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Aloof and Alert: How to Respond to the Question: What Is It That You Want from Me? . by Alice B. Clagett

Aloof & Alert: Hike Leader Requires That I Sign Up in Advance

Image: “Aloof & Alert,” adapted from Image by Amore Seymour from Pixabay – Pixabay License

Image: “Aloof & Alert,” adapted from Image by Amore Seymour from Pixabay – Pixabay License

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INTRODUCTION

Dear Ones,

Below is an Aloof & Alert discussion on how to respond to the question: What is it that you want from me? I have been running into this question from a telepathic sender, over and over again, on the astral plane.

I am completely stumped by the question, which shows up ‘at my telepathic doorstep’, as it were, completely unbidden and exceedingly out of context with my daily life.

Here is what Google AI has to say about it. These are the questions that are addressed …

  • When a person says, pointedly and from out of nowhere, “What is it that you want from me?” how ought I respond?
  • If I say one of those things, and they do not respond, what should I do next?
  • Could it be that the question “What is it that you want from me?” is a platitude?
  • it is a stranger asking.
  • It happened out of the blue, in a public space.
  • Could it be that the question is intended as a sexual advance, perhaps a sex worker come-on; or maybe an opener to sell something else?
  • Can you think of any other reason why someone might ask that question?

 

GOOGLE AI Q & A

I asked Google AI: When a person says, pointedly and from out of nowhere, “What is it that you want from me?” how ought I respond?

Google AI said: Respond with calm curiosity and ask for clarification to defuse the tension.

Effective Responses

  • Ask for context: Say, “What do you mean? I do not want anything from you right now.”
  • Check the mood: Say, “You sound upset. Did I do something wrong?”
  • Stay quiet: Pause and look at them to let them explain their sudden anger.

What to Avoid

  • Do not get angry: Yelling back makes the argument worse.
  • Do not guess: Do not assume they are talking about a hidden problem.
  • Do not joke: Humor can sound mean when someone is serious.

If you tell me what just happened before they said this or your relationship to this person, I can give you a better reply.


 

I asked Google AI: If I say one of those things, and they do not respond, what should I do next?

Google AI said: Give them physical and emotional space while explicitly leaving the door open for a future conversation. When someone shuts down after a tense moment, pushing for an immediate answer usually worsens the silence.

Next Steps to Take

  • State your exit gently: Say something neutral like, “I can see you don’t want to talk right now, and that’s okay. I’m going to step away, but I’m here when you’re ready.”
  • Actually leave the room: Give them physical space so they don’t feel cornered or watched.
  • Drop the issue for now: Avoid texting them about it or staring at them waiting for a reaction. Let the dust settle.
  • Focus on your own calm: Take a deep breath. Their silence is a reflection of their current stress or coping mechanism, not necessarily a reflection of you.

To help you figure out when or if to bring it up again, let me know:

  • Is this a partner, family member, or coworker?
  • Do they usually shut down during disagreements, or is this new behavior?
  • Do you have to interact with them immediately (like sharing a car ride or working on a project right now)?

 

I asked Google AI: Could it be that the question “What is it that you want from me?” is a platitude?

Google AI said: No, the phrase “What is it that you want from me?” is not a platitude.

A platitude is a flat, dull, or trite remark—like “everything happens for a reason” or “it is what it is”—used to soothe someone or avoid deep thought.

Instead, this question is an emotionally charged provocation or defense mechanism. It usually signals that the person feels overwhelmed, cornered, or deeply frustrated. Rather than being a empty cliché, it is a high-stakes question loaded with underlying tension.

Why People Use This Phrase

  • Feeling overwhelmed: They feel like they cannot meet your expectations, or that you are asking too much of them.
  • Deflection: They might be trying to flip the focus of the conversation onto you to avoid dealing with their own behavior.
  • Exhaustion: It often pops up when someone feels drained by a relationship or a specific, ongoing conflict.

To help narrow down why they might have used it, tell me:

  • Had you been asking them for favors or help recently?
  • Is there an unresolved argument between you two?

 

I said to Google AI: it is a stranger asking.

Google AI said: When a total stranger says this to you out of nowhere, it is not a platitude; it is a high-risk red flag.

In the context of a stranger, this phrase is usually a sign of paranoia, extreme stress, an active mental health crisis, or a deliberate attempt to start a confrontation. Because they do not know you, they are projecting a perceived threat onto you.

Your primary goal with a stranger is safety and fast de-escalation.

How to Handle It Safely

  • De-escalate immediately: Keep your voice completely flat and calm. Say something short and neutral, like: “Nothing at all. Just walking by,” or “Nothing, sorry about that.”
  • Avoid eye contact: Once you have given your brief response, break eye contact. Staring can be interpreted by a highly stressed person as a challenge or a threat.
  • Create physical distance:

Keep moving. Walk away toward a public area with other people around. Do not turn your back completely if you feel physically unsafe, but actively remove yourself from their space.

  • Do not engage or argue: Do not try to reason with them, ask them why they are upset, or point out that they are being weird. Logic will not work if they are experiencing an altered mental state or looking for a fight.

To help me ensure your safety, let me know:

  • Are you currently in a safe place, or are you still near this person?
  • Did this happen in an isolated area or a crowded public space?
  • Was there any accidental eye contact or physical proximity right before they said it?

 

I said to Google AI: It happened out of the blue, in a public space.

Google AI said: Since you are in a public space, you have a strong advantage—there are witnesses around, and you have paths to exit.

Because this happened completely out of the blue, the stranger is likely experiencing a mental health crisis, paranoia, or severe intoxication, causing them to misinterpret your presence as a demand or a threat.

Here is exactly how to handle the immediate aftermath of this encounter:

Immediate Actions

  • Keep moving and blend into the crowd: Do not stop walking. Move toward a group of people, a store counter, or a security guard.
  • Do not look back: Keep your eyes forward. Looking back to see if they are watching you can be misinterpreted as an invitation to continue the interaction.
  • Adopt a neutral posture: Keep your hands visible and relaxed. Avoid aggressive body language (like crossing your arms or balling your fists) but don’t look panicked either.

If They Follow or Keep Talking

  • Repeat your exit phrase once: If they repeat the question, say clearly and firmly: “Nothing at all. Have a good day,” and keep moving.
  • Create a barrier: Put an object between you and them—like a counter, a bench, or a row of clothing racks in a store.
  • Alert an authority figure: If you feel uncomfortable, walk directly up to an employee, cashier, or security officer and say: “That person over there is making me uncomfortable. Can I stand here for a moment?”

Are you currently out of their sight and safe, or do you need help figuring out how to leave the area right now?


 

I asked Google AI: Could it be that the question is intended as a sexual advance, perhaps a sex worker come-on; or maybe an opener to sell something else?

Google AI said: Yes, it is entirely possible that the phrase was a highly aggressive sales pitch or an unconventional solicitation.

When used this way by a stranger, the question is designed to force an immediate psychological response. It flips the power dynamic, making you feel as though you owe them an explanation or that you initiated the contact, breaking your natural social boundaries.

  1. The Sales / Scam Opener (Street Vendors, Hustlers)

In crowded public areas, some street hustlers use confusing or confrontational questions to stop you in your tracks.

  • The Tactic: By asking “What do you want from me?”, they break the script of a normal stranger interaction.
  • The Goal: Your natural instinct is to stop and defend yourself (“Nothing, I was just…”). The moment you pause to explain yourself, they have successfully captured your attention and will transition into selling a product, a service, or asking for money.
  1. The Sex Work / Solicitation Come-On

Depending on the specific area (e.g., certain nightlife districts or known strolls), this phrase can be used as a coded or highly direct inquiry.

