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The Conclusion was expanded on 29 January 2026 at 8:20 am.
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- ATTEMPTED BREAK-IN AT MY MOTEL ROOM AT THE STARLIGHT INN IN WINNETKA
- HOW I GOT AWAY SAFELY – WHY DID THIS INCIDENT OCCUR? – WHAT SHOULD I HAVE KNOWN THAT I DID NOT KNOW?
- IN FUTURE, HOW CAN I AVOID AN ATTEMPTED BREAK-IN TO MY MOTEL ROOM IN THE SAN FERNANDO VALLEY?
- IF I TRAVEL IN CALIFORNIA, OR ELSEWHERE IN THE UNITED STATES TODAY, IS IT LIKELY I WILL ENCOUNTER MEN TRYING TO BREAK INTO MY MOTEL ROOM?
- CONCLUSION
- Question from Readers: Why Did I Choose the Starlight Inn?
- Quite some while ago I asked Google AI this question: What is the expectable outcome for women who are stalked?
ATTEMPTED BREAK-IN AT MY MOTEL ROOM AT THE STARLIGHT INN IN WINNETKA
This occurred on 17 October 2025 in the Starlight Inn, Room 103, 7435 Winnetka Ave, Canoga Park, California 91306. I paid for the night, but was only there for a few hours before I needed to escape.
Dear Ones,
This is a bit of a missive. Because the question is so long, I had to ask Google AI about it in a series of short steps. The story goes like this …
I asked Google AI: “Google AI, Something happened to me a couple of months ago in the San Fernando Valley. One night I felt unsafe at home, and went to a hotel in Winnetka called the Starlight Inn for safety’s sake.
I put a physical obstacle on the door in case someone else should try to get in.
Right after I got there I went to the restroom to freshen up. The restroom is close to the door to the room. While there, I heard a sound of someone placing a key card in the lock on the door and trying to open the handle of my door.
I went back out and checked the lock, which was now unlocked. I locked the door again and made sure the door was still physically blocked. Then I took a nap.
I was awoken by the sound of two men talking in low voices to each other just outside my door. They had used a key card to unlock the door and were turning the door handle and trying to force their way into the room.
I tried to call the front desk at the Starlight Inn, but I found the room phone was not working.
I turned on my handheld and dialed 911. I explained to the police operator that I needed a police escort to get past the men who were trying to break into my room so that I could get safely back to my car. The police operator said that LAPD does not offer that kind of assistance.
I gathered my personal possessions in both hands and headed out of the Starlight Inn.
Because of the tension of the situation I could not take the time to return my card key to the night clerk, so I lost my $20 cash deposit on the card key.
A muscular indigena slid past me as I threw my possessions into the back seat of my car.
I noticed he was heading toward a car idling with its headlights on, that was blocking the exit to the one-way driveway of the Starlight Inn.
On the other side of me were standing two or three tall Caucasian men dressed nicely, looking at ease but out of place in that locale. They were closely watching me … (to be continued) …
Google AI said: “That sounds like a terrifying ordeal, and it is a relief you were able to exit safely despite the lack of assistance. Your experience with unauthorized room entry and non-functional safety equipment aligns with several documented issues at that location.
Security Concerns and Guest Safety
- Unauthorized Entry: Other guests at the Starlight Inn have reported similar security breaches where staff allegedly allowed strangers to access rooms or entered without authorization.
- Faulty In-Room Equipment: There are multiple reports of missing or non-functional basic amenities, specifically no phones in the rooms and faulty fire alarms. This significantly compromises your ability to contact the front desk or emergency services during a crisis.
- Property Management: The motel is known for its strict cash deposit policy and reports of a ‘no visitors’ policy that often creates friction between staff and guests.
LAPD Response and Reporting
- Policy on Escorts: While the LAPD maintains regular patrols, they typically do not provide private ‘escort’ services for individuals unless it is part of a declared evacuation or specific tactical operation.
