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Allurement: Angling for Love . by Alice B. Clagett

Written and published on 9 July 2013; revised
Previously titled: Angling for Love

  • ALLUREMENT: ON USING LOVE AS A LURE
  • ON ‘DOING’ LOVE
  • ON FALLING IN LOVE
  • ON FEIGNING ROMANTIC LOVE
  • FOR WOMEN: ON MISTAKING A MAN’S ONE NIGHT STAND FOR TRUE ROMANCE
  • FOR MEN: ON MISTAKING A WOMAN’S FINANCIAL INSECURITY FOR TRUE ROMANCE
  • FOR MEN: ON BEING ATTACHED TO A WOMAN WHO LIKES TWO MEN

Dear Ones,

I am writing this post for an acquaintance of mine, who just cannot locate the politeness to accept me as I am. Do you not hate it when folks try to make you over in their image? I do, for sure.

I ran across this in an article on deep-sea female angler fish recently …

There are anglerfish living deep in the ocean. It is dark down there, and the females have bioluminescent ‘lures’ attractive to that which they wish to eat. These ‘lures’ also attract male anglerfish. Once they find a mate, they hold onto her for life …

Image: Female anglerfish with a prominent ‘lure’ … http://biologybiozine.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/deepseaanglerfish2.jpg ..

Link: “An Unusual Fish that Lives Deep in the Ocean,” in Biozine, 27 February 2011 …  biologybiozine.com/2011/02/27/an-unusual-fish-that-lives-deep-in-the-ocean/182/ ..

ALLUREMENT: ON USING LOVE AS A LURE

That reminded me of how we humans sometimes use Love as a Lure. I’m speaking of the outward-pouring of love from the heart chakra, not the neutral, unconditional love characteristic of the deep inner heart, the hridaya.

ON ‘DOING’ LOVE

This outward-pouring love is what you might call ‘doing’ love. I’m ‘doing’ love to someone else. And I’ve noticed, when this happens, I’m ‘doing’ it for a reason. Invariably ‘to do’ with my lower chakras. I ‘want’ security. I ‘need’ sex. I ‘have’ to control someone. And there you have it. Love in the service of the Lower Triangle (the first three chakras old style: the basal chakra, sexual chakra, and navel point).

ON FALLING IN LOVE

So then, how does the play unfold? ‘I’ ‘love’ ‘you’! WAY SO. ‘You’ ‘love’ ‘me’! WOW. We’re ‘in love’. We get married. And then, onto our stage march insecurity, sexual addiction, greed, possessiveness, jealousy, etc etc and OUT OUT OUT goes the flame of love. o sigh.

ON FEIGNING ROMANTIC LOVE

OR, heaven forfend, we may consciously use the Love Lure to attach a person to us. And then, The Games Begin. Happens often with men … I love you!  … Wedding bells. And then it is the Everyday Ed thing … sex on demand. And do the housework. Get the abortion. Go to work to help pay the mortgage.

FOR WOMEN: ON MISTAKING A MAN’S ONE NIGHT STAND FOR TRUE ROMANCE

OR, and this is a man or woman thing: I love you! … O wow!  … and: Oops! One night stand.
AND then sometimes, there is a sequel: Oops! Pregnant! Who was that masked marauder, anyway?

FOR MEN: ON MISTAKING A WOMAN’S FINANCIAL INSECURITY FOR TRUE ROMANCE

But sometimes it is a woman thing. I love you! … Wedding bells. Uh oh, she really just wants my money. Or my house. Or to destroy my heart utterly.

FOR MEN: ON BEING ATTACHED TO A WOMAN WHO LIKES TWO MEN

Here is an interesting picture: a female deep-sea angler fish (the big fish in the picture). Using her love Light (which dangles from the front of her head) she has lured in two male angler fish. They are a lot smaller than she is. You can see them in the picture, stuck there next to her tail. For life? Guess so. This picture reminds me vividly of a woman I met once. Two men not sufficing, she was angling for a woman lover too.

Image: Female anglerfish with two males attached to her … http://biologybiozine.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/deepseaanglerfish.jpg ..

Dear Lord! Save me! I can definitely see the al-Lure of Unconditional Love.

In love, light and joy
This is Alice B. Clagett.
I Am of the Stars … and so are you!