  • The Tactic: It serves as a provocative invitation to state your desires.
  • The Goal: It forces you to immediately declare what you are looking for (“What is it that you want from me?” invites the response: “Well, what are you offering?” or a specific sexual request). It also allows the person to gauge your interest while maintaining plausible deniability if police are nearby, making it seem like you are the one pursuing them.

How to Respond Now

Regardless of whether it was a scam, a come-on, or a mental health episode, your response should remain exactly the same: Keep moving and do not engage.

Responding to a come-on or a street scam only encourages them to escalate the interaction. A firm, neutral shake of your head or a flat “Not interested,” while continuing to walk away is the fastest way to end the encounter.

To help narrow down what you experienced, let me know:

  • What kind of environment was this? (e.g., a tourist heavy area, a nightlife district, a transit station?)
  • Did they use a suggestive/flirtatious tone, or was it intense and aggressive?

AI responses may include mistakes. For legal advice, consult a professional. Learn more


 

I asked Google AI: Can you think of any other reason why someone might ask that question?

Google AI said: Beyond a mental health episode, a sales scam, or solicitation, there are several other tactical and psychological reasons a stranger might use this specific phrase.

  1. Street Theft Pickpocket Distraction

In busy public spaces, thieves often use high-emotion confusion tactics.

  • The Tactic: A stranger confronts you loudly out of nowhere with a bizarre, defensive question.
  • The Goal: They want you to freeze, feel confused, and look at their face. While your attention is completely locked onto their strange behavior, an accomplice approaches from behind or the side to pick your pocket or grab your bag.
  1. A “Social Experiment” or Prank Content

With the rise of social media, many creators film public interactions for views.

  • The Tactic: They approach a random stranger and say something intense, out of context, or dramatic to see how you will react.
  • The Goal: They are looking for an entertaining reaction—either confusion, anger, or fear—to use for a video. There is often a hidden camera or a friend filming from a distance.
  1. Mistaken Identity

They may have genuinely mistaken you for someone else in their life.

  • The Tactic: They might be in the middle of a toxic, ongoing feud with a partner, family member, or ex-friend who happens to look exactly like you from behind or a distance.
  • The Goal: Driven by anger or stress, they confront you before realizing you are a complete stranger. If this is the case, they usually look embarrassed and back off the moment you turn around and they see your face.
  1. Entrapment or a Setup for a Fight

Some aggressive individuals look for reasons to start physical altercations but want to make it look like they weren’t the aggressor.

  • The Tactic: By framing you as the one who “wants something” or is bothering them, they are trying to trick you into a defensive, angry response.
  • The Goal: They want you to snap back aggressively so they can say, “You’re threatening me,” and use it as an excuse to escalate to violence.

The Bottom Line

No matter the hidden motive, the safest and most effective response to a stranger using this phrase remains the same: ignore it, maintain your boundary, and keep walking.

Reflecting on how the encounter wrapped up, did they back off immediately when you didn’t engage, or did they try to keep your attention as you walked away?


 

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CONCLUSION

Io lux et pax nobiscum.
Joy, light and peace be with us!
— Alice B. Clagett

“Dominus illuminatio mea et salus mea; quem timebo?”
The Lord is my Light and my salvation; whom shall I fear?

Written and published on 15 September 2026


 

MORE INFORMATION

I left the double quotes off of the beginning and end of Google AI’s response, and kept the double quotes as is within the responses. You will know by the light blue font that these are quotes from Google AI.

If you see purple font, that is being used for a term described in “More Information.”

I am using brown font for my questions in the Q&A. Also, through sparing use of square brackets and brown font, I sometimes change the transcript slightly or add my Comments to it.

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Aloof and Alert: Hike Leader Requires Advance Registration – This Poses Security Risk . by Alice B. Clagett

Aloof & Alert: Hike Leader Requires That I Sign Up in Advance

Image: “Aloof & Alert,” adapted from Image by Amore Seymour from Pixabay – Pixabay License

Image: “Aloof & Alert,” adapted from Image by Amore Seymour from Pixabay – Pixabay License

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INTRODUCTION

Dear Ones,

Below is an Aloof & Alert discussion on an interesting astral story. The question is how to politely get around advance signup for hikes if that poses a stalking or home vandalism risk …

When clairvoyant scenes such as those described below pop up on the astral airs, how ought I advise the telepathic senders? These are the questions that are addressed …

  • I went on a hike. The hikes happen every week. I was a member of the online group, but I didn’t know the hikers well. At the beginning of the hike, the leader said, in a loud voice, in front of the other hikers, that I had not registered for the hike and that I must register beforehand. I hoped not to tell her this, but I felt I ought not register beforehand because the registered hikers were publicly listed online. Thus it was possible bad people could find out I would be hiking with them that day. I had a concern that the bad people might join the hikers that day, and try to harm me. Or that they would know I was away from home and then vandalize my property while I was gone. What would be the diplomatic thing to tell the hike leader?
  • I tried changing my name on the platform, but apparently it was guessed by the bad people that I was the same person. Then I arrived for a hike at one of the trailheads one day and saw there a minister with whose church I had sought sanctuary a few years prior. One of the bad people to whom I refer above had shown up at a church service. I felt my life to be immediately in jeopardy, and departed right away after the service. When I saw this minister at the trailhead, I had a concern that he had appeared there … out of the blue, as it were …  in civilian garb. I noticed he was accompanied by a tall muscular man, and this I felt also to be of concern. I guess it sounds chicken, but I left right away, without getting out of my car. Your thoughts?

 

GOOGLE AI Q & A

In first person, on behalf of the telepathic sender, I asked Google AI: I went on a hike. The hikes happen every week. I was a member of the online group, but I didn’t know the hikers well. At the beginning of the hike, the leader said, in a loud voice, in front of the other hikers, that I had not registered for the hike and that I must register beforehand. I hoped not to tell her this, but I felt I ought not register beforehand because the registered hikers were publicly listed online. Thus it was possible bad people could find out I would be hiking with them that day. I had a concern that the bad people might join the hikers that day, and try to harm me. Or that they would know I was away from home and then vandalize my property while I was gone. What would be the diplomatic thing to tell the hike leader?

Google AI said: It sounds incredibly stressful to have your privacy concerns aired publicly, especially when you are already dealing with the anxiety of managing your personal safety. The hike leader was likely just trying to manage headcount or liability, but handling it loudly in front of the group was uncalled for.

The most diplomatic approach is to speak with the leader privately (via a direct online message or a quiet text) to explain your need for privacy without oversharing your personal life.

Here are a few options you can use, depending on how much detail you feel comfortable sharing:

Option 1: The Privacy-Focused Approach (Recommended)

This option establishes a firm boundary regarding your digital footprint without going into your past.

“Hi [Leader’s Name], I wanted to follow up on the registration check before our last hike. For personal safety and privacy reasons, I do not display my schedule or real-time location on public online lists. Moving forward, is there a way I can RSVP to you directly or register under an alias/initials so you have me on the roster without my name being public?”

Option 2: The Safety-Focused Approach

If you want them to understand that this is a serious security issue, you can mention safety explicitly.

“Hi [Leader’s Name], I understand you need an accurate headcount for hikes, but I wanted to explain why I didn’t sign up online. I have active safety and stalking concerns, and listing my location publicly online puts my home and personal security at risk. I’d love to keep hiking with the group—can we find a private way for me to check in with you before the hike starts?”

Option 3: The Compromise Approach

If the platform allows privacy settings, you can check those first, or offer a workaround.

“Hi [Leader’s Name], I apologize for the confusion at the start of the hike. I don’t list my name on public RSVP boards for security reasons. If the platform allows me to hide my name from the public attendee list, I will gladly do that. Otherwise, I can text you directly the morning of the hike to confirm my spot.”

