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Kundalini Rising and Fear of Intimacy . by Alice B. Clagett

Filmed on 23 June 2017
Previously titled: Rectal Intercourse, Kundalini Rising, and Fear of Intimacy

  • VIDEO BY ALICE
  • SUMMARY OF THE VIDEO
    • Modes of Sexuality that Interfere with Kundalini Rising
    • How The Feral Drive to Dominance/Submission, Which Rank Orders Primal Packs so as to Prevent Aggression, Is Superseded by One-Upmanship and Business Competition Today
    • Rectal Intercourse in Feral Packs Might Have Mitigated Fear of Other Pack Members
    • Perseverance of Early Childhood Rectal Intercourse into Adulthood May Indicate a Lower Fear Threshold, or an Inclination to Bully
    • Kundalini Energy Drawbacks of Rectal Intercourse; Possibility of Other Means of Sexual Expression
    • Energetic Likeness of Rectal Intercourse to Kaupman Drama Triangle (aka Perverse Triangle)
    • Preference for Rectal Intercourse May Indicate Fear of Intimacy
      • Venus Pose as a Way to Mitigate This Fear
      • On Developing a Sense of Self-Esteem and Self-Worth

Dear Ones,

Here is a video on the deleterious effect of one-upmanship and rectal intercourse on the kundalini energy,

There is an edited Summary after the video …

VIDEO BY ALICE

SUMMARY OF THE VIDEO

Hello, Dear Ones, It’s Alice. I Am of the Stars.

Modes of Sexuality that Interfere with Kundalini Rising

I have come across some information just now, to do with rectal intercourse. I know this is a topic  I have discussed a lot lately; and a lot of people do not like that I am talking about it.

But it is an important topic, because my teaching basis is in kundalini yoga. And rectal intercourse interrupts the flow of the kundalini, which is the flower of manhood and womanhood.

When there are social trends that diminish or distort the energetic potential of humankind, it is important to talk about it, I feel. And this is the premise on which I am basing the talks that I am giving about rectal intercourse.

How The Feral Drive to Dominance/Submission, Which Rank Orders Primal Packs so as to Prevent Aggression, Is Superseded by One-Upmanship and Business Competition Today

I was doing a blog on the planet Uranus today …

Link: “How Our Kind Thoughts for Planet Uranus Will Help Earth,” by Alice B. Clagett, filmed on 24 May 2017; published on 25 June 2017 … http://wp.me/p2Rkym-7oI ..

I was going over the thought that the feral drive to dominance and/or submission … which rank orders primal packs … like chimpanzees, and also wolf packs … and prevents them from too much aggression, one against the other  … is a form of behavior that used to take place in the animal realm, and which was superceded, in the modern day,

  • by the word game known as one-upmanship,
  • and also by the value of business competition, as expressed in the capitalist economic model worldwide …

Rectal Intercourse in Feral Packs Might Have Mitigated Fear of Other Pack Members

Just going back to the feral instinct, the feral drive, it seems to me that dominance/submission behaviors such as rectal intercourse … or in the case of women, sometimes vaginal intercourse by males with females in primal packs … was a way of mitigating fear of other pack members and of preventing violence, or preventing the thought that violence was going to be wreaked on one. And still is today.

Perseverance of Early Childhood Rectal Intercourse into Adulthood May Indicate a Lower Fear Threshold, or an Inclination to Bully

So my guess is, that the purpose of rectal intercourse among men could arise in early childhood, and it might have to do with a young man being beat up by other boys, for instance. Feelings of insecurity about being with one’s peers. And that it was considered by the very young child to be a way to avoid this violence in the group.

In the typical child, this behavior gives way to more subtle, verbal means of expressing submission to those felt to be stronger than one; and dominance towards those felt to be weaker than one. Which then rank order the peer group.

So it could be thought that rectal intercourse, especially amongst boys, is a form of failure to thrive, or a behavioral developmental disability, in the normal course of changing social interactions for a child. It might be like a stuckness at one point … something that the child has found to work for him. And that might indicate a greater degree of fear of other children in the person that has this behavior. Or, a greater degree of desire to bully, or dominate other children.

Kundalini Energy Drawbacks of Rectal Intercourse; Possibility of Other Means of Sexual Expression

I am just asking you to think about this because, chakrically speaking, rectal intercourse does not make any sense. If you are the recipient of rectal intercourse, what happens is a kind of backwards movement of the energy … a ruining of the fundament of the kundalini. And so, it is something very much to be avoided, for the person that is looking for spiritual development.

