of Earth. Rise past that, to the Light. And from the Light … from the Light of God … cast down Light upon Earth.

Do not argue with the Dark. So they say. For instance, on the astral plane I am hearing, “I will throw urine onto your tomato plants.” If I keep hearing this, over and over again, I will just remove my tomato plants. I can buy tomatoes at the store. I can buy them at the farmers’ market. I do not have to deal with this terrible thought.

I do not have to war with anybody. I can just take whatever action allows me to bring in the Light, and be joyful.

I have been hearing, on the astral plane, “I will trespass on your property and vandalize it.” I can hear this, year after year, or I can just make my fence a little higher. I can create an impediment that then gives me peace of mind.

I do not need to war. I can come up with a workaround.

MORE MISQUALIFIED THOUGHT FORMS

Back to those misqualified thought forms that have been circulating through the noosphere … Here is one: “I will send my hostile Spirit into your cat. While you are sleeping, the cat will give you nightmares.”

Okay, I can deal with that! The cat will not come into my bedroom at night.

If things get really awful sometimes … during certain states of the sphere of Earth … and if your cat is susceptible to things like that … you can leave your cat in the bathroom at night or when you are resting. Leave it with plenty of food and water and with a litter box. Make sure it is warm enough or cool enough in the bathroom. And so forth. Make it a nice place to be for your cat.

Then sleep someplace far from your cat. In that way you can prevent that from happening.

Unfortunately, lower animals are subject to Dark influences.

We in human form have the distinction of being able to use our higher minds and our very highest minds to influence the Darkness of our subconscious and unconscious minds, and to evade the Darkness on Earth. We do that with the help of others, who are much more Bright than we.

The idea here is that there is a Demonic Realm. There is an Angelic Realm. We invoke the Angels. We do not fight the Dark.

The Dark hopes that we will fight it. But we flood Light through Earth … just as turning on a Light switch in a Dark room would do. We create conditions that are safe for ourselves … safe for animals … safe for everybody on Earth.

We can do that.

GOD – SOURCE

Under the subcategory “God – Source,” there is a category called “Karma – incarnations – reincarnation – causal reality.” This is helpful to the Lightworker because an understanding of causal reality gives us an understanding of when we are in a Causal Trap; when we need to invoke a Higher Power to spring us out of the Causal Trap, the Karmic Trap, into the realm of Dharma … into the realm of blessed Light.

In that general category to do with “Karma – incarnations – reincarnation – causal reality,” there are two sub- subcategories that are good.

One is the “Glom Effect,” which can cause some right bad Ascension symptoms. We as Lightworkers want to escape from the “Glom Effect.”

Another sub- subcategory is “Grouping – leadership.” Grouping and leadership are that through which we Lightworkers. Many other people gang up against us in a glom effect to do with the misqualified energies coming in on the astral airs. These gangs of people try to convince us to group … to be led … and not to seek beyond Earthly power till we find God.

So these two subcategories … “Glom Effect” and “Grouping – leadership” … deserve a look by Lightworkers.

The Difference Between Theology and Theosophy. Also under “God – Source” is a sub- subcategory called “Theosophy – direct knowledge of God.”

You will notice the difference between “Theology” … which is teaching about God or wisdom about God … and “Theosophy” … which is direct knowledge of God. I am greatly in favor of Theosophy. But it is not for everybody. A lot of people want to read about it and believe it just as it is written down by others who were Theosophists. It is okay to take that path as well.

CONCLUSION

Let’s end for now. Next time, in the next video, we will begin with a favorite category of mine, called “Contents: Transcending the Dark – Courage Under Fire – Spiritual Warfare – Demon Wars.”

God bless you all
And keep you safe,
And be with you
Through all your days.

In love, light and joy
This is Alice B. Clagett.
I Am of the Stars … and so are you!

Filmed on 12 May 2025; published on 14 May 2025; and transcribed on 26 September 2025; revised on 7 October 2025
This is a high-definition film.

NOTE: As of 22 March 2026 the category: Human species and interspecies and extraterrestrial communication has been changed to Human species and interspecies and extraterrestrial communication – Universal kinship – All-sentience – Moral inclusivity – Non-speciesism ..