- Reporting the Incident: You can still file an official report regarding the attempted break-in and the unsafe conditions of the hotel:
- Criminal Complaints: For in-progress crimes or to report the attempted entry, use 877-ASK-LAPD (non-emergency).
- Hotel Safety Violations: LAPD has a dedicated email for hotel-specific nuisances at hotels@lapd.online.
- Building Hazards: If the room phone or safety locks were broken, you can contact LADBS Code Enforcement via 311 to report improper living conditions …”
HOW I GOT AWAY SAFELY – WHY DID THIS INCIDENT OCCUR? – WHAT SHOULD I HAVE KNOWN THAT I DID NOT KNOW?
Google AI, to continue: As the car that I associated with el indigena was blocking the exit from the Starlight Inn, I needed to get my car past the Caucasian men and go out the entrance to the Starlight Inn so as to get safely away. And that is how I escaped.
I keep thinking about this incident, which is unprecedented in my life.
- How did those men get a key card to my room?
- Why did they try to break in?
- Why was the Starlight Inn room phone not working?
- Why would LAPD not come to my assistance?
Google AI, Do you have any thoughts on this?
Google AI said: “That experience is profoundly unsettling, and it’s understandable why you’re still processing it. Here are some technical and procedural insights based on your questions:
How did they get a key card?
- System Vulnerabilities: Many hotel locks, including those at properties like the Starlight Inn, use older RFID or magnetic strip technology. Researchers have found that millions of these locks are vulnerable to ‘master key’ hacks, where a used key can be rewritten with a simple device to grant access to any room.
- Staff Involvement or Negligence: Unauthorized entry often occurs when front desk staff inadvertently issue a duplicate key to someone claiming to be a guest, or when a staff member’s master key is lost or stolen.
- ‘Evil Maid’ Attacks: This is a security term for when an intruder gains access to a key to plant surveillance or commit theft.
Why did they try to break in?
While their specific motive is unknown, typical reasons for such forced entries at low-security motels include:
- Theft or Robbery Intruders often target guests they believe might have cash or valuables.
- Targeted Harassment: Your intuition about feeling unsafe at home suggests you may have been followed or that these individuals were looking for someone specific.
- ‘No Visitor’ Friction: Reports at this specific Starlight Inn mention a strict ‘no visitors’ policy, but also ‘shady people’ hanging around the parking lot, suggesting it may be a site for illegal activity or unauthorized gatherings.
Why was the room phone not working?
- Maintenance Neglect: Guests at this location have frequently complained about broken basic infrastructure, including fire alarms and general room upkeep.
- Technical Failure: Most hotel phones rely on a PBX (Private Branch Exchange) system. If the internal wiring is old or the central switch has a power surge, the entire floor’s phone system can fail.
Why wouldn’t the LAPD assist?
- Priority Dispatching: LAPD dispatchers prioritize calls where there is an imminent threat of life-threatening violence. If they determined the suspects were outside and you were (at that moment) behind a locked door, they may have categorized it as a ‘non-emergency’ or a ‘civil standby’ request.
- Policy on Escorts: LAPD typically does not provide private ‘escort’ services for individuals to their vehicles, as this is considered a function of private security rather than public policing.
- Civil vs. Criminal: If the men hadn’t yet physically breached the door, the operator might have viewed it as a property dispute or a hotel management issue rather than an active home invasion …”
IN FUTURE, HOW CAN I AVOID AN ATTEMPTED BREAK-IN TO MY MOTEL ROOM IN THE SAN FERNANDO VALLEY?
I asked Google AI: Google AI, Thanks for your good information.
In case this concern about safety at my home in the San Fernando Valley should happen again, do you know if there are motels there where such incidents are not likely to occur?
Google AI said: “Yes, for enhanced safety and security, it is highly recommended to stay at reputable, nationally branded hotels (like Hilton or Marriott properties) in established, well-lit neighborhoods within the San Fernando Valley, such as Woodland Hills, Sherman Oaks, or Porter Ranch.
