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Community Health: Cults That Kill and Outlaw Gangs . by Alice B. Clagett

Written and published on 7 December 2015; revised

Image: “Cult,” by Alice B. Clagett, 7 December 2015, CC BY SA-4.0, from “Awakening with Planet Earth,” https://awakeningwithplanetearth.com … DESCRIPTION:  The word: CULT, with the ‘T’ as a silhouette of Christ crucified. CREDIT: The crucifixion image is from https://pixabay.com/vectors/crucifixion-cross-christian-jesus-310428/ … CC0 Public Domain. Free for commercial use. No attribution required.

Image: “Cult,” by Alice B. Clagett, 7 December 2015, CC BY SA-4.0, from “Awakening with Planet Earth,” https://awakeningwithplanetearth.com … DESCRIPTION:  The word: CULT, with the ‘T’ as a silhouette of Christ crucified. CREDIT: The crucifixion image is from https://pixabay.com/vectors/crucifixion-cross-christian-jesus-310428/ … CC0 Public Domain. Free for commercial use. No attribution required.

  • CHARLES MANSON ORDERED HIS GROUP TO KILL ON HIS BEHALF
  • RULES OF CULTS THAT KILL AND OUTLAW GANGS
  • PATHOLOGICAL SEXUAL PATTERNS IN CULTS THAT KILL AND OUTLAW GANGS
  • CULTS AND OUTLAW GANGS COMPARED TO STREET GANGS
  • MORE INFORMATION

Dear Ones,

For those not in the know, this blog is not about me; I researched the topic to do with what intuition told me might be a ‘Controller’ who was the head of a ‘killing cult’. I had left the group, and felt at the time (some time ago) that I was in danger of being murdered by members of the group at his behest, and because of his anger towards me at leaving the group as soon as I got a whiff of what was going on there.

Below are some reflections on the unusual grouping mode of cults that kill (including the famed United States Mafia). I have certainly gotten an astral earful of all this while on vacation in Colorado this past year. However, that I heard about it on the psychic plane while in the Wild West is no proof that anything of that nature has happened there: As you all no doubt have found out by now, the astral plane has no geography. It takes naught but thought to zip us from one astral place to the next, all in the wink of an eye, no matter what the distance …

CHARLES MANSON ORDERED HIS GROUP TO KILL ON HIS BEHALF

I read online recently about Charles Manson cult. The cult members went on a killing spree, but he himself never murdered anyone. Nevertheless, he was convicted of first-degree murder … seven counts thereof … because his was the order that the cult members carry out these deeds.  –Adapted from Link: “If Not a Serial Killer, Then What Is Charles Manson? A Fanatical Cult Leader, Manson Ordered His Followers to Kill,” by Scott A. Bonn, Ph.D., 24 March 2014 … https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/wicked-deeds/201403/if-not-serial-killer-then-what-is-charles-manson ..

(This I feel took place because he found the act of murder compellingly gratifying, but did not want to get caught himself.

From the perspective of the leader of a killing cult or outlaw gang, each of the members is an interchangeable potential fatal sacrifice to the altar of the gang leader’s megalomania.

OPERATING PROCEDURE OF CULTS THAT KILL AND OUTLAW GANGS (INCLUDING THE UNITED STATES MAFIA)