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Romance and Power Over Others . by Alice B. Clagett

Written and published on 11 June 2013; revised

Dear Ones,

Who would have guessed? “Love me, love me, love me” is just another form of power over others …

Video: I Can’t Make You Love Me – Kyle Scobie (Bonnie Raitt cover), by Kyle, 29 September 2012 … https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=631RCEfbzDs ..

I cannot make you love me. But then again, you cannot make me love you. Love ain’t made. Love is.

In love, light and joy
This is Alice B. Clagett.
I Am of the Stars … and so are you!

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The Sleeping Mind: Good and Bad Thoughts . by Alice B. Clagett

Written and published on 23 May 2013; revised

  • ON GOOD AND BAD THOUGHTS
    • Aversion: Fear, Anger, Hatred
    • Attachment: Desire, Conditional Love
  • UNCONDITIONAL LOVE
  • OUR SOUL’S FEELING ABOUT OUR THOUGHTS
  • OTHER PEOPLE’S THOUGHTS
  • UNCONSCIOUS THOUGHTS
  • GIFTS FROM THE DIVINE
  • MORE ON UNCONSCIOUS THOUGHT

Dear Ones,

ON GOOD AND BAD THOUGHTS

What It Is about the Unconscious … The Divine is all around us … teaching us, guiding us … through our sensory impressions. And … who knows why? … These sensory impressions we judge to be good or bad. The thought of ‘goodness’ or ‘badness’ is attached to an emotion. The emotion is ‘not love’ in some form.

Aversion: Fear, Anger, Hatred

If we judge the thought bad, we may feel aversion. An emotion of fear, anger, hatred.

Attachment: Desire, Conditional Love

If we feel it good, we may feel desire, or conditional love.

UNCONDITIONAL LOVE

The emotion we feel is a barrier to the Divine, because the Divine is Love. Even conditional love … love of a person, of our family, of our religion or country … is a barrier to the Divine, because the Divine is pure, unconditional love.

OUR SOUL’S FEELING ABOUT OUR THOUGHTS

Our Soul is a reflection of Divine love. It’s like a sparkle of Divine sunlight caught in a dewdrop on a flower. The nature of our Soul is to reflect Divine love. So the thought that a gift from the Divine, in the form of a sensory impression, is bad, or ‘not love’ is repelled by our Soul. It’s our thought; it has nowhere to go. So it sticks around in our aura.

OTHER PEOPLE’S THOUGHTS

Or, it might be someone else’s thought, that flew through the ethers to us. (1) A thought that we find foreign and false, hurtful or controlling. A thought we don’t like. Or, a thought we like so much we just can’t let it go, even though we know it to be, from a Divine perspective, false.

UNCONSCIOUS THOUGHTS

Image: Iceberg, showing submerged portion … http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2015/04/16/16/27A3067F00000578-3041982-image-a-4_1429199464007.jpg ..

So, starting shortly after birth, we have quite a crowd of unconscious thoughts … our thoughts or other people’s thoughts … circling round our body, or a body part, waiting for a chance to reunite with Love. Plaguing us at inopportune times.

GIFTS FROM THE DIVINE

Or maybe not so inopportune? In fact, maybe it pops up at just the right moment? The moment when our wide-awake heart can welcome it in as the gift that it is. Allow it to dissolve in Love.

Image: Man with great white light emanating from his colon: Unconscious mind …  http://www.internet-of-the-mind.com/images/the-unconscious-mind-21365743.jpg ..

Why not look at what comes up all day long? At any moment, what’s right in front of me, distasteful as it may appear to be, might actually be the thing the Divine would like me to take a good look at and welcome into my heart with Love. And so, little by little, the cloak of unconsciousness that judgment has drawn round me — the cloak that hides the Divine from me … for, cloak or no cloak, I am never hid from the Divine! This cloak will fall away.

In love, light and joy
This is Alice B. Clagett.
I Am of the Stars … and so are you!

MORE ON UNCONSCIOUS THOUGHT

To me, unconscious thought really feels like the grey layer around the body in this picture …

Image: Subtle picture of ego: https://pbs.twimg.com/media/DY5P2LYXkAARiuv.jpgCOMMENT: This image illustrates how ego prevents the descent of grace. 