These types of hotels are more likely to have professional management, better security infrastructure (e.g., modern key card systems, security guards, monitored CCTVs), and reliable in-room amenities like working phones …
General Safety Tips for Future Stays
- Choose Established Brands: Chain hotels generally adhere to corporate safety and maintenance standards, which often surpass those of independent, budget motels.
- Check Recent Reviews: Look for recent guest reviews that specifically mention safety, security, working in-room phones, and the surrounding neighborhood.
- Avoid Ground Floor Rooms: Opt for rooms on higher floors when possible, as they are less accessible from the outside.
- Verify Safety Equipment: Upon entering the room, immediately check that the door locks work properly and the room phone connects to the front desk.
- Utilize Safety Latches/Obstacles: Continue using personal safety measures like door wedges or other portable security devices if you feel the need.
Prioritizing a higher-rated, securely managed hotel can offer peace of mind and minimize the risk of a recurrence of your past traumatic experience.“
IF I TRAVEL IN CALIFORNIA, OR ELSEWHERE IN THE UNITED STATES TODAY, IS IT LIKELY I WILL ENCOUNTER MEN TRYING TO BREAK INTO MY MOTEL ROOM?
I had one final question for Google AI: Google AI, Thanks so much for your helpful advice.
I have one more question about this: Do you know, if I were to travel in California, or elsewhere in the United States today, is it likely I will encounter men trying to break into my motel room?
Google AI said: “It is highly unlikely that you would repeatedly or randomly encounter a situation like the one you described in the San Fernando Valley. That incident, while terrifying, was an extreme and specific event, likely influenced by the specific location, the individuals involved, and the substandard security at that particular establishment.
When you stay at reputable, secure hotels as previously discussed, the risk of a similar break-in attempt is significantly minimized.
Factors Influencing Your Risk Level
- Location: High-crime areas or motels known for illicit activity inherently carry higher risks than hotels in safe, residential, or business districts.
- Hotel Standards: Your previous experience occurred at an independent motel with documented security and maintenance issues (non-functional phones, outdated locks). Corporate-brand hotels in well-maintained areas have better safety infrastructure and management.
- The Nature of the Incident: The men in your experience seemed persistent and possibly targeted (e.g., waiting outside your specific door, attempting forced entry even with an obstacle). This suggests a situation more specific than random crime.
How to Further Mitigate Risk
While no location can offer 100% guarantees, you can take steps to ensure your safety is a top priority:
- Choose Wisely: Stick to the recommendations of staying at well-reviewed, branded hotels in safer neighborhoods.
- Maintain Situational Awareness: Be mindful of your surroundings in parking lots and hallways.
- Use All Safety Features: Always engage deadbolts, security chains, and personal door obstacles (like a rubber door wedge).
- Trust Your Instincts: If a situation or person makes you feel uneasy, leave the area immediately or contact hotel management/local authorities.
Focusing on safe travel practices and choosing secure accommodations is your best approach to ensuring a safe trip anywhere in the US.”
CONCLUSION
This experience was unprecedented in my life, not because there has never been a ‘sneak thief’ attempt at a motel I’ve stayed in, but rather because I was awakened by the men using physical force to get my motel room door open. They were shoving on the door … maybe with their shoulders … after first unlocking the lock.
It was their use of physical force on the door that prompted me to reach out for answers and for future preventive measures.
I can’t say exactly why the use of physical force triggered my insufficient decision to call for help and then my decision to escape.
The best I can say is that the men took a powder while I was dialing 911.
Question from Readers: Why Did I Choose the Starlight Inn?
A question came up from my Readers as to why I chose the Starlight Inn. Here is the answer: In years prior I had done some research on safe motels in the San Fernando Valley for women subject to domestic violence.
At that time, Starlight Inn had a reputation as a sanctuary for battered women. They had a policy not to let more than one person into a one-person overnight rental. That seemed to me like a plus, because an enraged boyfriend or husband could not follow a woman into her motel room, there at the Starlight Inn, and beat her up.