Of course there are many other ways that men can express affection together, and men and women can interact together sexually, that do not include rectal intercourse; that do not offer this kind of detrimental energetic.

Energetic Likeness of Rectal Intercourse to Kaupman Drama Triangle (aka Perverse Triangle)

I would like to say, for the man who enacts rectal intercourse upon another person that, to me, this kind of behavior is reminiscent of bullying. This is my guess; this is something to look into: Probably, for the man who enacts rectal intercourse upon another man, or upon his female spouse or another woman, it is possible that this may represent dysfunctional communication relationships in the natal family.

As you may know, we have what is called the Perverse Triangle …

Link: “Triangulation (psychology),” in Wikipedia … https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Triangulation_(psychology) … Search for the term: Perverse Triangle

… that nomenclature, I think, has been superceded by the term Karpman Drama Triangle …

Link: “Karpman Drama Triangle,” in Wikipedia … https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Karpman_drama_triangle ..

And then we have the more functional, challenge triangle …

Image: David Emerald’s TED* (*The Empowerment Dynamic) Triangle … http://www.clevelandconsultinggroup.com/articles/images/drama-triangle-3.jpg … DESCRIPTION: Two equilateral triangles, one above the other. The lower triangle is upside down, so that its base is near the base of the upper triangle. The upper triangle has to do with expression of passion and expectation of outcome; the corners of the triangle are labeled: creator, challenger, and coach. Most likely this is the ‘challenge triangle’. The lower triangle has to do with expression of anxiety and delineation of a problem; the corners of the triangle are labeled: victim, persecutor, and rescuer.

So the one involves an addictive, bullying behavior, a co-dependent behavior, and then there is the victim that is bullied. That is something to look at, I feel.

Preference for Rectal Intercourse May Indicate Fear of Intimacy

With regard to a man and a woman who typically prefer rectal intercourse, I think it is possible … I think we should look into the possibility that this may indicate fear of intimacy.

Venus Pose as a Way to Mitigate This Fear. And then we might look into ways to work with Venus Pose … that emphasizes communication with the eyes, especially while doing difficult stationary or moving kriyas …

Link: “About Venus Kriyas,” by Jivan Joti Kaur … https://www.3ho.org/3ho-lifestyle/authentic-relationships/about-venus-kriyas ..

What that does is, it strengthens the ability of a couple to depend upon each other. And that confidence in the other person looking out for one, and covering one, and coming to one’s assistance in times of trouble, such as during a difficult kriya, helps the fear of intimacy.

On Developing a Sense of Self-Esteem and Self-Worth. So it is not at all surprising that Venus Kriyas are part of the kundalini yoga technique, which is for the flowering of the energy systems of men and women. Because the flowering cannot take place without improvement of self-esteem; a feeling of self-worth, and the belief that one can be intimate with one’s sexual partner without too much fear being involved in that.

In love, light and joy,
I Am of the Stars

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Community Health: Rape by Caregivers in Health-Care Institutions . by Alice B. Clagett

Wreitten and published on 4 October 2016

  • VULNERABLE PATIENT POPULATIONS
  • PHYSICAL OR PHARMACEUTICAL RESTRAINT ACTIVATES THE KARPMAN DRAMA TRIANGLE
  • DISCLOSURE OF PATIENT ABUSE THROUGH TELEPATHY IS ON THE RISE WORLDWIDE
  • ON CAREGIVERS COMMUNICATING CLAIRLY WITH THE PATIENT WHO CANNOT SPEAK PHYSICALLY
  • SEXUAL FULFILLMENT FOR PATIENTS IN HEALTH-CARE INSTITUTIONS
  • ON TURNING THE KARPMAN DRAMA TRIANGLE TO A FUNCTIONAL TRIANGLE RELATIONSHIP

Dear Ones,

I found out last night, on the clair plane, that there are ongoing instances of caregiver rape of patients in health-care institutions.