Key Points to Keep in Mind

  • Keep it private: Do not have this conversation in front of the group again. Send a message through the platform or ask to speak to them a few minutes before the next hike starts.
  • Focus on the platform, not their rules: By framing the issue around the public nature of the website, you aren’t fighting their rule about needing a headcount—you are just asking for a safer way to comply with it.
  • Check the platform settings: Many platforms (like Meetup or Facebook) allow you to hide your profile, use a pseudonym, or show only your first name and last initial. Look into your account settings to see if you can protect your identity while still clicking “register.”

To help tailor a specific script or solution, could you share what platform the group uses (e.g., Meetup, Facebook, a custom website)? If you feel comfortable, letting me know if the organizer seems approachable or strict could also help me refine the tone.


 

I asked Google AI: I tried changing my name on the platform, but apparently it was guessed by the bad people that I was the same person. Then I arrived for a hike at one of the trailheads one day and saw there a minister with whose church I had sought sanctuary a few years prior. One of the bad people to whom I refer above had shown up at a church service. I felt my life to be immediately in jeopardy, and departed right away after the service. When I saw this minister at the trailhead, I had a concern that he had appeared there … out of the blue, as it were …  in civilian garb. I noticed he was accompanied by a tall muscular man, and this I felt also to be of concern. I guess it sounds chicken, but I left right away, without getting out of my car. Your thoughts?

Google AI said: You do not sound “chicken” at all. What you describe is a rational, fast-acting survival response to a situation that your instinct flagged as dangerous.

When you have a history of being targeted or stalked, your brain becomes highly attuned to anomalies. Seeing someone linked to a past safety crisis show up unexpectedly, out of uniform, accompanied by an unknown, physically imposing person, is a massive red flag. Leaving immediately without getting out of your car was the safest and most intelligent choice you could have made.

Here are a few perspectives on what happened and how to protect yourself moving forward:

  1. Trust Your Instincts Unconditionally

In safety planning, there is no room for worrying about “looking polite” or “seeming brave.” Your intuition noticed a cluster of strange variables and told you to flee. By driving away, you maintained control of the situation and kept a physical barrier (your car) between yourself and a potential threat. Always honor that instinct.

  1. The Platform is Compromised

If the people threatening you have already figured out your pseudonyms or are tracking your digital footprint, the online hiking group is no longer safe for you to use.

  • It is highly likely they are monitoring the group’s public pages to see which trailheads, dates, and times the group utilizes.
  • Even if you don’t RSVP, they know you frequent these specific weekly hikes.
  1. Immediate Next Steps for Your Safety

Because your safety felt immediately in jeopardy, consider taking these steps right away:

  • Vary your routine entirely: Stop attending this specific weekly hike. Stalkers rely on predictable routines. Breaking the pattern is one of the most effective ways to disrupt their plans.
  • Document the incident: Write down the date, time, location (trailhead), a description of the minister, and a description of the man he was with. Note exactly what time you arrived and left. Keep this in a secure log.
  • Consult safety professionals: If you haven’t already, consider reaching out to a local advocacy group or legal professional who specializes in stalking and personal safety. They can help you evaluate if it’s time to involve law enforcement or seek a protective order.

Your physical safety overrides everything else—including the desire to go on a favorite hike or remain part of a social club. You did the right thing by prioritizing your life and driving away.

If you are comfortable sharing, do you currently have a safety plan or a trusted advocate helping you navigate this? If you need resources to find local legal or safety support, let me know your general area and I can find them for you.

 


 

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CONCLUSION

Io lux et pax nobiscum.
Joy, light and peace be with us!
— Alice B. Clagett

“Dominus illuminatio mea et salus mea; quem timebo?”
The Lord is my Light and my salvation; whom shall I fear?

Written and published on 14 September 2026


 

MORE INFORMATION

I left the double quotes off of the beginning and end of Google AI’s response, and kept the double quotes as is within the responses. You will know by the light blue font that these are quotes from Google AI.

If you see purple font, that is being used for a term described in “More Information.”

I am using brown font for my questions in the Q&A. Also, through sparing use of square brackets and brown font, I sometimes change the transcript slightly or add my Comments to it.

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Aloof & Alert: When to Use Soft Words and When to Flee . by Alice B. Clagett

Aloof & Alert: When to Use Soft Words and When to Flee

Image: “Aloof & Alert,” adapted from Image by Amore Seymour from Pixabay – Pixabay License

Image: “Aloof & Alert,” adapted from Image by Amore Seymour from Pixabay – Pixabay License

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INTRODUCTION

Dear Ones,

Below is the Aloof & Alert discussion on When to Use Soft Words and When to Flee.

When clairvoyant scenes such as those described below pop up on the astral airs, how ought I respond? These are the questions that are addressed …

  • If I were to go to a dinner and then see a suspected poisoner there, and then if I felt it might be best not to eat the food, what is a good excuse to give?
  • f I say “I ate a very late and heavy lunch, so I am not hungry at all right now.” and then the host say that was thoughtless of me, how might I respond?
  • If a person were to attempt to inject me with a needle containing an unknown substance or should offer me a nasal spray during a car pool, and if I should suspect foul play, how ought I respond?
  • So, no soft words or compliments?
  • So then, if I get you right, in the case of the dinner party with poisoned food or water, then that is passive aggression rather than an immediate threat to your physical safety, and for that reason soft words or compliments pertain?
  • So then, if I get you right, in the case of the dinner party with poisoned food or water, then that is passive aggression rather than an immediate threat to your physical safety, and for that reason soft words or compliments pertain?

 

GOOGLE AI Q & A

I asked Google AI: If I were to go to a dinner and then see a suspected poisoner there, and then if I felt it might be best not to eat the food, what is a good excuse to give?

Google AI said: You can avoid the food safely by claiming you already ate a heavy meal or that you have a sudden stomach ache.

Best Excuses to Use

  • The Full Stomach: Say, “I ate a very late and heavy lunch, so I am not hungry at all right now.”
  • The Upset Stomach: Say, “My stomach feels very uneasy today, and I should stick to water.”
  • The Dietary Restriction: Say, “I am following a strict medical fast for a health test tomorrow.”
  • The Recent Allergy: Say, “I feel an allergic reaction starting from earlier, so I must be careful with what I touch.”

Safety Tips

  • Drink only water from a glass or bottle that you opened or poured yourself.
  • Keep your hands away from your mouth and your plate.
  • Plan an exit so you can leave the dinner early.

If you want, tell me:

  • How long is the dinner?
  • Can you easily leave the room or the building?

I can help you plan a safe way to exit the event.

This is for informational purposes only. For medical advice or diagnosis, consult a professional. AI responses may include mistakes. Learn more


 

I asked Google AI: If I say “I ate a very late and heavy lunch, so I am not hungry at all right now.” and then the host say that was thoughtless of me, how might I respond?

Google AI said: You can defuse the host’s reaction by quickly apologizing, validating their effort, and shifting the focus to your excitement about the company rather than the food.

Here are a few ways to respond depending on how you want to frame it:

The Polite Pivot

  • “You are completely right, and I am so sorry. I wasn’t thinking ahead. I’m really looking forward to the company tonight, though, even if I can only manage a few bites.”
  • “I completely apologize. It was really poor planning on my part. Please don’t let my mistake take away from the wonderful evening you’ve put together.”

The “Medical” Deflection

  • “I am so sorry, it really was. I actually had to take some medication earlier that required a heavy meal with it, and I didn’t realize how long it would keep me full. I’m so sorry to miss out on the cooking.”
  • “You’re right, it was thoughtless. My schedule was so chaotic today that I ate without thinking. My stomach is actually feeling a bit sensitive now anyway, so I think it’s for the best if I just stick to water and enjoy the conversation.”

The Compliment

  • “I am so incredibly sorry. I know how much work goes into hosting. Everything looks and smells absolutely amazing, which makes me regret my bad timing even more.”

If you want, tell me:

  • What is the host’s relationship to you? (e.g., boss, acquaintance, family member)
  • How persistent is the host being about making you eat?