News from the astral plane …

  • The leader of a killing cult or outlaw gang will be supremely adept at mind control and emotional manipulation.
  • Sometimes the leader of the cult or outlaw gang will avoid personally killing anyone; this appears to have been the case with Charles Manson, for instance. However, the leader of a killing cult will take vicarious satisfaction in slayings by the members of his group.
  • Cult members (outlaws) are partitioned, in the cult leader’s mind, into ‘killing members’ (his temporary alter egos) and non-killing members (the ‘lambs’). ‘Alter egos’ are clearly complicit.
  • The leader will attempt to addict ‘lambs’ to drugs through violent attack, and then rape them. His wife may be present during this ritual, which is an attempt to induct the non-killing member into ‘killing member’ status, sometimes successful and sometimes not.
  • The leader will ask the non-killing members to sacrificed their family members, friends, and acquaintances  ‘for the good of the group’. This act of sacrifice makes the ‘lambs’ complicit as well. (I note a time-honored confidence game gambit called ‘the cull’; this consists of relentless attempts, by hook or by crook, to dissolve the bonds of affection between the ‘lamb’ and his or her family and friends, so that the cult or outlaw group will then supersede them in the eyes of the ‘lamb’.)
  • Members who cannot be compromised are killed; this is explained to the group as being ‘for the good of the group’. Thus all remaining group members, whether alter egos or lambs, are complicit.
  • Killing must occur to sate the compelling need-to-kill of the leader, and to consolidate his power.
  • ‘Lambs’ are sacrificed before ‘alter egos’.
  • ‘Alter egos’ who have killed too often, and who draw attention to themselves, are killed.
  • If there is a female without followers who is on the outs with the leader’s wife, she will be ‘sacrificed’ by the leader’s wife on home turf. The leader or his alter egos will be present.
  • If the female who is ‘on the outs’ leaves the cult’s home turf, the leader will send male members of the group, in ones or twos, to kill her. The leader will say to himself, subconsciously: She knows too much. She knows who and what I am.
  • If there is a male who is on the outs with the leader, he will be killed by the leader or his alter egos. Whether or not the leader participates, he will be present for the kill.
  • Black magic, and periodic, ritual blood sacrifice, especially of infants, prepubescent boys, and voluptuous women, are features of killing cults.
  • Torture of group members is a feature of killing cults; this occurs when murder victims are unavailable. The cult leader will advise cult members who are tortured that this is ‘for their own good’.
  • Extreme fear … terror of being caught out or of being killed … is the hallmark of membership in killing cults.

PATHOLOGICAL SEXUAL PATTERNS IN CULTS THAT KILL AND OUTLAW GANGS (INCLUDING THE UNITED STATES MAFIA)

According to the ‘astral airs’, there are various pathological sexual trends in a killing cult or outlaw gang, including the United States Mafia …

  •  The leader will, ideally to his way of thinking, have sex with all group members, male and female, and he may prevent them from having sex with each other. This is a bonding ritual of members with the leader, to do with feral pack instincts.
  • Those who have sex most often with the leader are his most significant alter egos; they may undergo genital mutilation or tattooing as a mark of membership in the cult.
  • Killing members of the group are organized into rape gangs. These rape gang members may be male or female. Victims may be ingroup or outgroup; if outgroup, they may be inducted, or they may be killed. This is seen as a sign of the leader’s omnipotence, and an opportunity for killing members to act out their feral pack instincts.
  • Psychic rape may be organized by the leader as a 24-7 event, with members participating in shifts; the victim will be outgroup. This he sees as a group consolidation effort, along the same lines as wars are instigated by governments to quell domestic unrest.
  • The leader attempts to deter pregnancies in the group, as natal family bonding is seen as a threat to his dominance over the group. Pregnancy prevention may take the form of advice to the husbands regarding birth control, or demands by the leader that the husbands have sex with him rather than with their wives. It can be symbolically expressed on the psychic plane as ‘reaming out’ of the reproductive organs of the female members ‘for their own good’, or as psychic rape.
  • When babies are conceived in the group, the leader will attempt to kill them, through mind control of the husband, who may cause abortion on either the physical or the astral plane. (Astral abortion occurs when the husband’s thought forms cause contraction of his pregnant wife’s uterine muscles.) This killing of unborn (or possibly newborn) babies may have to do with the feral nature of killing cults; male lions, for instance, will kill the cubs of female lions in their pride if they are not the biological fathers.
  • The leader mind controls his ‘first wife’ into having sex with single women in the group, This is a bonding ritual in which the wife acts as an alter ego for her husband.
  • The leader will have ‘second wives’, sometimes at a physical distance from the first wife, and sometimes nearby.
  • Second wives who are at a physical distance will be mind controlled by the leader into having sex with nearby single women who are group members. This is the leader’s effort to curb the second wives’ competitive drive, and channel it into consolidation of the group through the act of sex. In a sense, then, the second wives who are at a physical distance are leading additional ‘packs’ subordinate to the leader’s main pack. (Their packs are subordinate because the second wives are having sex with the leader; it is the act of sex that subordinates them, from the perspective of feral pack instincts.)
  • If there is a second wife who seeks to replace the leader’s first wife, she will consolidate her power status by having sex first with the leader’s first wife; this is a ploy to save her life in case the usurpation fails. Next she will have sex with potential new cult members or outlaws; the implication being that a change-up to first wife status will bring these new members into the cult.