MORE INFORMATION

Names of my recommended blog categories and subcategories are in light blue font above. You can search my site to find the category or subcategory by that name. Also see …

Link: “Sympathetic Magic,” in Wikipedia … https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sympathetic_magic ..

Link: “Witchcraft in the Philippines,” in Wikipedia … https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Witchcraft_in_the_Philippines ..

Here is the link list for the entire Lightworker Alchemy Series … Link: “Tiny Anthology: Lightworker Alchemy Video Series,” by Alice B. Clagett, written and published on 7 October 2025 … https://wp.me/p2Rkym-EEa ..

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Kundalini Rising and Fear of Intimacy . by Alice B. Clagett

Kundalini Rising and Fear of Intimacy

Image: “Fear of the Light,” adapted from Image by Etienne Marais from Pixabay – Pixabay License

  • VIDEO BY ALICE
  • SUMMARY OF THE VIDEO
    • Modes of Sexuality that Interfere with Kundalini Rising
    • How The Feral Drive to Dominance/Submission, Which Rank Orders Primal Packs so as to Prevent Aggression, Is Superseded by One-Upmanship and Business Competition Today
    • Rectal Intercourse in Feral Packs Might Have Mitigated Fear of Other Pack Members
    • Perseverance of Early Childhood Rectal Intercourse into Adulthood May Indicate a Lower Fear Threshold, or an Inclination to Bully
    • Kundalini Energy Drawbacks of Rectal Intercourse; Possibility of Other Means of Sexual Expression
    • Energetic Likeness of Rectal Intercourse to Kaupman Drama Triangle (aka Perverse Triangle)
    • Preference for Rectal Intercourse May Indicate Fear of Intimacy
      • Venus Pose as a Way to Mitigate This Fear
      • On Developing a Sense of Self-Esteem and Self-Worth

Image: “Fear of the Light,” adapted from Image by Etienne Marais from Pixabay – Pixabay License

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Dear Ones,

Here is a video on the deleterious effect of one-upmanship and rectal intercourse on the kundalini energy.

There is an edited Summary after the video …

VIDEO BY ALICE

SUMMARY OF THE VIDEO

Hello, Dear Ones, It’s Alice. I Am of the Stars.

Modes of Sexuality that Interfere with Kundalini Rising

I have come across some information just now, to do with rectal intercourse. I know this is a topic  I have discussed a lot lately; and a lot of people do not like that I am talking about it.

But it is an important topic, because my teaching basis is in kundalini yoga. And rectal intercourse interrupts the flow of the kundalini, which is the flower of manhood and womanhood.

When there are social trends that diminish or distort the energetic potential of humankind, it is important to talk about it, I feel. And this is the premise on which I am basing the talks that I am giving about rectal intercourse.

How The Feral Drive to Dominance/Submission, Which Rank Orders Primal Packs so as to Prevent Aggression, Is Superseded by One-Upmanship and Business Competition Today

I was doing a blog on the planet Uranus today …

Link: “How Our Kind Thoughts for Planet Uranus Will Help Earth,” by Alice B. Clagett, filmed on 24 May 2017; published on 25 June 2017 … https://wp.me/p2Rkym-7oI ..

I was going over the thought that the feral drive to dominance and/or submission … which rank orders primal packs … like chimpanzees, and also wolf packs … and prevents them from too much aggression, one against the other  … is a form of behavior that used to take place in the animal realm, and which was superseded, in the modern day,

  • by the word game known as one-upmanship,
  • and also by the value of business competition, as expressed in the capitalist economic model worldwide …

Rectal Intercourse in Feral Packs Might Have Mitigated Fear of Other Pack Members

Just going back to the feral instinct, the feral drive, it seems to me that dominance/submission behaviors such as rectal intercourse … or in the case of women, sometimes vaginal intercourse by males with females in primal packs … was a way of mitigating fear of other pack members and of preventing violence, or preventing the thought that violence was going to be wreaked on one. And still is today.

Perseverance of Early Childhood Rectal Intercourse into Adulthood May Indicate a Lower Fear Threshold, or an Inclination to Bully

So my guess is, that the purpose of rectal intercourse among men could arise in early childhood, and it might have to do with a young man being beat up by other boys, for instance. Feelings of insecurity about being with one’s peers. And that it was considered by the very young child to be a way to avoid this violence in the group.

