Kundalini Rising and Fear of Intimacy . by Alice B. Clagett

Filmed on 23 June 2017; published on 30 June 2017
Previously titled: Rectal Intercourse, Kundalini Rising, and Fear of Intimacy

  • VIDEO BY ALICE
  • SUMMARY OF THE VIDEO
    • Modes of Sexuality that Interfere with Kundalini Rising
    • How The Feral Drive to Dominance/Submission, Which Rank Orders Primal Packs so as to Prevent Aggression, Is Superseded by One-Upmanship and Business Competition Today
    • Rectal Intercourse in Feral Packs Might Have Mitigated Fear of Other Pack Members
    • Perseverance of Early Childhood Rectal Intercourse into Adulthood May Indicate a Lower Fear Threshold, or an Inclination to Bully
    • Kundalini Energy Drawbacks of Rectal Intercourse; Possibility of Other Means of Sexual Expression
    • Energetic Likeness of Rectal Intercourse to Kaupman Drama Triangle (aka Perverse Triangle)
    • Preference for Rectal Intercourse May Indicate Fear of Intimacy
      • Venus Pose as a Way to Mitigate This Fear
      • On Developing a Sense of Self-Esteem and Self-Worth

Dear Ones,

Here is a video on the deleterious effect of one-upmanship and rectal intercourse on the kundalini energy,

There is an edited Summary after the video …

VIDEO BY ALICE

SUMMARY OF THE VIDEO

Hello, Dear Ones, It’s Alice. I Am of the Stars.

Modes of Sexuality that Interfere with Kundalini Rising

I have come across some information just now, to do with rectal intercourse. I know this is a topic  I have discussed a lot lately; and a lot of people do not like that I am talking about it.

But it is an important topic, because my teaching basis is in kundalini yoga. And rectal intercourse interrupts the flow of the kundalini, which is the flower of manhood and womanhood.

When there are social trends that diminish or distort the energetic potential of humankind, it is important to talk about it, I feel. And this is the premise on which I am basing the talks that I am giving about rectal intercourse.

How The Feral Drive to Dominance/Submission, Which Rank Orders Primal Packs so as to Prevent Aggression, Is Superseded by One-Upmanship and Business Competition Today

I was doing a blog on the planet Uranus today …

Link: “How Our Kind Thoughts for Planet Uranus Will Help Earth,” by Alice B. Clagett, filmed on 24 May 2017; published on 25 June 2017 … https://wp.me/p2Rkym-7oI ..

I was going over the thought that the feral drive to dominance and/or submission … which rank orders primal packs … like chimpanzees, and also wolf packs … and prevents them from too much aggression, one against the other  … is a form of behavior that used to take place in the animal realm, and which was superseded, in the modern day,

  • by the word game known as one-upmanship,
  • and also by the value of business competition, as expressed in the capitalist economic model worldwide …

Rectal Intercourse in Feral Packs Might Have Mitigated Fear of Other Pack Members

Just going back to the feral instinct, the feral drive, it seems to me that dominance/submission behaviors such as rectal intercourse … or in the case of women, sometimes vaginal intercourse by males with females in primal packs … was a way of mitigating fear of other pack members and of preventing violence, or preventing the thought that violence was going to be wreaked on one. And still is today.

Perseverance of Early Childhood Rectal Intercourse into Adulthood May Indicate a Lower Fear Threshold, or an Inclination to Bully

So my guess is, that the purpose of rectal intercourse among men could arise in early childhood, and it might have to do with a young man being beat up by other boys, for instance. Feelings of insecurity about being with one’s peers. And that it was considered by the very young child to be a way to avoid this violence in the group.

In the typical child, this behavior gives way to more subtle, verbal means of expressing submission to those felt to be stronger than one; and dominance towards those felt to be weaker than one. Which then rank order the peer group.

So it could be thought that rectal intercourse, especially amongst boys, is a form of failure to thrive, or a behavioral developmental disability, in the normal course of changing social interactions for a child. It might be like a stuckness at one point … something that the child has found to work for him. And that might indicate a greater degree of fear of other children in the person that has this behavior. Or, a greater degree of desire to bully, or dominate other children.

Kundalini Energy Drawbacks of Rectal Intercourse; Possibility of Other Means of Sexual Expression

I am just asking you to think about this because, chakrically speaking, rectal intercourse does not make any sense. If you are the recipient of rectal intercourse, what happens is a kind of backwards movement of the energy … a ruining of the fundament of the kundalini. And so, it is something very much to be avoided, for the person that is looking for spiritual development.

Of course there are many other ways that men can express affection together, and men and women can interact together sexually, that do not include rectal intercourse; that do not offer this kind of detrimental energetic.

Energetic Likeness of Rectal Intercourse to Kaupman Drama Triangle (aka Perverse Triangle)

I would like to say, for the man who enacts rectal intercourse upon another person that, to me, this kind of behavior is reminiscent of bullying. This is my guess; this is something to look into: Probably, for the man who enacts rectal intercourse upon another man, or upon his female spouse or another woman, it is possible that this may represent dysfunctional communication relationships in the natal family.

As you may know, we have what is called the Perverse Triangle …

Link: “Triangulation (psychology),” in Wikipedia … https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Triangulation_(psychology) … Search for the term: Perverse Triangle

… that nomenclature, I think, has been superseded by the term Karpman Drama Triangle …

Link: “Karpman Drama Triangle,” in Wikipedia … https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Karpman_drama_triangle ..

And then we have the more functional, challenge triangle …

Image: David Emerald’s TED* (*The Empowerment Dynamic) Triangle … http://www.clevelandconsultinggroup.com/articles/images/drama-triangle-3.jpg … DESCRIPTION: Two equilateral triangles, one above the other. The lower triangle is upside down, so that its base is near the base of the upper triangle. The upper triangle has to do with expression of passion and expectation of outcome; the corners of the triangle are labeled: creator, challenger, and coach. Most likely this is the ‘challenge triangle’. The lower triangle has to do with expression of anxiety and delineation of a problem; the corners of the triangle are labeled: victim, persecutor, and rescuer.

So the one involves an addictive, bullying behavior, a co-dependent behavior, and then there is the victim that is bullied. That is something to look at, I feel.

Preference for Rectal Intercourse May Indicate Fear of Intimacy

With regard to a man and a woman who typically prefer rectal intercourse, I think it is possible … I think we should look into the possibility that this may indicate fear of intimacy.

Venus Pose as a Way to Mitigate This Fear. And then we might look into ways to work with Venus Pose … that emphasizes communication with the eyes, especially while doing difficult stationary or moving kriyas …

Link: Healthy Happy Holy Organization (3HO) … https://www.3ho.org/ Search the term: Venus Kriyas

What that does is, it strengthens the ability of a couple to depend upon each other. And that confidence in the other person looking out for one, and covering one, and coming to one’s assistance in times of trouble, such as during a difficult kriya, helps the fear of intimacy.

On Developing a Sense of Self-Esteem and Self-Worth. So it is not at all surprising that Venus Kriyas are part of the kundalini yoga technique, which is for the flowering of the energy systems of men and women. Because the flowering cannot take place without improvement of self-esteem; a feeling of self-worth, and the belief that one can be intimate with one’s sexual partner without too much fear being involved in that.

In love, light and joy,
I Am of the Stars

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