Mine is not the story of a battered woman subject to domestic violence, as I live alone … or as alone as person can be who has as a companion an amazing cat named ‘Oreo Shoes’.
But my story is somewhat similar.
From time to time, over the last 26 years, I have been stalked by men, either singly or in groups, and also once by two women and a man. Sometimes these stalking events are intensive and enduring for a week or more. At other times they cease.
Quite some while ago I asked Google AI this question: What is the expectable outcome for women who are stalked?
Today I asked again. Here are highlights from Google AI’s response. I have highlighted what seemed most apropos of my own situation in bolded brown font …
“Women who are stalked face severe, long-term, and multi-faceted consequences that impact their psychological, physical, and financial well-being. Stalking is often characterized as a ‘homicide in slow motion’ or a traumatic experience, with over 90% of victims reporting negative mental health impacts and 84% reporting fear or concern for their safety.
The expected outcomes for female stalking victims include:
- Severe Mental Health and Psychological Effects
- High Rates of Trauma: Roughly 80% of victims report symptoms indicative of a diagnosable disorder, such as PTSD, depression, or anxiety.
- Constant Fear and Anxiety: Victims frequently live in fear, experiencing high levels of anxiety, insomnia, and hypervigilance (always on guard).
- Long-Term Psychological Distress: Victims are two to three times more likely to suffer from psychological distress than those who have not been stalked.
- Suicidal Ideation: Approximately 1 in 4 stalking victims contemplates suicide.
- Significant Physical Health Issues
- Cardiovascular Risks: Women who are stalked have a 41% higher risk of developing cardiovascular disease (CVD), with that risk rising to 70% if they have obtained a restraining order.
- Chronic Stress and Illness: Long-term exposure to fear leads to chronic stress, causing headaches, high blood pressure, stomach problems, and the worsening of pre-existing conditions like asthma or ulcers.
- Fatigue: Constant hypervigilance often leads to severe exhaustion and sleeplessness.
- Life-Altering Disruptions
- Lifestyle Changes: To cope, many victims must change their daily routines, such as changing phone numbers, quitting jobs, or relocating their homes.
- Financial and Professional Loss: Many victims lose time from work, are fired, or are forced to quit, with 26% of female victims losing work time and 7% never returning to work.
- Social Isolation: Due to fear, shame, or distrust of others, victims often withdraw from social activities and friends.
- Risk of Escalation to Violence
- Intimate Partner Violence: In 76% of cases where a woman is murdered by an intimate partner, stalking occurred in the year preceding the murder.
- Threats and Assault: A large majority of victims are threatened with physical harm, and about 33% of stalking encounters eventually lead to physical violence.
- Legal and Systemic Outcomes
- Protective Orders: Roughly 28% of female victims obtain a protective order.
- Order Violations: Stalkers violate protection orders in 69% of cases involving female victims.
- Underestimation of Danger: Stalking is often ignored by the justice system, with only 13.1% of female victims having their cases prosecuted criminally.
The severity of these outcomes often depends on the type of stalking (e.g., being followed, threats), with the highest level of damage occurring when the stalker is a current or former intimate partner.”
Because stalking implies danger to my person, I do what I may to avoid physical trouble. One of my options, when I sense physical danger to be quite likely, is to change my physical location … for instance, to spend the night in a motel.
Because I had such a presentiment the afternoon of 17 October 2025, I thought to go to the Starlight Inn, which had the aforementioned reputation for protecting women from violence.
Over time, though, I feel things have changed for the Starlight Inn. From my own experience there on 17 October 2025, I suggest to women who are in danger that … at least until the situation there changes … it might be best to avoid that motel.
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By the way, I liked Google AI’s responses on this. Now I know quite a bit more than before I asked.
In love, light and joy
This is Alice B. Clagett.
I Am of the Stars … and so are you!
Compiled and published on 29 January 2026; revised on 17 February 2026
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