I can actually feel it shmoping around just outside me, interfering with the incoming lessons of Light. However, it’s also inside my body, interfering with my body chemistry, most probably causing aging. When it’s released to Love, it sometimes feels like seltzer bubbles rising up in the body. Or it may express itself as rearrangement of areas of my etheric body.

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FOOTNOTE

(1) I am reminded of a poem I once wrote …

“Other People’s Thoughts”
by Alice B. Clagett
4 January 2012

I used to think that other people’s thoughts–
dark thoughts, or sad, thoughts laden with desire,
gyres of the world as it used to be–
had power over me.

But now I think they’re like air, like wind,
which, when it grows too strong, what do I do?
Seek shelter in a quiet place.

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Eye of Horus . by Alice B. Clagett

  • THE EYE OF HORUS
  • URAEUS: THE COBRA AS A SYMBOL OF THE GODDESS WADJET
  • THE GODDESS WADJET, PROTECTOR OF EGYPT
  • HORUS, THE SKY GOD (PEREGRINE FALCON)
  • MATHEMATICS OF THE EYE OF HORUS
  • EYE OF HORUS JEWELRY AS A SYMBOL OF PROTECTION
Eye of Horus

Image: The Wedjat, Later Called the Eye of Horus, by user Jeff Dahl, 25 November 2015, in Wikimedia Commons … https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Eye_of_Horus_Right.svg … CC BY-SA 4.0 International … DESCRIPTION: “Eye of Horus (right eye). Following the sources, it must be the right eye (the left eye that is the original image has another meaning).”

Image: The Wedjat, Later Called the Eye of Horus, by user Jeff Dahl, 25 November 2015, in Wikimedia Commons … https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Eye_of_Horus_Right.svg … CC BY-SA 4.0 International … DESCRIPTION: “Eye of Horus (right eye). Following the sources, it must be the right eye (the left eye that is the original image has another meaning).”

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Dear Ones,

I am suddenly fascinated with the Eye of Horus (aka Wadjet, Ujat, Oudjat). Here are a few things I found out.

As described below, the goddess Wadjet is sometimes portrayed as a lion or a serpent.

  • In Egyptian mythology, the goddess Sekhmet, who represents the protective aspect of the nurturing goddess Hathor, is also portrayed as a lion. And so, one might derive that the feminine consists of two goddess-like qualities: that of protecting and that of nurturing.
  • The other symbol of the goddess Wadjet, the serpent, is associated with the awakened kundalini. And so, one might derive that the awakened kundalini perfects, in women, their ability to protect men, children, and other women.

THE EYE OF HORUS

“The Eye of Horus is an ancient Egyptian symbol of protection, royal power and good health. The eye is personified in the goddess Wadjet (also written as Wedjat, … or Udjat“, … Uadjet, Wedjoyet, Edjo or Uto …). The Eye of Horus is similar to the Eye of Ra, which belongs to a different god, Ra, but represents many of the same concepts…

“In the relief shown [below], which is on the wall of the Hatshepsut Temple at Luxor, there are two images of Wadjet: one of her as the uraeus sun disk (see below subhead) with her head through an ankh and another where she precedes a Horus hawk wearing the double crown of united Egypt, representing the pharaoh whom she protects. (1)

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Image: The Hawk of Pharaoh, Hatshepsuts Temple, Luxor, by Steve F-E-Cameron (Merlin-UK), 2006, in Wikimedia Commons … https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:S_F-E-CAMERON_Hatshepsut_Hawk.JPG … CC BY-SA 3.0 Unported

Image: The Hawk of Pharaoh, Hatshepsuts Temple, Luxor, by Steve F-E-Cameron (Merlin-UK), 2006, in Wikimedia Commons … https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:S_F-E-CAMERON_Hatshepsut_Hawk.JPG … CC BY-SA 3.0 Unported

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“The name Wadjet is derived from ‘wadj’ meaning ‘green’, hence ‘the green one’, and was known to the Greeks and Romans as ‘uraeus’ from the Egyptian ‘iaret’ meaning ‘risen one’ from the image of a cobra rising up in protection…. Wadjet was one of the earliest of Egyptian deities who later became associated with other goddesses such as Bast, Sekhmet, Mut, and Hathor. She was the tutelary deity of Lower Egypt and the major Delta shrine the ‘per-nu’ was under her protection…. Hathor is also depicted with this eye….” (2)