CULTS AND OUTLAW GANGS COMPARED TO STREET GANGS

I note there are some similarities between the grouping modes of cults or outlaw gangs and street gangs. My thought is that mainstream repatriation for cults might possibly be modeled after the efforts of organizations like Homeboys Industries to help former gang members segue back into their families and communities …

See … Link: “Frequently Asked Questions,” by Homeboy Industries … https://homeboyindustries.org/learn-more/faq/ ..

In love, light and joy,
I Am of the Stars

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MORE INFORMATION

Link: “More on Killing Cults and Outlaw Gangs,” by Alice B. Clagett, published on 13 August 2016 … https://wp.me/p2Rkym-61D ..

Link: “United States Mafia Organizational Chart,” by Alice B. Clagett, imaged and published on 22 March 2020; disappeared from website by 29 March 2020 … Maybe it was black magic! … Reposted on 29 March 2020 ,,, https://wp.me/p2Rkym-h9R ..

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Psalm 25 . read by Alice B. Clagett

Filmed on 1 November 2015; published on 7 November 2015; revised on 11 June 2020
Location: Navajo State Park, Colorado

  • VIDEO BY ALICE
  • SUMMARY OF THE VIDEO
    • Psalm 25
    • Postlude: Chris Zabriskie and Scenes from Navajo Lake, Colorado
  • MORE INFORMATION

Dear Ones,

A reading of Psalm 25, with thoughtful comments. The Postlude features the music of Chris Zabriskie and scenes from Navajo Lake, Colorado. There is an edited Summary after the video …

VIDEO BY ALICE

SUMMARY OF THE VIDEO

Hello, Dear Ones, It’s Alice. I Am of the Stars.

I am here at sunset, at beautiful Navajo Lake, I thought I would read you the Psalm that was read at church this morning … which is Psalm 25. I have the King James version. I am going to read it right slowly to you. It is pretty cool; it is right uplifting.

I know a lot of people right now are feeling anxious and concerned about their safety; and just concerned about the future, because things are changing very fast.

You know, it is easy to feel that we have enemies in the world. That was David’s problem at that time: He was surrounded by enemies, and he was very concerned about that. But his faith brought him right through the whole thing.

One thing to consider is that, by means of this psalm … This is what it seems like to me … when he firmed his faith that everything would be ok, and that he would be victorious in the situation, then in my parlance, he optimized his timeline.

You can check … you can check my activations of Light for the way to optimize your own timelines, and pull yourself out of the mental tangles and mental filters of people that are stuck in the idea that they have enemies, for instance.

You do not need to be there. You can be directly existing in faith in God, and in Christ consciousness or the great, vast calm of the Buddha, if that is your faith.

But here I am, talking about my Christian thoughts. And here is Psalm 25 …

Psalm 25 (KJV, public domain)