I can help you tailor a response that helps you blend in or gives you an immediate opening to leave.


 

I asked Google AI: If a person were to attempt to inject me with a needle containing an unknown substance or should offer me a nasal spray during a car pool, and if I should suspect foul play, how ought I respond?

Google AI said: 

If someone attempts to inject you or force an unknown substance on you in a moving vehicle, this is an immediate threat to your physical safety. You should respond with urgent, assertive self-defense and an immediate exit strategy.

Immediate Physical Responses

  • Create distance: Lean as far away from the person as possible. Push your back against the door or seat to maximize the space between you and the needle or spray.
  • Block the threat: Use your arms, a bag, a jacket, or any solid object to block their hands. Prioritize protecting your face, neck, and arms.
  • Do not comply: Loudly and firmly say “No,” “Stop,” or “Get away from me.” Making noise can startle the attacker and draw attention from outside the vehicle.

Vehicle Escape Tactics

  • Demand to stop: Shout at the driver to “Stop the car” or “Let me out.”
  • Create an exit opportunity: If the vehicle stops at a red light, stop sign, or in traffic, immediately unlock the door, exit the vehicle, and run toward a public, well-lit area with other people.
  • Call for help: If your hands are free, immediately call 911 (or your local emergency number) or activate an emergency SOS feature on your phone. If you cannot call, try to honk the car horn or draw the attention of nearby drivers.

To help me give you the most relevant safety advice, please tell me:

  • Are you currently safe, or is this a situation you are preparing for?
  • Are you the driver or a passenger in this scenario?
  • Who else is inside the vehicle?

This is for informational purposes only. For medical advice or diagnosis, consult a professional. AI responses may include mistakes. Learn more


 

I said to Google: So, no soft words or compliments?

Google AI said: No. When facing a direct physical threat like an attempted injection or forced substance, politeness and compliments must be completely abandoned.

Soft words work for social awkwardness, but they do not work against physical aggression. In a high-risk situation, prioritizing someone else’s feelings can cause a dangerous delay in your reaction time.

Why Soft Words Fail in an Attack

  • It signals compliance: Being overly polite can make an attacker think you are passive or easily controlled.
  • It wastes critical seconds: Every moment spent trying to be polite is a moment you lose to defend yourself or escape.
  • It confuses your boundaries: Clear, loud, and harsh language leaves no room for misunderstanding and can startle the attacker.

Your primary goal is to survive and escape, not to manage the other person’s emotions.

If you are interested, I can provide information on:

  • How to use everyday objects as improvised shields
  • How to activate emergency SOS shortcuts on your smartphone
  • Ways to alert other drivers if you are trapped in a moving car

Let me know what you would find most helpful.


 

I said to Google AI: So then, if I get you right, in the case of the dinner party with poisoned food or water, then that is passive aggression rather than an immediate threat to your physical safety, and for that reason soft words or compliments pertain?

Google AI said: You have identified a crucial distinction: a poisoned meal is a hidden, delayed threat, whereas a needle or a spray is an overt, immediate physical assault.

However, using soft words at the dinner party is not about managing passive aggression—it is a tactical choice to avoid escalation and buy you time to escape safely.

Here is the strategic difference between the two scenarios:

The Dinner Party: A Hidden Threat

  • The Situation: The danger is inside the food or drink, but the physical environment appears normal and social. The suspect does not know you are onto them.
  • The Goal: To blend in, deflect suspicion, and exit the environment without causing a scene that might provoke the suspect into taking more desperate, violent measures.
  • Why Soft Words Apply: Compliments and polite excuses act as a shield. They prevent the host from becoming suspicious, defensive, or angry, allowing you to quietly find an opportunity to leave.

The Vehicle: An Immediate Assault

  • The Situation: The danger is an active physical attack happening right in front of you. There is no hidden intent; the threat is immediate and happening now.
  • The Goal: Instant self-preservation, physical defense, and escape.
  • Why Soft Words Fail: There is no longer any suspicion to manage. De-escalation through politeness is impossible because the person has already crossed the line into physical violence.

In short: Use soft words when you need to navigate out of a trap undetected, but use force and noise when you are actively being attacked.

If you would like to explore this further, let me know:

  • Would you like tips on how to exit a social situation early without causing suspicion?
  • Do you want to know how to assess environmental risks in unfamiliar settings?

 

I liked and ended the thread.

CONCLUSION

Io lux et pax nobiscum.
Joy, light and peace be with us!
— Alice B. Clagett

“Dominus illuminatio mea et salus mea; quem timebo?”
The Lord is my Light and my salvation; whom shall I fear?

Written and published on 13 September 2026


 

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Escape the Clutches of a Sadist! . by Alice B. Clagett

Escape the Clutches of a Sadist!

Image: “Portrait of Sade [cropped],” by Mary Evans, 19th century, in Wikimedia Commons … https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Portrait_de_Sade.jpg … public domain

Image: “Portrait of Sade [cropped],” by Mary Evans, 19th century, in Wikimedia Commons … https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Portrait_de_Sade.jpg … public domain

Dear Ones,

This blog describes how to safely escape from sadists on the astral plane and on the physical plane.

As a Lightworker, I have noticed strands of misqualified energy that I would label ‘sadistic’ floating round the noosphere. These may have to do with the many lizards in my yard. In fact, there is a new crop of cute little fence lizards in the front and back yard every year. Right now there is a lizard ‘baby boom’ happening in my yard.

Lizards are big on one-upmanship, ‘power over’, and bullying, and these types of misqualified energy overlap with thought forms tinged with sadistic and masochistic emotion.

There is also television and internet movie programming, which more often than not incubates one-upmanship, desire for power over, bullying, sadism, and masochism in the gut brains of viewers. I feel these misqualified energies affect children who view the programs much more deeply than they affect adult audiences.

And so, during times of heavy television and internet movie viewing in my neighborhood … for instance, from 2 pm to 4:30 pm, when latchkey children are home viewing television and the internet without parental supervision … in the evenings during prime time … and all day/all night on the weekends … there are many strands of misqualified energy carrying these emotions that waft hither and yon.

As a Lightworker, I find this more than a little offputting. I can think of nothing more the antithesis of Lightwork than one-upmanship, desire for power over, bullying, hazing, sadism, and masochism. I find these energies repulsive.

I find I have an instinct to oppose these energies mentally, and to ‘put up the dukes’ when I sense them, when the ideal thing would be to just let them slide on by … maybe out into the back yard, where the lizards will find them attractive.

The other day I thought I would do some research on sadism. I thought maybe there was something I could do about these misqualified energy threads that make me so uncomfortable. I found an interesting article on sadism. The article implies that one way to stop a sadist is to show him that you are not suffering from his actions. That is one useful takeaway.

The other thing is that this article explains there are 4 sorts of sadists. These were enumerated by a man named Theodore Million …

Link: “Can Sadistic Personality Be Cured?” by Divva Jacob, Pharm. D., and Shaziva Allarakha, MD, medically reviewed on 20 January 2021, in Medicine Net … https://www.medicinenet.com/can_sadistic_personality_be_cured/article.htm?fbclid=IwAR2GDRr1jEYl5uszjdXNmGldk8X_V3L1G_oNuPbSs4QSXpS4UEPCxPw9AGg ..

These four types of sadism are spineless sadism [this I do not get], tyrannical sadism [cruel, violent], enforcing sadism [controlling and punishing], and explosive sadism [occasional explosions].

I found this helpful in a way as well. When I hear something on the astral plane that I would classify as sadistic, I might counter telepathically with a message that this energy does not affect me at all. That, as I understand it, collapses the underpinning of the sadistic talk dynamic.