VULNERABLE PATIENT POPULATIONS

My feeling is, that this is widespread, even commonplace. Here are a few categories of patients who may be most vulnerable …

  • Babies, children and adults with developmental disabilities (1) who are in long-term healthcare institutions. This includes:
    • Autists both young and old,
    • Deaf-mute children and adults
    • Down Syndrome babies and adults,
    • Thalidomide babies, now adult,
    • Children and adults with severe mental disorders,
    • Children and adults with very impaired IQ,
    • Conjoined twins who are institutionalized,
    • and many others
  • Senior adults … including Alzheimer’s patients and Sundowning Syndrome patients in retirement homes who are sedated and restrained to their beds
  • Adults who have been anesthetized by hospitals
  • Moribund patients in hospitals, and
  • The bodies of recently deceased patients … often in a hospital morgue or in a funeral home (2)
  • among others

PHYSICAL OR PHARMACEUTICAL RESTRAINT ACTIVATES THE KARPMAN DRAMA TRIANGLE

My feeling is, physical or pharmaceutical restraint, as is the case for patients in the above categories, can initiate acting out of the Karpman Drama Triangle (also called the Perverse Triangle) …

Link: “Karpman Drama Triangle,” in Wikipedia, https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Karpman_drama_triangle ..

… if a caretaker, especially a nocturnal male caretaker, has experienced this dysfunctional family constellation in childhood.

The Karpman Drama Triangle has three features: The Persecutor (elsewhere termed the Abuser or Bully), the Rescuer (elsewhere termed the Enabler), and the Victim. In natal families, these rolls can be acted out by different family members at different times. A typical example is a bullying alcoholic father, a mother who makes excuses for him and tries to patch things up, and a child who is physically or emotionally abused by the father.

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Image: “Karpman Drama Triangle” by Steve Karpman, in Wikimedia Commons …  https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:PAULRYDER_DT.png ..

Image: “Karpman Drama Triangle” by Steve Karpman, in Wikimedia Commons …  https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:PAULRYDER_DT.png ..

Typically, the Persecutor in this Karpman Drama Triangle is a male night doctor, nurse, intern, or janitor, who will have a habit of raping a favorite patient, or a certain category of patient (such as anesthetized, sedated, moribund, or deceased), nocturnally. He may also be having sex with a female attendant, who through sexual bonding with him allows the rapes to occur. He may ask her to ‘clean up after him’ nightly. Thus the female attendant in this scenario is the Rescuer, and the patient is the Victim in this version of the Karpman Triangle Drama.

DISCLOSURE OF PATIENT ABUSE THROUGH TELEPATHY IS ON THE RISE WORLDWIDE

Telepathy is on the rise worldwide, and it becomes immediately obvious to the discerning telepath when these instances of health-care rape take place. To be clear, we can see them and hear them as if they were happening in our own homes. We can also feel them … as if our own physical bodies were being raped …

For instance, in the case of the rape of a physically restrained woman that took place last night, both I and a family member experienced the rape as if it were physically happening in our own EMF fields. This clair ability is called clairsentience, or intuitive knowing by feeling. See Link: “‘Meet the Clairs’ – 10 Kinds of Intuition – August 2016,” by Emily Matweow …  http://www.okinhealth.com/articles/10-clairsenses-intuition-emily-matweow ..

These telepathic disclosures are taking place to what I can only term the horror of increasingly clairsentient family and friends of institutionalized patients.

Because  these instances of sometimes long-term ongoing physical and emotional abuse of patients can no longer be hidden from the public eye, this misbehavior is now quite likely to be brought to the attention of health-care administrators through phone calls or visits by concerned family and friends. My feeling is that immediate loss of work would be the likely outcome of such a conversation … no matter what the credentials of the abusive staff member may be.

As the first of these rapes are disclosed and dealt with through public censure and job loss, I feel that the warning will go out for others in similar situations, and behavior modification, albeit motivated by fear of reprisal, will quite quickly begin to take place.

This, then, is an alert regarding what passed for relatively normal, and easily concealed, in the past, and what is now nightly being disclosed to the open eyes and ears of the global telepathic community. I call for an end to rape in health-care institutions. Know that what once was can no longer be, and take steps on an administrative level to ensure the ongoing physical and emotional safety of your patients.

ON CAREGIVERS COMMUNICATING CLAIRLY WITH THE PATIENT WHO CANNOT SPEAK PHYSICALLY

There are patients without the power to speak on the physical plane, for example …

  • Some children and adults with autism
  • Some deaf-mute children and adults, and
  • Some adults who were thalidomide babies
  • among others

These patients who have no voice in the physical world have been in past more often than not thought too stupid to learn, too mentally impaired to be considered human, and the like. Helen Keller’s autobiography proves that this notion that the human heart and Soul are in some way dimmed or diminished by inability to communicate with the physical voice is false …

Link: “Helen Keller,” in Wikipedia … https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Helen_Keller ..

