Filmed on 19 January 2020; published on 23 January 2020
Image: “Dark Love Triangle: Alpha Female or ‘Cheerleader’ and Two Men Who Love Her,” adapted and compiled by Alice B. Clagett, 20 April 2021, CC BY-SA 4.0 …
CREDITS: Image: “Two Men,” by Edgar Degas, ca. 1865-1869, in Wikimedia Commons … https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Two_Men_MET_DT6944.jpg … CC0 1.0 Universal; and from Image: “Woman Standing by a Tree,” by Pierre-Auguste Renoir, 1866, in Wikimedia Commons … https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Woman_Standing_by_a_Tree_G-001652-20120801.jpg … public domain …
DESCRIPTION: A woman in a long white dress and wearing a black hat stands between two men formally attired in a dark drawing room …
COMMENT: This is the kind of Dark Love Triangle where a woman wants the romantic attention of two (or more) men. She will destroy male-female romantic relationships so as to accumulate a second man in her ‘portmanteau’. Another name for this behavior is ‘The Cheerleader’ … a woman who lords it over other women, and towards whom they feel envy because the men they love fall head over heels for her. This behavior is typical of alpha females.
- VIDEO BY ALICE
- SUMMARY OF THE VIDEO
- Dream About a Man Who Searched for the Mother He Had Lost in Everyone He Met [re ‘Likes Blondes Too’]
- The Same Man in a Dark Love Triangle Setting [re ‘Likes Blondes Too’]
- Is the Dark Love Triangle an Attempt to Resolve Issues with Mother and Father?
- Results of Using the Affirmation: May no one hear anything at all from me!
- Placing Awareness on the Eighth Chakra Can Reveal Our Karmic Metaprograms
- Back to the Story: Other Thoughts on Why a Dark Love Triangle Might Occur
- Definition of ‘Dark Love Triangle’
- On the Intimate Man-Woman Relationship and Lifetime Mating Instinct as a Feral Drive
- Concluding Thoughts
Here is a video about a dream I had on the theme of the Dark Love Triangle. There is an edited Summary after the video …
VIDEO BY ALICE
SUMMARY OF THE VIDEO
Hello, Dear Ones, It’s Alice. I Am of the Stars.
I have a story to tell you based on astral stories and very deep, dreamtime realm dreams that came up last night. I have already recorded it. I found out that I was figuring it out as I recorded it. So, in several instances during the recording, I went back to events that had happened priorly, and then attempted to explain. I would like to apologize for the disjointed nature of this video, and hope that something more easily understood comes of it in times to come. It is a story about the Dark Love Triangle.
Last night I had a series of dreams that were pretty traumatic for me, that did not have to do with me. They were sort of looking into other people’s dream realms. That visualization of other people’s dreams happened through concentration on my own eighth chakra, and clearing of my own eighth chakra, while lying on my back in corpse pose.
Dream About a Man Who Searched for the Mother He Had Lost in Everyone He Met [re ‘Likes Blondes Too’]
One story went like this: There was a man who had very little memory of his mother when he was young. She must have left the family when he was very young. So in the very early stages of his youth he was missing the maternal protective feeling of a mother being there. Although his father was there, his mother apparently was not.
That lack of the mother has led him all his life to search for the mother in all the people he sees. And it has colored his interactions with men and women in such a way that he has created a series of dream images that he superimposes on all the relationships he has in life, so as to try to find the maternal energy, and unite it with the father energy, at the same time that he is looking for romantic love.
The Same Man in a Dark Love Triangle Setting [re ‘Likes Blondes Too’]
I have hesitated to talk about this because it is ‘catching’, and I feel I have, in fact, seen other people ‘catching’ this same malware sequence … a very complicated one regarding Dark Love Triangles, about which I have written in past times …
Link: “Dark Love Triangle 1,” by Alice B. Clagett, written on 20 November 2017, 27 December 2017, and 3 February 2018 … https://wp.me/p2Rkym-8in ..
I will just talk about last night’s dream: It had to do with a married man and a woman … in fact, the same two that were in the dream about the severed wedding ring finger …
Link: “The Wedding Ring,” by Alice B. Clagett, filmed on 19 January 2020; published on 22 January 2020 … https://wp.me/p2Rkym-g9k ..