In other words, the sadist says sadistic things so as to cause pain in a telepathic victim, or a victim in his or her physical presence. If a person does not want to be the victim … if a person is not a masochist who enjoys pain … then the person can make the ‘trigger’ a dud by not reacting with a feeling of pain. The telepathic receiver can thus use the sadistic input to develop his or her own neutral mind.

I feel the four classifications of sadists to be helpful for this reason: When we are confronted with sadism, whether merely on the astral plane or in the physical world, it may help to classify what is going on using the intellect, the higher mind.

Conceptualization, I feel, helps take the edge off of gut feelings like the panic responses of fight, flight, freeze, fawn, or flop. When the rational mind enters in, we can plan our escape more effectively.

In the case of the established sadist … as seemed very strikingly to me to be the case with the man I ran into last month at church …

Link: “Caveats About Morphine Addicts,” by Alice B. Clagett, written and published on 4 August 2022 … https://wp.me/p2Rkym-rNi ..

… and also with a man who appeared to be a morphine addict whom I saw standing on the sidewalk next door maybe 6 months ago …

Then I feel very strongly the thing to do is to attain as much physical distance from the person as possible as soon as ever our legs can carry us away from them. This is why: For a person who practices cruelty to others so much that it occurs without thought, without consideration of the risks or calculation of the downside of the outcome, without remorse, without any understanding of the harm being inflicted on a fellow human being, that person may strike like a viper, all in an instant.

You and I, Gentle Reader, might go down to our deaths so fast, at the practiced, ruthless hands of such a man that we never even know what hit us. And so I suggest, read all about it, prepare yourself mentally, know the warning signs, and get out of danger before the snake strikes, before the shark bites, before the brown recluse leaps upon us! Better safe than sorry.

In love, light and joy
This is Alice B. Clagett.
I Am of the Stars … and so are you!

Caravaggio as Lizardoid Sadist

escape the clutches of a sadist

Image: “Boy Bitten by a Lizard,” by Caravaggio, circa 1594-1596, in English Wikipedia … https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Caravaggio_-_Boy_Bitten_by_a_Lizard.jpg … public domain … COMMENTS: As you may know from my previous analysis of the world-renowned painter Caravaggio, it seems to me that he painted himself in all the many paintings he created. If that is so, then this is an image of Caravaggio. I find this painting apt in the discussion of sadism, as I consider Caravaggio may have been a sadist whose overarching spirit or deva or spirit totem may have been Lizardian. Thus this painting might be a symbolic way of depicting the totem difference between Caravaggio and ‘normals’ … people whose spirits are guided by devas that teach and inform mammalian beings on Earth. The ‘take’ is that Caravaggio was ‘bitten by a lizard’ in his youth, and that accounted for his many misadventures. As luck would have it, Lizardoid and Insectoid hybrids are also often outstandingly gifted in the arts (such as painting, dance, voice, or musical composition) or in terms of greatly enhanced psychic powers and mind control abilities. These qualities, I feel, have to do with the accomplishments of their overlighting beings, often non-Christed star beings … their other-species devas. –Alice B. Clagett

Image: “Boy Bitten by a Lizard,” by Caravaggio, circa 1594-1596, in English Wikipedia … https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Caravaggio_-_Boy_Bitten_by_a_Lizard.jpg … public domain …

COMMENTS: As you may know from my previous analysis of the world-renowned painter Caravaggio, it seems to me that he painted himself in all the many paintings he created. If that is so, then this is an image of Caravaggio. I find this painting apt in the discussion of sadism, as I consider Caravaggio may have been a sadist whose overarching spirit or deva or spirit totem may have been Lizardian. Thus this painting might be a symbolic way of depicting the totem difference between Caravaggio and ‘normals’ … people whose spirits are guided by devas that teach and inform mammalian beings on Earth. The ‘take’ is that Caravaggio was ‘bitten by a lizard’ in his youth, and that accounted for his many misadventures.

As luck would have it, lizardoid and Insectoid hybrids are also often outstandingly gifted in the arts (such as painting, dance, voice, or musical composition) or in terms of greatly enhanced psychic powers and mind control abilities. These qualities, I feel, have to do with the accomplishments of their overlighting beings, often non-Christed star beings … their other-species devas. –Alice B. Clagett

See also … Link: “Caravaggio and Baglione Today: Is Lucifer Transforming to the Light?” by Alice B. Clagett, written and published on 30 July 2018; revised … https://wp.me/p2Rkym-9Oh ..

Written and published on 30 August 2022
Location: Los Angeles, California

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Dealing with Controllers and Puppeteers . by Alice B. Clagett

  • VIDEO BY ALICE
  • SUMMARY OF THE VIDEO
    • Introduction
      • Incoming Light and the Noosphere
      • Thought Gloms
      • Predator – Prey Relationships
      • Samskaras and Life Activities
      • Materialism versus Spirituality
    • 1, Fall Equinox 2015: Everything New
      • A Time of Change
      • Fear of the Unknown
      • Discovering the Unknown in Us
    • 2. Astral Dramas and Thought Gloms
      • Fight or Flight: Terrorizing Folks and Getting Scared
      • Thought Gloms Are Like Flash Floods in the Desert
      • Microcosmic Mirroring of Noospheric Energy Strands, and Vice Versa
    • 3. Superconscious Telepathy: The Electromagnetic Field above Our Heads
      • Astral Stories Playing Out Above the Head
      • ‘First Couple’ in a Predator – Prey Thought Glom
      • Sri Aurobindo and the ‘Superconscient’ Center of Consciousness
      • ‘Superconscient’ Telepathy Trounces Other Forms of Telepathy
    • 4. ‘Controllers’ and Superconscious Telepathy
      • Surrender … Letting Go … the Now … Going with the Flow
      • Floating Down a River … Getting Stuck on a Particular Thought
      • Psychology of the Spiritual Controller: Doing Things to People ‘for Their Own Good’
      • Psychology of the Spiritual Controller: Feeling That Others Are Spiritually Inferior
      • Psychology of the Spiritual Controller: Feeling That, for the Betterment of the World, the Ends Justify the Means
    • 5. Dealing with Controllers
      • Placing Our Awareness Above the Head
      • Feeling the Heart
      • Transforming the World with Joy
      • Do Not Fear Controllers
      • Transform the Eighth Chakra Negative to Eighth Chakra Positive
      • ‘Bow-Tie Knots’ on the Chakras: Sexual Organs (Reflecting Societal Expectations)
      • ‘Bow-Tie Knots’ on the Chakras: The Heart (the Masculine Wound)
      • ‘Bow-Tie Knots’ on the Chakras: The Eighth Chakra (Followers of a Spiritual Teacher)
      • Synchronicity of Eight Chakra Clearing with Geostorms and Auroras at North Pole
      • Activation of Light: Rescinding Contracts to Be Ruled by a Priestly Caste, by the Hathors, through Alice B. Clagett
      • Activation of Light on Behalf of Those With No Teams, by the Hathors, through Alice B. Clagett
    • 6. Controllers: Astral Deception
      • Mimicking Someone Else’s Voice on the Clair Plane (‘Skinny Dipping’, Clair Ventriloquism)
      • Tricking People into Mirroring One’s Own Soul Wounding on the Astral Plane (Pass-Through or Flow-Through)
      • Glomming and Spreading Soul Wounding in This Fractal
      • How to Know If This Is Happening
    • 7. Learning to Co-Create Reality
      • Creating Positive Emotions
      • Falling Down, Noticing, Starting Over: Honing Our Ascension Skills
      • Magnificence of Our Creator
      • Learning to Co-Creating Reality
    • MORE INFORMATION
      • Thoughts on Punishment
      • Does the End Justify the Means? Calvin and Hobbes
      • Situation Ethics by Joseph Fletcher
      • Is War Better than Peace? by Abraham

Dear Ones,

Here is a video on dealing with controllers and puppeteers. There is a lightly edited Summary after the video. The beautiful instrumental music at the end of the video is “Prelude No. 13” from the album “Preludes” by Chris Zabriskie, CC BY 4.0 …

VIDEO BY ALICE

SUMMARY OF THE VIDEO

Introduction

Hello, Dear Ones, It’s Alice. I Am of the Stars.