1 “Unto thee, O Lord, do I lift up my soul.
2 “O my God, I trust in thee: let me not be ashamed, let not mine enemies triumph over me.
3 “Yea, let none that wait on thee be ashamed: let them be ashamed which transgress without cause.
4 “Shew me thy ways, O Lord; teach me thy paths.
5 “Lead me in thy truth, and teach me: for thou art the God of my salvation; on thee do I wait all the day.
6 “Remember, O Lord, thy tender mercies and thy loving kindnesses; for they have been ever of old.
7 “Remember not the sins of my youth, nor my transgressions: according to thy mercy remember thou me for thy goodness’ sake, O Lord.
8 “Good and upright is the Lord: therefore will he teach sinners in the way.
9 “The meek will he guide in judgment: and the meek will he teach his way.
10 “All the paths of the Lord are mercy and truth unto such as keep his covenant and his testimonies.
11 “For thy name’s sake, O Lord, pardon mine iniquity; for it is great.
12 “What man is he that feareth the Lord? him shall he teach in the way that he shall choose.
13 “His soul shall dwell at ease; and his seed shall inherit the earth.
14 “The secret of the Lord is with them that fear him; and he will shew them his covenant.
15 “Mine eyes are ever toward the Lord; for he shall pluck my feet out of the net.
16 “Turn thee unto me, and have mercy upon me; for I am desolate and afflicted.
17 “The troubles of my heart are enlarged: O bring thou me out of my distresses.
18 “Look upon mine affliction and my pain; and forgive all my sins.
19 “Consider mine enemies; for they are many; and they hate me with cruel hatred.
20 “O keep my soul, and deliver me: let me not be ashamed; for I put my trust in thee.
21 “Let integrity and uprightness preserve me; for I wait on thee.
22 “Redeem Israel, O God, out of all his troubles.”

So there it is … Psalm 25 … pretty cool, I think. David was in a pretty tough spot. It kind of reminds me of the spot I am in right now. And what did he do? He turned to God; and he said: Let me align my mind, my heart, and my will with Thee. Let me follow my covenant. Teach me. I place my faith in Thee.

I have nothing more to add to that. That is my only recourse. That is my only salvation. That is my only hope, in this world of Duality. So … Right on, David! [laughs, waves]

Postlude: Chris Zabriskie and Navajo Lake, Colorado

[Next in the video are the beautiful instrumental  “Prelude No. 1” from the album “Preludes” by Chris Zabriskie, CC by 4.0, and images from Navajo Lake at Navajo State Park, Colorado.

In love, light and joy,
I Am of the Stars

The photos from the video are here … Link: “Navajo Lake, Colorado,” photos by Alice B. Clagett, excerpted from a blog published on 30 January 2019 and published separately on 27 March 2020 … https://wp.me/p2Rkym-h7E ..]

This blog relates one of my Perilous Tales that occurred the same day … Link: “Alice’s Perilous Tales: The Man With the Pubic Hair Beard,” by Alice B. Clagett, published on 30 January 2019; revised on 11 June 2020 … https://wp.me/p2Rkym-bvu ..

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MORE INFORMATION

Link: “Telltale Signs of the ASP Sense of Humor,” by Alice B. Clagett, published on 15 March 2018; revised on 15 April 2020, 23 April 2020, and 11 June 2020 … https://wp.me/p2Rkym-8tR … Search the instances of the word: pubic

Link: “Curse of Delilah,” by Alice B. Clagett, filmed on 6 June 2018, revised and republished on 22 June 2018 … https://wp.me/p2Rkym-9s0 … Search the term: CURSE OF THE SHORT HAIRS AND THE HASIDIC BEARD

Link: “Alice’s Perilous Tales: The Nagging Wife,” by Alice B. Clagett, published on 31 July 2015 … https://wp.me/p2Rkym-5QZ ..

Link: “5D Skillsets: Rewriting History, Jumping Timelines, Merging Dimensions,” by Alice B. Clagett, filmed on 20 June 2015; published on 27 June 2015; transcribed on 12 November 2018 … https://wp.me/p2Rkym-3pV ..

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Alice’s Perilous Tales: The Nagging Wife . by Alice B. Clagett

Alice's perilous tales

Image: “Illustration from the 1922 book “The Boy’s of King Arthur”, p 306, depicting the final duel between King Arthur and Sir Mordred in the Battle of Camlan,” by N.C. Wyeth, 1922, in English Wikipiedia … https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Boys_King_Arthur_-_N._C._Wyeth_-_p306.jpg … in CC BY-SA 3.0 … DESCRIPTION: “Illustration from page 306 of ‘The Boy’s King Arthur’: the death of Arthur and Mordred – ‘Then the king … ran towards Sir Mordred, crying, ‘Traitor, now is thy death day come.'” … COMMENT: Although this is a drawing of a battle between King Arthur and Mordred, it reminds me, by its deadly intent, of the battle between the Saracen and the Christian that was an example for me, in a past incarnation, of my own self embodied in ‘another’, whom I sought to kill, only to find myself mortally wounded through my own murderous intent.