Nevertheless, because of the tendency of humans to flock together with those who resemble them physically, and because the notion of severe developmental disability of others causes the caregivers’ own hearts to suffer, this notion of diminishment is prevalent in the world today. Yet the Soul’s awareness shines, undimmed, through the most severely impaired physical incarnations, such as, for instance, that of fetus in fetu.

For an instance of the Soul shining through a very limited physical incarnation, that of fetus in fetu, see Link: “Ego 2: One Ego Encapsulated in Another; Body Co-Tenancy and Soul Evolution,” by Alice B. Clagett, published on 17 August 2016; revised on 11 October 2018 … http://wp.me/p2Rkym-613 ..

As telepathy becomes global, it will gradually become clear to health-care institution caretakers and administrators that they can, in fact, communicate with  patients on the clair plane even though these patients can’t communicate with their physical voice. Through inductive reasoning, staff will all in an instant ascertain that these patients are human beings, people such as the staff themselves, and that they are worthy of supportive, educative care. What seemed to be non-abusive care, both physical and verbal, for these patients in times past, will be increasingly apprehended as abusive and nonsupportive of the patient’s welfare.

As caretakers and administrators become more familiar with the clairaudient plane, they will be better able to help their clairaudient patients lead happy, fulfilling lives, even though they may be incapable of physical speech. Further, clair communication will bring these sensorily isolated patients back into a sense of community with their fellow patients as well as their caregivers.

As telepathy has no geographic barriers, these patients will be able to reunite with and communicate with their families, no matter how distant they may be from them on the physical plane, and this raises the prospect of healing natal family dynamics, even though the children may be grown up now.

One caveat in this regard: When families who have institutionalized their children become aware that their children, or grown-up children, are in fact shining and perfect in Soul apprehension and clair communication, painful family emotional issues regarding anger at abandonment are bound to come up right away. Let us on the clair plane be available to assist the staff of health-care facilities in resolving these Soul wounding issues for the families involved.

SEXUAL FULFILLMENT FOR PATIENTS IN HEALTH-CARE INSTITUTIONS

As to the issue of sexual fulfillment in these situations, my feeling is that the United States are very backward in this regard … as is the case with the American penal institutions. Compare, for instance, American policy on conjugal visits for prisoners with the policies of other nations.

No human being can be expected to be in mental and emotional harmony if the means are not readily and non-disparagingly at hand for their sexual fulfillment. Yet due to our the strong Puritanical tradition in America, these means are often flat-out forbidden. Surely the administrators of our health-care institutions can revise these rules and find a middle path that brings in the compassionate heart, and a deeper understanding of the emotional needs of the patients under their care.

ON TURNING THE KARPMAN DRAMA TRIANGLE TO A FUNCTIONAL TRIANGLE RELATIONSHIP

When positive emotional energies are introduced into a Karpman Triangle relationship, then the result is what is known as the Empowerment Dynamic or the TED*  …

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Image: “Image showing the relationship between Karpman’s Drama Triangle and it’s opposite *The Empowerment Dynamic (The TED* Triangle),” by Davidemerald … https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Drama-Triangle-The-Empowerment-Dynamic.jpg ..

Image: “Image showing the relationship between Karpman’s Drama Triangle and it’s opposite *The Empowerment Dynamic (The TED* Triangle),” by Davidemerald … https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Drama-Triangle-The-Empowerment-Dynamic.jpg ..

As can be seen from the above image, introduction of positive emotions can change the Persecutor-Rescuer-Victim interaction to these roles: Challenger-Coach-Creator. This type of switch-up can take place in health-care institution interactions with patients, as within natal families and in workplace situations. It can happen, in fact, in almost every set of human relationships.

For more on this, see Link: “Escape the DDT with TED,” by David Emerald Womeldorff, 30 October 2014 … https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-B2U7zunaq8  … and …  www.powerofTED.com ..

In love, light and joy,
I Am of the Stars

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FOOTNOTES

(1) Link: “Developmental Disability,” in Wikipedia … https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Developmental_disability ..

(2) This may seem less important, but for those who understand astral plane communication and the afterlife, it will be clear that this practice has a deleterious effect on the astral matter and social behavior of the necrophiliac, on the astral form of the recently deceased person, and on the families and friend of the deceased person.

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