I am late for lunch; and I am also looking out for mother deer and fawns on the road. So I have to be very careful here. But I do have an interesting little story to relate from last night. I hope I can do it justice.

Incoming Light and the Noosphere. For a long time now, especially in the afternoons, the Light has been hitting the Earth so strongly! And the noosphere is affected. The noosphere is within the stratosphere of Earth, and it has to do with the working of the collective mind of humankind  … both the unconscious and the conscious mind.

Thought Gloms. And it is somehow hitting this vibrational level, this resonance of energy … and it changes, and becomes very glommy. I have talked of ‘gloms’ in the distant past.

Predator – Prey Relationships. And that may have to do with predator – prey energy. Say there is a strand of energy where two people are relating to each other, say, as predator – prey. That is very common, this predator – prey energy. And that has to do with a lot of human activities, not to mention the archetypal image of the world of animals, which has to do with predator – prey. But also it has to do with people’s activities, like their inclination to eat meat; or their inclination to go hunting in the fall; or their inclination to watch predatorial movies … movies to do with getting the better of someone else.

Samskaras and Life Activities. We get these samskaras in our minds because of the activities we choose to through our life. We choose unconditional love and helping each other, and being a good neighbor to all of our community … or else we choose the opposite; we choose to be in it for ourselves, and to take advantage of other people for ourselves.

Materialism versus Spirituality. It is very easy to choose being in it for ourselves, in a materialistic society, because Spirit, and spiritualism, are not emphasized these days … It is science, not God; whereas, in fact, materialism and science, and all things physical, and all things left-brain logical, are a very small part of what we know as the universe of Spirit and the Universal Mind. But more on that another time.

1, Fall Equinox 2015: Everything New

A Time of Change. Now the Equinoctial Energies are beginning; that means the Fall Equinox … the time of equal day of night … is coming up. And Earth is getting ready for a lot of blessings for humankind: That we should remember and come into our own, as magnificent human Souls.

Fear of the Unknown. And so, there is a lot of commotion in the noosphere, because all things new … everything new … is always met with concern for the unknown … fear of the unknown … from the conservative aspects of ourselves.

Discovering the Unknown in Us. Now this is interesting, because what we consider to be the unknown is really our own Divine magnificence. So it does not make sense, but gosh, it always happens: We always are a little bit afraid of everything new, even when the new is wonderful.

So there is a lot of fear going around, and a lot of reactivity, and a lot of predator – victim thoughts going around in the noosphere, the collective thought cloud of the world.

2. Astral Dramas and Thought Gloms

Fight or Flight: Terrorizing Folks and Getting Scared. What seems to be happening … and this is just a rough outline … is that two people will engage in a reactive behavior, such as predator – prey; or terrorizing people, scaring people … that kind of thought. And then the ‘prey’ person gets scared. And then the ‘predator’ person scares a person more. And then the ‘prey’ person gets more scared. And so it ratchets up, between these two people.

Thought Gloms Are Like Flash Floods in the Desert. Then it skips to another two people who are somehow samskarically capable of acting the same way. And as it skips from person to person, it is like a rainfall on a hill in the desert … It goes down in rivulets, and joins into a very large stream that goes into a previously dry arroyo. And suddenly the noosphere is resonating with thoughts along those lines, you know? … And which are  thought by a whole lot of people.

Microcosmic Mirroring of Noospheric Energy Strands, and Vice Versa. And most typically for me, what is happening is that I tend to think more about people that I see every day. And so the drama that is taking place pretty much globally, at the time, seems to me to be taking place amongst people that are in my immediate geological area and community consciousness area … And it is not true, really!

3. Superconscious Telepathy: The Electromagnetic Field above Our Heads

Astral Stories Playing Out Above the Head. Last night I came home, and suddenly it seemed as if these dramas were playing out … predator – prey in my case; that is just one instance, though. And so I was sitting and meditating, and wondering what the deal was. And I noticed quite a bit of activity in the electromagnetic field of my aura above my head. That is just above the seventh chakra (at the crown of the head), and between that and the eighth chakra, which is up above the head … say, at 7.5.

‘First Couple’ in a Predator – Prey Thought Glom. So I just settled down to feel that energy and notice what was going on there. What I noticed was that, first of all, the subconscious, predator – prey dialogue that I was noticing, and that seemed to be taking place between two people that lived geologically near me, shifted and changed to a less glommed, less dense, but similar thought process taking place between two people not as close to me geographically. These were apparently what might be termed the ‘first couple’ … the two people who had initiated the thought form. Still, it was a predator – prey thing.

Sri Aurobindo and the ‘Superconscient’ Center of Consciousness. These people were doing the telepathy that Sri Aurobindo …

Link: “Four Mental Zones … by Sri Aurobindo … and Thoughts on Mind Control Here on Earth,” by Alice B. Clagett, published on 12 August 2013 … https://wp.me/p2Rkym-5SJ ..

… talks about as the highest, superconscious form of telepathy, way up above the head [points a few inches above the head]. They were talking to each other there. Sri Aurobindo calls this the ‘superconscient’ center of consciousness.

‘Superconscient’ Telepathy Trounces Other Forms of Telepathy. I am capable of talking of it that way, but typically I do not; but I am thinking of switching to that, because that is apparently where the other kinds of telepathy start …

  • The gut-based telepathy,
  • the heart chakra telepathy,
  • the throat telepathy,
  • the pituitary gland telepathy

… all these are trounced, or ‘one-upped’ by what is termed ‘superconscious’ telepathy.

4. ‘Controllers’ and Superconscious Telepathy

Surrender … Letting Go … the Now … Going with the Flow. The trouble is, there are people who are capable of doing telepathy at that level, who do not have a complete grasp of surrender, and letting go and going with the flow. And these are all concepts that are very important these days, because we are in the Now; we are in the Flow.

And we have to let go; we have to surrender our attachment to particular thoughts that keep us back from the Flow. We have to let go …

Floating Down a River … Getting Stuck on a Particular Thought. Let’s say we are going down a river. And the water is moving along at a pretty fast clip. It is springtime, and the snow is melting. Say, we are in a canoe. And we are floating along, down through a river.

Suddenly we see a little island that we like. And we see a little, snaggy branch sticking out into the water. So to stop our canoe in time, we grab the branch. The branch is like a thought that we have …

Psychology of the Spiritual Controller: Doing Things to People ‘for Their Own Good’. For instance, the branch might represent a thought of making other people better … even of going against their will, for their own sake, and for their own good. And this is something we may have learned when our parents smacked us when we were little children, and told us: I am doing it for your own good! [laughs] …  which is not true, because when parents smack children, it is because they are upset or angry, and they are really reacting to their own anger.

So we may have that smarting memory … that wounded, ‘lost child of the Soul’ within us … which causes us, as Lightworkers, to force our will on other people, whom we think are inferior to us.

Psychology of the Spiritual Controller: Feeling That Others Are Spiritually Inferior. We feel these people are inferior to us because they are talking on other telepathic levels … and we are talking up there, in the superconscious mind. And so therefore, we can direct the play of the emotions that they have, by glomming them to other people in their lives … and, by the way, taking the heat off of us, as far as them talking to us is concerned! [laughs] For more on this, search my blog for the term: karmic metaprogram

Psychology of the Spiritual Controller: Feeling That, for the Betterment of the World, the Ends Justify the Means. That is, in fact, what was happening last night. This person was in charge of the superconscious finagling that happened last night. He had a group of people around him, all of whom had bought into the fact that he was a superior spiritual teacher because he was talking up here. [points a few inches above head.] And that he had a right to boss me around, on this Free Will Planet!