  • THE PSYCHOLOGY OF BEING NAGGED
  • MALE VIOLENCE AND NAGGING BY WIVES
  • WHAT TO DO ABOUT BEING NAGGED?
  • THE KARMA OF BEING NAGGED
  • THE HYENA’S DAUGHTER . AND OTHER VIVID STORIES
  • PROFESSIONAL ADVICE ON BEING NAGGED
  • NAGGING, FROM THE STANDPOINT OF AN INNOCENT OBSERVER (ME)
  • ON BEING THE VICTIM OF CLAIR SADOMASOCHISM
  • FURTHER AGGRAVATION
  • A MESSAGE TO THE BOTH OF YOU
  • THE FARMER, THE DEVIL, AND THE SCOLDING WIFE

Image: Black-and-white sketch of the head of a feral-looking woman, transforming in about four stages into the head of a hyena; from “The Hyena’s Daughter,” by Simon Roy … https://40.media.tumblr.com/8ba67ac8ab7a46cf3462a4c2059d7391/tumblr_inline_nm6un4Ep4X1qzcbft_540.jpg .. (1)

Dear Ones,

As you may know, I have been studying the Book of Revelation in the Bible. In chapter 1, there is quite a striking vision that John the Divine had on the Isle of Patma. Highlights …

10 “I was in the Spirit on the Lord’s day, and heard behind me a great voice, as of a trumpet …

12 “And I turned to see the voice that spake with me. And being turned, I saw seven golden candlesticks; …

16 “And he had in his right hand seven stars: and out of his mouth went a sharp two edged sword: and his countenance was as the sun shineth in his strength.” –Revelation 1, KJV (public domain)

I am guessing that this great and shining presence had a two-edged sword in his mouth because he had learned to counter a nagging wife. (Not really, just a humorous thought….) There is a lesson here. How can a man be strong and shining if he suffers a nagging wife, anyway? What can more wear down a man’s spirit than a scornful attitude in his one and only?

THE PSYCHOLOGY OF BEING NAGGED

And what to do about it? If you speak up, she might kick you out. There is always that chance. And with some women, it is a sure and certain outcome of a man speaking up for himself and holding his own.

What can I say? Clearly, this woman must be physically exceptionally beautiful. Clearly, the husband must harbor some hint of a doubt that he will ever measure up.

And what if she does kick you out? Do you feel there is no one in the world like her? Or do you feel, like her, that you could walk right out that door and find the new love of your life waiting for you?

If you meet a wife’s scorn and derision with an open heart and that ‘sensitive man’ thing  … If, for instance, you say to her: When you nag me, I feel like curling up in a ball and crying … what will be her response? Being totally lacking in compassion and empathy, she will go for your jugular. For certain sure.

MALE VIOLENCE AND NAGGING BY WIVES

I saw on youtube just now a story about a husband whose wife was nagging him about a parking ticket. He ‘lost it’ and ‘acted out’ … which is to say, he ran over her. Twice. Then, leaving her body in the driveway, he went inside the house and took a nice, quiet nap.

What struck me most about the video was the smiles on the faces of the reporters who heard the story. They found it pretty funny.

Which, by my lights, points up the likelihood, in a nagged man, of acting out through violence, either toward his wife, or, if that is too scary, toward those he perceives as not so scary.

From this, I feel it is important to look for a solution to the nagging scenario, so that the urge to act out through violence will not crop up in the man’s subconscious over and over again. This will prevent social action against the man, in the form of a jail sentence or the like.

Men, it is important to understand that you are the wronged party in this instance. An abusive relationship is an abusive relationship, whether it is a man or a woman who is doing the abusing. The thing to do is to take the necessary steps to resolve the issue before violence occurs.

WHAT TO DO ABOUT BEING NAGGED?

Here you are. For the sixth time today, she speaks to you with scorn and derision ringing in her voice … Or, and this is a favorite of the nagging woman, she speaks to your friends about you … typically, in your presence … with scorn and derision. What to do?

