I found two superb youtube shorts that are perfect learning tools for the normal, socialized ‘newbie’ who needs to develop antisocial personality recognition skills pronto … this very day! Read on …

Image: “Antisocial Personality Disorder – Sociopathy,” adapted from Image by FlyingRaven from Pixabay – Pixabay Content License
Image: “Antisocial Personality Disorder – Sociopathy,” adapted from Image by FlyingRaven from Pixabay – Pixabay Content License
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Dear Ones,
Would you like to know how antisocial personalities form relationships … and why nobody recognizes them for what they are? Fasten your seatbelts! Here goes …
HOW DO ANTISOCIAL PERSONALITIES FORM RELATIONSHIPS?
Q: How do antisocial personalities form relationships?
The answer is embedded in top secret antisocial personality code in this video. Can you crack the code?
Video: “Once You’ve Been Chosen by Her, That’s It,” by The Gabriels @EvandJavier … https://www.youtube.com/shorts/4Fg1v-Ho7Po ..
A: They find someone who likes them just the way they are.
Q: Who is that?
A: Another Antisocial Personality (that’s ‘ASP’ for short).
Q: What’s an ASP?
A: ASP (Active Server Pages) is Microsoft’s server-side scripting technology for creating dynamic, interactive web applications. –Google AI
R: Not in this context, Google AI. You may have been misled by the capital letters? I’ll rephrase … “In reptilian terms, what’s an ASP”?
A: In reptilian terms, an “asp” is an archaic or literary term for a small, highly venomous snake, primarily referring to the Egyptian cobra (Naja haje—a neurotoxic snake with a hood) or various European vipers (Vipera aspis—a smaller, ambush predator). –Google AI
Q: What famous person did an ASP kill?
A: Cleopatra VII, the last active pharaoh of Ptolemaic Egypt.
Q: Alice B. Clagett calls antisocial personalities ASPs. Why is this funny?
A: The humor in Alice B. Clagett’s use of the term ASPs for antisocial personalities lies in the double meaning of the word “asp.”
- Medical Abbreviation: In a clinical context, ASP is a common shorthand for Antisocial Personality or Antisocial Personality Disorder (ASPD).
- The Pun: An asp is also a small, venomous snake (famously the one used by Cleopatra to end her life).
The comparison suggests that people with these personalities are “snakes”—deceitful, cold-blooded, or dangerous to those around them. By using the technical abbreviation as a label, Clagett creates a wordplay that characterizes the behavioral traits of the disorder through a predatory animal metaphor. –Google AI
WHY DOES NOBODY RECOGNIZE ANTISOCIAL PERSONALITIES FOR WHAT THEY ARE?
Q: Why does nobody recognize antisocial personalities for what they are?
Here is another answer disguised as youtube short humor …
Video: “How I Met Your Mother,” by The Gabriels @EvandJavier … https://www.youtube.com/shorts/_u5CZwTmjgI ..
Why is this video funny? Antisocials know what the societal expectations of normal people are. They also have their own, opposite point of view as to what is normal for the antisocial personalities with whom they associate.
For the antisocial personality, the societal expectations of normal people are ludicrous and unrealistic. For the ASP, that is quite clearly not how the world is.
Why do we ‘normals’ … we socialized human beings … think that the video “How I Met Your Mother” is funny? We think it is too ludicrous to be true. Nobody would ever actually act like that … right? This is just a funny joke.
I have news for all my normal friends: The joke is on you. This video is how it really is for ASPs.
The discrepancy between normal societal expectations and the understanding that ASPs have of reality is the basis for the ASP sense of humor.
The video “How I met Your Mother” is a prime example of this. Normal, socialized readers like myself get a laugh out of this video because it seems so preposterous.
En garde, Dear Ones! If you laugh like this in a real-life situation, the split-second timing of the ASP may well get you killed mid-chuckle!
ASPs get a double laugh out of this movie …
- First, because they knew we normals would react like this. What a great chance to play us for a fool!
- Second, because they get the last laugh! What a glorious way to see themselves on stage!
I myself, being a Lightworker, am appalled that I find these films funny. And then on the other hand, I am glad to have a chance to use the videos as teaching tools. I figure they may help my ‘normal’, socialized friends learn how to spot an ASP before he or she … as is so often the case … gets the better of them.
Dear Ones, Good luck to each of you out there in the wild 3D world! Steer clear of those ASPs! Just turn round and, post haste, walk the other way!
CAVEAT RE GENDER STEREOTYPING OF ASPs: Please note in particular that criminal profiles often point to men and not women as ASPs. As we normals become more adept at spotting ASPs, I feel it likely we will find an equal mix of men and women who are ASPs. Female ASPs can be quite mesmeric, as attested to in the above two videos.
God bless you all,
Keep you safe,
And be with you
Through all your days.
In love, light and joy
This is Alice B. Clagett.
I Am of the Stars … and so are you.
Written and published on 11 April 2026
MORE INFORMATION
For more on this, see my blog categories:
- Antisocial personality disorder – Sociopathy …
- ASP sense of humor …
- Societal expectations – social opprobrium – social contracts … and …
- Taboos – social stigma ..
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I asked Google AI: Why does nobody recognize antisocial personalities for what they are?
Google AI said: “Antisocial personalities are often not recognized because they are highly manipulative, charming, and skilled at masking their lack of empathy, often appearing normal or charismatic to hide their true nature. They often “mask” their behavior, treating people like disposable objects while acting caring only when it serves their interests.
Reddit +4
Key Reasons for Lack of Recognition:
- Charming Mask: Many people with antisocial personality disorder (ASPD) are not overtly criminal. Instead, they are socially skilled, charming, and manipulative, allowing them to deceive others and hide their true nature.
- Lack of Self-Awareness: Those with ASPD rarely see their behavior as a problem. They blame others for their troubles, meaning they do not seek help and are rarely diagnosed, preventing public understanding of their behavior.
- Spectrum of Severity: ASPD exists on a spectrum. While some are highly aggressive, others may appear to be “high-functioning” manipulators, making their actions harder to spot in daily life.
- Misunderstanding of Terminology: The public often confuses “antisocial” with “asocial” or “introverted.” True antisocial personality involves active hostility or indifference toward others’ rights, not just shyness or avoiding social interaction.
- “Normal” Functioning: Because they can blend in and often appear charming, people are often willing to give them the benefit of the doubt until serious damage is done.
Cleveland Clinic +7
Why They Are Hard to Detect:
- Deceitfulness: They are often pathological liars who can make others question their own reality.
- Lack of Remorse: Since they genuinely do not feel guilt, their behavior is consistent and unwavering, making it hard to convince them to change or to convince others of their danger.
- Prosocial Presentation: Some can appear quite productive in society, utilizing their manipulation skills in business or politics, which hides their lack of conscience.” –Google AI

Drawing: “Antisocial Personality Social Mask,” by Alice B. Clagett, 3 February 2021, CC BY-SA 4.0 International, from “Awakening with Planet Earth,” https://awakeningwithplanetearth.com ..
Drawing: “Antisocial Personality Social Mask,” by Alice B. Clagett, 3 February 2021, CC BY-SA 4.0 International, from “Awakening with Planet Earth,” https://awakeningwithplanetearth.com ..
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