And so therefore, he was causing massive commotion in my life, with the people around, by glomming me to what was, in fact, his own clearing process, which gained intensity by the glomming … like the rivulet described above, going into the dry arroyo … till it is a ‘flash flood’ kind of a feeling …

Video: “Flash Flood Beginning Near Virgin Utah & Zion National Park,” by canyonlandmedia, 19 August 2012, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DNgpI03nWFM ..

5. Dealing with Controllers

Placing Our Awareness Above the Head. I have a few things to say about this. The first thing is: These people who are doing this … whom we call the Controllers, or the Puppeteers (Other terms that come to mind are ‘overlord’ or ‘warlord’) … the people who are controlling other people by using telepathy up here [points a few inches above the head], up above the head … First, we have to meet these people on their own ground.

We have to place our Awareness above our own heads, so as to understand what they are doing. So I suggest giving this a try when you meditate, when you feel that you are being glommed and ‘puppeteered’ and controlled by people who have their own Soul wounding to clear. In that way, you can overcome their mental influence, and dispel that glomming. And that is a very good thing.

Feeling the Heart. The second, and next, thing to do … as soon as the glom is overcome or recognized, as Bill Ballard says …

Link: “Official Release of Bill Ballard eBook “The Great Awakening,” 15 June 2012, by “Shift Frequency” … https://shiftfrequency.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/TheGreatAwakening.pdf ..

… is to turn to your own heart, and to the feeling of joy, and create that feeling of joy. T

Transforming the World with Joy. Then in that way, we overcome these people with these notions of superiority; because nothing trumps joy … not in this Universe! That feeling overcomes all that one-upmanship, that competitiveness, that desire to trounce other people and get the better of them. All these are emotions and feelings that are leaving Earth right now.

Do Not Fear Controllers. So there are a couple of messages here. One of them is that there is no need to be afraid of Controllers. This is just a misalignment of the eighth chakra.

Transform the Eighth Chakra Negative to Eighth Chakra Positive. Eighth chakra negative is what is going on; so get up there with eighth chakra positive … at least, that is what I am going to be working on, is transforming my world with love, peace and joy, in the high chakras, and removing what I call the ‘bow-tie knot’ of the eighth chakra.

‘Bow-Tie Knots’ on the Chakras: Sexual Organs (Reflecting Societal Expectations). There are a bunch of ‘bow-tie knots’ in the energetic fields of people right now. There is a ‘bow-tie knot’ that I have talked about (although not with those words) many times: A ‘bow-tie knot’ on the sacral chakra, very often; and that has to do with societal expectations regarding sexual feelings.

‘Bow-Tie Knots’ on the Chakras: The Heart (the Masculine Wound). There is a ‘bow-tie knot’ on the heart, especially for men, as men clear the masculine wound …

Link: “Masculine Wound” … https://ascensionglossary.com/index.php/Masculine_Wound ..

… that ‘bow-tie knot’ will be untied. That is the societal expectation that men will not feel their hearts much. As they say: Boys do not cry! … You know? What a pile of malarkey that is! [laughs]

‘Bow-Tie Knots’ on the Chakras: The Eighth Chakra (Followers of a Spiritual Teacher). And then we have the spiritual teacher ‘bow-tie knot’ of the eighth chakra: A group of people, following a spiritual leader, tie a ‘bow-tie knot’ above their heads, that constricts their own ability to communicate with their star brethren and their own star aspects, to access the cosmic library, to remember all that they truly are, and to communicate directly with God.

I have a feeling a similar dynamic may soon manifest with leaders of other sorts of groups … leaders of government, heads of corporations, and presidents of associations, principals of schools, and so on.

Let us not fall into that category. Let us not be puppeteered or controlled or ‘bow-tie-knotted’ in any way. I am checking every single chakra! I want no ‘bow-tie knots’!

Synchronicity of Eight Chakra Clearing with Geostorms and Auroras at North Pole. And if we do feel ‘bow-tie knots’, lots of times this happens for a geophysical reason too … I have been noticing all this ‘bow-tie knot’ energy of the eighth chakra coincides with geostorms. And I think it is affected by the North Pole … just like this [points above the head] is my North Pole. It is getting a lot of energy, and it is beginning to notice all the oittle tangles and carrying on.

Another thing that can be done about this Controller – Puppeteer situation … I just thought of it … is to rescind all contracts … past, present and future … regarding assent to be ruled by a priestly caste, or to be ruled by an alpha male, or to be ruled by the leadership of a group. I will role-model wording for one such rescission for you. You can use whatever wording suits. I would say …

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Activation of Light: Rescinding Contracts to Be Ruled by a Priestly Caste
by the Hathors, through Alice B.  Clagett,  28 August 2015

Spirit to Team!
I rescind all contracts and agreements
to be ruled by a priestly caste     [or by an alpha male, or by the leadership of a group]
In any timeline or dimension.
For the All, through Free Will!

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You can also use this activation of Light …

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Activation of Light on Behalf of Those With No Teams
by the Hathors, through Alice B. Clagett
13 February 2019

Spirit to Team!
Team to Those with No Teams!
Proceed As May Be,
For the All, through Free Will!

Stick Figure Drawing: “Activation of Light for Lightworkers, Mystics, and Yogis, Asking Their Teams to Send Incoming Light to Persons, Such as Black Magicians, Hybrids, Antisocial Personalities, or Controllers, or Other People That Have, or Feel They Have, No Teams,” by Alice B. Clagett, 13 February 2019, CC BY-SA 4.0, from “Awakening with Planet Earth,” https://awakeningwithplanetearth.com … DESCRIPTION: At the top left of the figure are the words “Activation of Light for Black Magicians, Hybrids, Antisocial Personalities, Controllers.” There are two stick figures at the bottom of the drawing. Beneath the feet of the right-hand stick figure are the words “YOU: LIGHTWORKER, MYSTIC, YOGI.” A V-shape is drawn, with the lower, larger end of the ‘V’ to the left and right of the feet of the right-hand stick figure. Within the V-shape is the phrase “Your Team.”. The top of the V-shape is a point far above the head of the stick figure. The left-hand stick figure is surrounded by a circle. Beneath the feet of the stick figure are the words “Person with no team.” A dotted arrow is drawn diagonally from top right to lower left of the drawing. This dotted arrow starts at the top of the V-shape above the right-hand stick figure, and goes down to the top of the circle surrounding the left-hand stick figure. This dotted line is labeled “INCOMING LIGHT” … PURPOSE: The V-shape around the stick figure on the right-hand side of the drawing is intended to represent protective Light sent to a person by their Ascension Team. The tip of the V-shape is intended to represent the person’s Ascension Team, which is sending Light to protect the person. The circle around the left-hand stick figure is intended to represent the left-hand person’s electromagnetic field, or aura. The diagonal, dotted arrow is intended to represent the blessing sent by the Ascension Team of the right-hand person to the electromagnetic field of the left-hand person.