For sure, like meets like. If you counter with scorn and derision, that will stop her in her tracks. Tell her how much your friends dislike her for her nagging. Tell her she is the lowest of the low. Close your heart like hers is closed. At least the blood flow will stop. But will you have a marriage? I dunno.

Here is a clue: If you or your spouse want rough sex, what does that mean? It means one or the other of you, or both, has a habit of thinking cruelly towards love and the lover.

What to do, then? There is always the possibility of getting counselling. If you leave her before working on your own response mechanisms, you are going to run into the same problem again and again, probably with increasing ferocity, till the issue of your own response is solved. Which is ok, too.

THE KARMA OF BEING NAGGED

That is just the way karma works. It is how Soul wounding gets resolved. God does this ‘ratchet up’ thing till we finally take notice, take action, and fix the hitch in our etheric net.

Keeping in mind, God is not a sadist. It is the lovers we attract into our lives who have that quality, when we have that ‘not worthy’, ‘not enough love in the world for me’ malware installed in the ether speak.

So God contrives this movie we call ‘reality’ … simply as a means of helping us clear our Souls of the wounding. God is love. God is the great healer.

THE HYENA’S DAUGHTER . AND OTHER VIVID STORIES

Speaking of movies, there is a comic strip conjured up by a guy who clearly has the ‘nag me’ bug … “The Hyena’s Daughter” (story and art by Simon Roy). This is a story about a woman who horrifically transforms into a hyena (1) …

Image: black-and-white sketch of an Amazon-type woman walking along with a pack of hyenas, from “The Hyena’s Daughter,” by Simon Roy … https://41.media.tumblr.com/df923e619b4af841bf00f67181e371cc/tumblr_inline_nm6ul5P00R1qzcbft_540.jpg ..

Who needs this kind of story line? Here is one that is more fun … the first part is the part about rough sex and nagging. Then it presents some alternatives, such as … go figure! … compliments … ?!

Video: “Star Trek Funny Love Scenes,” by ZeroRamzes, 8 January 2008 … https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M2IHx2Ts57E ..

Here is a song about a wife’s nagging habit …

Video: “The Nagging wife song – Belated Valentine – DJ Electro Swingable Mashup mix,” by ElectroSwingable, 12 February 2017 … https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bUCJrKI37V8 ..

Here is a lady named Dawndee … who strikes me as the epitome of the nagging personality (sorry, Dawndee!) … with her justification for nagging. Which I have heard from others…

Video: “Nag! Nag! Nag!” by DawndeeDALLAS, 7 July 2009 … https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UePc9-IELzM ..

The trouble I have with this is, who appointed her to be the person who figures out who should do what in the marriage? What about the guy’s ideas on what he wants from the woman? Where is his voice, telling her what he wants from her? I just do not get it!

PROFESSIONAL ADVICE ON BEING NAGGED

Here is Jim Marshall, a professional counselor with a thought on ending the torture …

Video: “Relationship Advice – The Nagging Wife Solution,” by James Marshall, 15 August 2011 … https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TYyShopRAhQ ..

And here is another expert opinion …

Video: “How to Deal with a Nagging Wife,” by Full Frontal Fatherhood, 26 February 2016 … https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1PmQUP_50Cs ..

My thought is, this might be a good way to start. She probably thinks you never listen to her. So, prove that you are listening …

Here is Dr. Dar Hawks counselling on nagging …

Video: “Dr. Dar – Dealing with a nagging wife,” by Dr. Daw Hawks, 1 Jul y2011 … https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EddKmmCWNDE ..

Seems pretty similar: Listen … then clarify. Negotiate a timeline. It mentions how men retreat in the face of wifely trouble … How it might help to respond verbally instead. Especially to a woman’s expectation that You’re in love with me. You should know what I’m thinking. What??

So Dr. Dar says, when confronted with what she calls ‘nonspecificity’, a husband might try to get clarification. For example, he might ask: What’s going on with you? What can I do to help you feel better in this moment?