In the typical child, this behavior gives way to more subtle, verbal means of expressing submission to those felt to be stronger than one; and dominance towards those felt to be weaker than one. Which then rank order the peer group.

So it could be thought that rectal intercourse, especially amongst boys, is a form of failure to thrive, or a behavioral developmental disability, in the normal course of changing social interactions for a child. It might be like a stuckness at one point … something that the child has found to work for him. And that might indicate a greater degree of fear of other children in the person that has this behavior. Or, a greater degree of desire to bully, or dominate other children.

Kundalini Energy Drawbacks of Rectal Intercourse; Possibility of Other Means of Sexual Expression

I am just asking you to think about this because, chakrically speaking, rectal intercourse does not make any sense. If you are the recipient of rectal intercourse, what happens is a kind of backwards movement of the energy … a ruining of the fundament of the kundalini. And so, it is something very much to be avoided, for the person that is looking for spiritual development.

Of course there are many other ways that men can express affection together, and men and women can interact together sexually, that do not include rectal intercourse; that do not offer this kind of detrimental energetic.

Energetic Likeness of Rectal Intercourse to Kaupman Drama Triangle (aka Perverse Triangle)

I would like to say, for the man who enacts rectal intercourse upon another person that, to me, this kind of behavior is reminiscent of bullying. This is my guess; this is something to look into: Probably, for the man who enacts rectal intercourse upon another man, or upon his female spouse or another woman, it is possible that this may represent dysfunctional communication relationships in the natal family.

As you may know, we have what is called the Perverse Triangle …

Link: “Triangulation (psychology),” in Wikipedia … https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Triangulation_(psychology) … Search for the term: Perverse Triangle

… that nomenclature, I think, has been superseded by the term Karpman Drama Triangle …

Link: “Karpman Drama Triangle,” in Wikipedia … https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Karpman_drama_triangle ..

And then we have the more functional, challenge triangle …

Image: David Emerald’s TED* (*The Empowerment Dynamic) Triangle … http://www.clevelandconsultinggroup.com/articles/images/drama-triangle-3.jpg … DESCRIPTION: Two equilateral triangles, one above the other. The lower triangle is upside down, so that its base is near the base of the upper triangle. The upper triangle has to do with expression of passion and expectation of outcome; the corners of the triangle are labeled: creator, challenger, and coach. Most likely this is the ‘challenge triangle’. The lower triangle has to do with expression of anxiety and delineation of a problem; the corners of the triangle are labeled: victim, persecutor, and rescuer.

So the one involves an addictive, bullying behavior, a co-dependent behavior, and then there is the victim that is bullied. That is something to look at, I feel.

Preference for Rectal Intercourse May Indicate Fear of Intimacy

With regard to a man and a woman who typically prefer rectal intercourse, I think it is possible … I think we should look into the possibility that this may indicate fear of intimacy.

Venus Pose as a Way to Mitigate This Fear. And then we might look into ways to work with Venus Pose … that emphasizes communication with the eyes, especially while doing difficult stationary or moving kriyas …

Link: Healthy Happy Holy Organization (3HO) … https://www.3ho.org/ Search the term: Venus Kriyas

What that does is, it strengthens the ability of a couple to depend upon each other. And that confidence in the other person looking out for one, and covering one, and coming to one’s assistance in times of trouble, such as during a difficult kriya, helps the fear of intimacy.

On Developing a Sense of Self-Esteem and Self-Worth. So it is not at all surprising that Venus Kriyas are part of the kundalini yoga technique, which is for the flowering of the energy systems of men and women. Because the flowering cannot take place without improvement of self-esteem; a feeling of self-worth, and the belief that one can be intimate with one’s sexual partner without too much fear being involved in that.

In love, light and joy
This is Alice B. Clagett.
I Am of the Stars … and so are you!

Filmed on 23 June 2017; published on 30 June 2017; revised on 17 February 2025
Previously titled: Rectal Intercourse, Kundalini Rising, and Fear of Intimacy

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