URAEUS: THE COBRA AS A SYMBOL OF THE GODDESS WADJET

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Image: “Green Glazed Cobra Amulet [in the form of Uraeus],” author not known, date not given, courtesy of Harrogate Museums and Arts, in Wikimedia Commons … https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Green_glazed_cobra_amulet_HARGM7405.JPG … CC BY-SA 4.0 International

Image: “Green Glazed Cobra Amulet [in the form of Uraeus],” author not known, date not given, courtesy of Harrogate Museums and Arts, in Wikimedia Commons … https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Green_glazed_cobra_amulet_HARGM7405.JPG … CC BY-SA 4.0 International

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“The Uraeus plural Uraei or Uraeuses; from the Greek οὐραῖος, ouraîos, ‘on its tail’; from Egyptian jʿr.t (iaret), ‘rearing cobra’) is the stylized, upright form of an Egyptian cobra (asp, serpent, or snake), used as a symbol of sovereignty, royalty, deity and divine authority in ancient Egypt.

“The Uraeus is a symbol for the goddess Wadjet. She was one of the earliest Egyptian deities and who often was depicted as a cobra….” (2)

THE GODDESS WADJET, PROTECTOR OF EGYPT

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Image: “Wadjet-N 5139, anonymous, between 664 and 332 BC, in Wikimedia Commons … https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Wadjet_N5139_mp3h8831.jpg … CC BY-SA France … DESCRIPTION: Wadjet as Wadjet-Bast, depicted as the body of a woman with a lioness head, wearing the uraeus.

Image: “Wadjet-N 5139, anonymous, between 664 and 332 BC, in Wikimedia Commons … https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Wadjet_N5139_mp3h8831.jpg … CC BY-SA France … DESCRIPTION: Wadjet as Wadjet-Bast, depicted as the body of a woman with a lioness head, wearing the uraeus.

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The Lion and the Kundalini Energy. As to the above image of Wadjet, note that the lion is also known as Sekhmet, the goddess who represents the protective aspect of the Egyptian nurturing goddess Hathor. Also, the serpent is associated with the awakened kundalini. And so, one might derive that the awakened kundalini perfects, in women, their ability to protect men, children, and other women.

Wadjet … “green one”), … known to the Greek world as Uto (Οὐτώ//ˈt/ or Βουτώ/Buto /ˈbt/) among other names, was originally the ancient local goddess of the city of Dep (Buto)…. It became part of the city that the Egyptians named Per-Wadjet (House of Wadjet) and the Greeks called Buto (Desouk now), … which was an important site in the Predynastic era of ancient Egypt and the cultural developments of the Paleolithic.

“She was said to be the patron and protector of Lower Egypt and upon unification with Upper Egypt, the joint protector and patron of all of Egypt ‘goddess’ of Upper Egypt. The image of Wadjet with the sun disk is called the uraeus, and it was the emblem on the crown of the rulers of Lower Egypt. She was also the protector of kings and of women in childbirth.

“As the patron goddess, she was associated with the land and depicted as a snake-headed woman or a snake—usually an Egyptian cobra, a venomous snake common to the region; sometimes she was depicted as a woman with two snake heads and, at other times, a snake with a woman’s head. Her oracle was in the renowned temple in Per-Wadjet that was dedicated to her worship and gave the city its name. This oracle may have been the source for the oracular tradition that spread to Greece from Egypt….

“An interpretation of the Milky Way was that it was the primal snake, Wadjet, the protector of Egypt. In this interpretation she was closely associated with Hathor and other early deities among the various aspects of the great mother goddess, including Mut and Naunet. The association with Hathor brought her son Horus into association also. The cult of Ra absorbed most of Horus’s traits and included the protective eye of Wadjet that had shown her association with Hathor.” (3)

HORUS, THE SKY GOD (PEREGRINE FALCON)

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Image: “Horus, an ancient Egyptian falcon headed-deity,” by Jeff Dahl, 26 December 2007, in Wikimedia Commons … https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Horus_standing.svg … CC BY-SA 4.0 International … DESCRIPTION: “Horus was usually depicted wearing the double crown of kingship, but also appeared in a fully falcon form, among others. Ra, another falcon-headed deity, is distinguished by the presence of the sun disk on his head, but the ancient Egyptians often combined Re and Horus into the composite deity known as Re-Horakhty … Based on New Kingdom tomb paintings.”