NAGGING, FROM THE STANDPOINT OF AN INNOCENT OBSERVER (ME)

I have had my own unforgettable moments in the presence of a woman nagging her husband. Never before having had that experience … in my own significant other relationships or among my friendships, I was at a near total loss for words. However, I did finally (after multiple nagging wife syndrome exposures) cough up: I don’t think you should be mean to your husband like that. To which the response, the next day, was: Who are you to tell me howI should be with my husband? Dee ah duh … What do I say now?

So then on another occasion, I got together with them again. First thing, she said: By the way, my husband and I have talked it over, and we both agree, you don’t have any right to talk to me that way. Dee ah duh … What way? said I. To which she said: What I mean is, you have no right to tell me how to talk to my husband. He’s my husband. This has nothing to do with you.

I am speechless here. The wife is a nagging verbal abuser. The husband, by her account, agrees that this is his cup of tea. She thinks this has nothing to do with me.

What did I not say, here? I did not say: When I hear her cruel tongue, my heart shrinks to the size of a wizened walnut. And guys, if you hear this, just know it is not an invitation to renew our friendship. Not in the least. Cruelty is not my cup of tea.

ON BEING THE VICTIM OF CLAIR SADOMASOCHISM

And on the clair plane, not only did this woman for several years horrify me with hatred during the act of sex with her husband… This was not enough for her. She looked for a single woman, such as me, to torture on the clair plane during the day, when her husband is not readily at hand to be nagged.

So all day for several years, she tortured me with clair demands for sadomasochistic sexual daydreams … what she termed innocent ‘flirting’ … which is to say, cruel thoughts of sex. Then, during casual acts of sex-for-pay, she would imaging she was performing sadistic sexual acts with me. She being the sadist, and me the masochist.

Woman! Look this straight in the eye: You are a sex worker. Be with who you are with! If you cannot stand it, give it up.

FURTHER AGGRAVATION

To ante up, when the couple performed the act of sex, they would wait till I was asleep. Then as the wife poured her cruelty out into the husband’s open heart, he would try to snag my ‘desire elemental’ [see my blog category: Desire elementals ] … which is ever wakeful even when I am in dreamland … as a safe haven for his expression of sexual love.

The desire elemental has a limited intelligence. It has the will to survive. And an avid interest in desire. It can talk, too, on the clair plane, through the means of the intestinal neural network. And so, the husband has this recurring daydream, while having sex with what his unconscious mind conceives to be a ‘hyena woman’ … of having sex with me instead. Which he verifies through what he hears from my desire elemental while I am asleep.

Guy! I am not the person you are having sex with. I am not my desire elemental. It is just a little body elemental, a little thought form that zings in on the desire world. And you know very well, when I am wide awake, I change my own mind to a different thought train whenever you start to indulge in this daydream. Face the facts, and face your fears. Look the person you are with in the eye when you have sex. If you cannot stand it, find yourself someone else.

A MESSAGE TO THE BOTH OF YOU

It’s not ‘rough sex’ you are dreaming of. It is sadomasochism.

It is not a variant of the norm. It is a samskara that you carry, a karmic miasmic distortion, a wounding of the Soul.

Outa my life, dudes! Deal with it. Horrify me no longer. If you want friends, check it out! … Open your hearts to a loving relationship with your spouse.

THE FARMER, THE DEVIL, AND THE SCOLDING WIFE

Video: “The Farmer’s Nagging Wife,” by Paul Clayton – Topic, 12 April 2014 … https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q5NJ4H8IlE0 ..

In love, light and joy,
(well ok, less so at this moment)
I Am of the Stars

See also … Link: “Compendium: Dylan Redwine Murder Mystery,” by Alice B. Clagett, published on 22 February 2020; revised on 23 April 2020 … https://wp.me/p2Rkym-gz4 ..

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FOOTNOTE

(1) For more on For more on this, see …

Link: “The Refutation of the Primitive, and the Exaltation of the Fantastic in Simon Roy and Jason Wordie’s Tiger Lung,” by Sarah Horrocks, 2 April 2015 … https://mercurialblonde.wordpress.com/2015/04/02/the-refutation-of-the-primative-and-the-exaltation-of-the-fantastic-in-simon-roy-and-jason-wordies-tiger-lung/ ..

Written and published on 31 July 2015; revised on 2 December 2018

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