The man who lacked a mother in his early youth also was in the dream. His hope was to allow the woman to have sexual relief, so that their marriage could go on, even though ‘the father’ (the woman’s husband) was very, very angry. That makes me think that whatever happened in his youth with regard to the mother had to do with his own father’s violent anger against her.
I will call that other man … the man who lacked a mother in his early youth … ‘the third man’. And then there are the husband and wife. In his dream world, the third man got together with this couple, and he was cogitating about what to do so as to allow her to feel safe to be able to release her sexual energy that night, and at the same time to prevent the husband from venting his violent, angry subconscious imagery in real life upon her.
And the thing of it is that his dreaming, eighth chakra self came up with was … maybe you will make more sense out of this than I do; to me, it is still not clear … he needed to divert the angry energy of the husband, and then make love to the wife, from his heart chakra.
Is the Dark Love Triangle an Attempt to Resolve Issues with Mother and Father?
So if those two represent his father and mother in the unresolved childhood trauma, then that might mean that, in his relationships with women he is looking towards mother-lover Oedipal complex. In this case, through his loving interaction on the astral plane with the wife, he may be looking to relieve her sexual energy, which had been damaged that day by a kind of a ‘rape’ situation where the husband became very, very angry, and then demanded to have anal intercourse with his wife. And so the woman in question felt that she had been angrily assaulted, in a manner of speaking, even though the man was her husband.
Results of Using the Affirmation: May no one hear anything at all from me!
So there is that; a lot happened, it seems, on the astral plane yesterday and last night. I think this had to do with a new affirmation I have invented: May no one hear anything at all from me! … something like that.
That then creates a quietness in my own energy field. And so, instead of projecting their negative emotions on me and others, people start hearing what the personal issues are, especially amongst married couples, and then they start resolving them. There may be a lot of unresolved anger on both sides, that is projected towards other people (such as Lightworkers) so that the marriage can continue, without straining it through venting of negative emotions.
Placing Awareness on the Eighth Chakra Can Reveal Our Karmic Metaprograms
Where was I? … [laughs] … Back to the story: The third man knew about all that. The eighth chakra does this. It is very wise; it knows the metaprograms of karma and so forth. It knows the major plays that are keeping people on Earth, trying to figure out certain types of Soul wisdom. And it knows this about other people’s metaprograms too, it seems, in some cases.
Back to the Story: Other Thoughts on Why a Dark Love Triangle Might Occur
Or maybe those two were interacting because of the childhood trauma of the third person being similar to the trauma that this married couple had gone through yesterday. (You can see this is a reach for me!) So the third person had the idea that he could feel loving sexual thoughts towards the wife, and at the same time ask the husband to relate to him in a sexual way, as if he were sodomizing the third person at the same time as the third person was creating a sexual relief situation for the wife.
Definition of ‘Dark Love Triangle’
This I call a ‘Dark Love Triangle’: When three people have to be involved in what otherwise might be an intimate mating situation between a man and woman.
On the Intimate Man-Woman Relationship and Lifetime Mating Instinct as a Feral Drive
Even sparrows and other types of birds have the ability to mate together for life. And people have that ability too. Of course, sometimes there are terrible upsets in this, the third dimension. Sometimes someone passes on. Sometimes a person is lost to another person because of physical distance. All kinds of things can happen, that break the lifetime mating bond.
But still the ability to express that bond exists. And the chance exists for the person to express that bond through union with another person. And this, in my feeling, is the most clear-cut and straightforward way of relating to another person with regard to sex.
It has its basis in biology. It has its basis in the feral drives; and that adheres one person to another in a mating drive that carries with it both the subconscious and the conscious mind, and unites the person as one, whole, loving being feeling that love towards one other person; that is what I feel. That is why the Dark Love Triangle is an upset to me.
I am trusting that those of you with greater psychological and psychiatric experience than I have, to try to figure out what is ‘up’ with this, and to try to help those many people that I have observed, that do experience, throughout their lives, the Dark Love Triangle.
All right, you all; that is enough ‘jawing’ for one day. I will talk to you later.
In love, light and joy,
I Am of the Stars
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