Image: “Horus, an ancient Egyptian falcon headed-deity,” by Jeff Dahl, 26 December 2007, in Wikimedia Commons … https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Horus_standing.svg … CC BY-SA 4.0 International … DESCRIPTION: “Horus was usually depicted wearing the double crown of kingship, but also appeared in a fully falcon form, among others. Ra, another falcon-headed deity, is distinguished by the presence of the sun disk on his head, but the ancient Egyptians often combined Re and Horus into the composite deity known as Re-Horakhty … Based on New Kingdom tomb paintings.”

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“Horus was the ancient Egyptian sky god who was usually depicted as a falcon, most likely a lanner or peregrine falcon … His right eye was associated with the sun god, Ra. The eye symbol represents the marking around the eye of the falcon, including the ‘teardrop’ marking sometimes found below the eye. The mirror image, or left eye, sometimes represented the moon and the god Djehuti (Thoth)….

“In one myth, when Set and Horus were fighting for the throne after Osiris’s death, Set gouged out Horus’s left eye. The majority of the eye was restored by either Hathor or Thoth (with the last portion possibly being supplied magically). When Horus’s eye was recovered, he offered it to his father, Osiris, in hopes of restoring his life. Hence, the eye of Horus was often used to symbolise sacrifice, healing, restoration, and protection….” (1)

MATHEMATICS OF THE EYE OF HORUS

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Image: Oudjat, by Benoît Stella alias BenduKiwi, date not given … in Wikimedia Commons … https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Oudjat.SVG … CC BY-SA 3.0 Unported

Image: Oudjat, by Benoît Stella alias BenduKiwi, date not given … in Wikimedia Commons … https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Oudjat.SVG … CC BY-SA 3.0 Unported

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“In Ancient Egyptian most fractions were written as the sum of two or more unit fractions (a fraction with 1 as the numerator), with scribes possessing tables of answers (see Rhind Mathematical Papyrus 2/n table)…. Thus instead of 34, one would write 12 + 14.

“Different parts of the Eye of Horus were thought to be used by the ancient Egyptians to represent one divided by the first six powers of two: …

The right side of the eye = 12
The pupil = 14
The eyebrow = 18
The left side of the eye = 116
The curved tail = 132
The teardrop = 164

“The Rhind Mathematical Papyrus contains tables of ‘Horus Eye Fractions’….

“Studies from the 1970s to this day in Egyptian mathematics have clearly shown this theory was fallacious and Jim Ritter definitely showed it to be false in 2003…. The evolution of the symbols used in mathematics, although similar to the different parts of the Eye of Horus, is now known to be distinct.” (1)

EYE OF HORUS JEWELRY AS A SYMBOL OF PROTECTION

I found a pretty cool Eye of Horus silver pendant for $58 … http://www.ka-gold-jewelry.com/p-products/eye-of-horus-silver.php … To me it feels like it has protective power. It can also be purchased in gold, but that’s pretty pricey:

Image: Silver Eye-of-Horus Jewelry: http://www.ka-gold-jewelry.com/images/theme-bg/600/eye-of-horus-silver.jpg ..

In love, light and joy
This is Alice B. Clagett.
I Am of the Stars … and so are you!

Written and published on 25 April 2013; revised on 24 March 2020; revised on 16 March 2023

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FOOTNOTES

(1) from Link: “Eye of Horus,” in Wikipedia … https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eye_of_Horus … CC BY-SA 3.0 Unported

(2) from Link: “Uraeus,” in Wikimedia … https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Uraeus … CC BY-SA 3.0 Unported

(3) from Link: “Wadjet” … https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wadjet … CC BY-SA 3.0 Unported

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A Little Song for Women: I’m So Pretty . by Alice B. Clagett

Written on 25 April 2013; published on 27 August 2020

  • “I’m So Pretty,” A Song by Alice B. Clagett, Soundtrack and Words

Dear Ones,

Here is a little song for women …

“I’m So Pretty”
A Song by Alice B. Clagett
Soundtrack and Words
25 April 2013

 

I’m so pretty
I’m so pretty
I’m so pretty
I am!

I’m so pretty
I’m so pretty
I’m so pretty
I am!

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In love, light and joy
This is Alice B. Clagett.
I Am of the Stars … and so are you!

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