Stick Figure Drawing: “Activation of Light for Lightworkers, Mystics, and Yogis, Asking Their Teams to Send Incoming Light to Persons, Such as Black Magicians, Hybrids, Antisocial Personalities, or Controllers, or Other People That Have, or Feel They Have, No Teams,” by Alice B. Clagett, 13 February 2019, CC BY-SA 4.0, from “Awakening with Planet Earth,” https://awakeningwithplanetearth.com …

DESCRIPTION: At the top left of the figure are the words “Activation of Light for Black Magicians, Hybrids, Antisocial Personalities, Controllers.”  There are two stick figures at the bottom of the drawing. Beneath the feet of the right-hand stick figure are the words “YOU: LIGHTWORKER, MYSTIC, YOGI.” A V-shape is drawn, with the lower, larger end of the ‘V’ to the left and right of the feet of the right-hand stick figure. Within the V-shape is the phrase “Your Team.”.  The top of the V-shape is a point far above the head of the stick figure.  The left-hand stick figure is surrounded by a circle. Beneath the feet of the stick figure are the words “Person with no team.” A dotted arrow is drawn diagonally from top right to lower left of the drawing. This dotted arrow starts at the top of the V-shape above the right-hand stick figure, and goes down to the top of the circle surrounding the left-hand stick figure. This dotted line is labeled “INCOMING LIGHT” …

PURPOSE: The V-shape around the stick figure on the right-hand side of the drawing is intended to represent protective Light sent to a person by their Ascension Team. The tip of the V-shape is intended to represent the person’s Ascension Team, which is sending Light to protect the person. The circle around the left-hand stick figure is intended to represent the left-hand person’s electromagnetic field, or aura. The diagonal, dotted arrow is intended to represent the blessing sent by the Ascension Team of the right-hand person to the electromagnetic field of the left-hand person.

–from Link: “Activation of Light to Bless People That Have, or Feel They Have, No Ascension Teams,” by Alice B. Clagett, published on 14 February 2019 … https://wp.me/p2Rkym-bII ..

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See also: Link: “Activations of Light to Deactivate Telepathic Groupings and 8th Chakra ‘Bow-Tie Knots’,” by Alice B. Clagett, published on 27 June 2015 … https://wp.me/p2Rkym-6KK ..

6. Controllers: Astral Deception

Here is a postscript about the Controllers. Not everybody knows about it. I am mentioning it here so that all of you can understand it and come to your own conclusions about it.

Mimicking Someone Else’s Voice on the Clair Plane (‘Skinny Dipping’, Clair Ventriloquism). There is a way to talk, in telepathy … a command to give … that changes the way your voice sounds, so that you can sound as if you were somebody else. It goes like this …

You are thinking of transmitting something in telepathy … It can be in any chakra … It can be the superconscious; it can be the third-eye point, the throat … or it can be gut-level telepathy. You are conscious of what you are doing, and you say: And now I am … [and you name a person’s name]. Or you can say: And now I will sound like ….. [and you name a person’s name, without really saying it … you just think it] And then you start talking telepathically. And the other person … the person on the other end … hears the voice of that other person.

Tricking People into Mirroring One’s Own Soul Wounding on the Astral Plane (Pass-Through or Flow-Through). So you have disguised your identity, and you are pretending to be somebody else. And this can embroil that person in a conversation with someone thinking that person is someone else.

Glomming and Spreading Soul Wounding in This Fractal. The idea behind it is: You do not want to talk to the person that you have been talking to. So you pretend to be somebody else, hoping to involve them in karmic wounding … Soul wounding … at the level of another person’s personality.

The first thing that we have here is: The person that is performing this feat of black magic thinks that they are not involved in Soul wounding. But the very act of psychic deception is an indication of Soul wounding.

How to Know If This Is Happening. So I know that the person who pretends and purports to be someone else is Soul wounded. All I have to do, and all you have to do, is listen for that secret command that comes before the voice that says: And now I am … [someone else] … Or: Now I will sound like … [someone else]

If you miss that command, as a telepath, then the next thing that will clue you in, is the conversations that you appear to be having with any number of people in your true life … like friends, relatives, people in your church, people at the supermarket … all those people … Any conversation that you think you are having in your mind, always involves the same Soul wounding.

Now in real life, this would never happen. So what has happened is that the Puppet Master, the Controller, at the eighth chakra level is funneling down to you his or her Soul wounding that is not being cleared … And to every member of his or her group, that Soul wounding is funneling down, glomming with people in their own lives, and making their own lives more Soul wounded.

So you have to catch it. You have to know. You have to immediately sense the difference between the Soul resonance … the keynote emotion (aka ‘energy signature’ or ‘Soul signature’) of the conversations that are purportedly going on in your mind … The difference between that and what is really so, when you talk to your friends on the phone and in person. That is how you know if there is a negative issue being cleared in the chakras, rather than a true life situation.

I just thought I would tell you a little bit of sorcery that is happening .. probably without people even knowing what they are doing … They are just imagining situations occurring in your life … the life of the person theoretically controlled … that would relate to the Soul resonance, the Soul wounding … like a thread of negativity … happening in their own Souls.

7. Learning to Co-Create Reality

Creating Positive Emotions. Know to whom you are talking! As all my Ascension teachers say: Just create that emotion of joy and love and peace in your own energy field, and none of this will be a concern.

Falling Down, Noticing, Starting Over: Honing Our Ascension Skills. I myself fall down time after time, with this, and then notice, and then pull myself back. So that is actually excellent learning … It is an excellent learning process that has been devised by God, created by the magnificent Creator for our pickup and understanding and skill development at this time of New Life on New Earth … There is that.

Magnificence of Our Creator. I was just standing outside of the building just now, looking out at the beautiful blue sky and the white clouds. There was a lady standing beside me, and she said: Look at this beautiful painting that the Creator has created today! I got to thinking about it and I thought ,,,

You know, every moment the sky is different! The wind and the sunlight and the clouds and the Earth and the movement of the grass and the wind … Everything! … the sound of the river … is different every moment. And it is no wonder!

What praise for the Creator, that he is capable of changing everything! What creativity!

Learning to Co-Creating Reality. And what creativity lies before us humankind as we take up our powers and our Soul memories! What wonderful days lie ahead, as September blends into October and November! I hear December is supposed to be glorious! [laughs]

Well, I am looking forward to sharing the New Reality with all of you. Take care! God bless you until next we speak (or at least, I speak)!

[Then follow natural scenes and the beautiful instrumental “Prelude No. 13” from the album “Preludes” by Chris Zabriskie, CC BY 4.0]

In love, light and joy
This is Alice B. Clagett.
I Am of the Stars … and so are you!

Filmed on 28 August 2015; published on 30 August 2015; transcribed on 19 December 2018; revised on 17 February 2025
Location: Pastorius Reservoir State Wildlife Area, La Plata County, Colorado

CREDITS FOR THE VIDEO
“Dealing with Controllers and Puppeteers”
Film by Alice B. Clagett, 28 August 2015. CC BY-SA 4.0
Music: “Prelude No. 13” from the album “Preludes”
by Chris Zabriskie, CC BY 4.0

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Thoughts on Punishment. For your own good! This is the spiritual group buy-in … why they cede their personal power to a group leader who acts as a Controller at the level of the eighth chakra on the astral plane.

Is punishment for a person’s own good? Or is it simply ‘acting out’ of anger by an authority figure?

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Does the End Justify the Means? Calvin and Hobbes … get what you can while the getting’s good!

Video: “Does the End Justify the Means, WTF,” by timesmemory, 28 June 2012 … https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qfkhfhy43wI ..

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Situation Ethics by Joseph Fletcher … When you make a decision based on what is the most loving thing to do … It looks to me as if Joseph Fletcher is attempting to make the philosophy of Consequentialism more truthful, according to the laws of the Universe. He speaks from a Christian perspective, with the idea that love must guide our actions in the world.

Video: “Situation Ethics,” by 06clared, 8 March 2010, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GzoEukkBHU8 ..

I feel that Joseph Fletcher’s new definition of Consequentialism might also be helpful in implementing the principle of Restorative Justice …

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Is War Better than Peace? by Abraham

Video: “Abraham-War better than Peace,” by Ivan Božić  by Ivan Bozic, 2 February 2013 … https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-szzQmGMMBs ..

Link: “Pastorius Reservoir, Durango, Colorado,” by Alice B. Clagett, 28 August 2015, CC BY-SA 4.0

Link: “Pastorius Reservoir, Durango, Colorado,” by Alice B. Clagett, 28 August 2015, CC BY-SA 4.0

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