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‘Opposite’ Twin Flame Troubles? . by Alice B. Clagett

Written and published on 11 December 2013; revised and republished on 31 August 2017


Dear Ones,

Bill Ballard …

Link: “pearls2u,” by Bill Ballard, on youtube … https://www.youtube.com/user/pearls2u ..

… describes the twin flame relationship as an electromagnetic circuit that allows us to experience more polarity … in whatever dimension we find ourselves … than we would otherwise experience.

He has talked about regular twin flame relationships … What you might think of as two hearts beating as one, à la popular literature. He also talks about ‘opposite’ twin flames, where one absolutely hates what the other loves. In the context of Ascension, that might mean one twin flame is gung-ho into multidiming, and the other would very much prefer the status quo. Which leads to some interesting love-hate electromagnetics.

His point is it does not matter which type of twin flame relationship we may be enjoying … or enduring. When it comes right down to it, it is all a question of electromagnetics. There is an electromagnetic circuit between us and our twin flame.


Just to get a general idea of ‘opposite’ twin flame EMF wiring, imagine a magnetic field …

Image:  “Electric dipole field of two point-charges with finite distance,” in Wikimedia Commons … https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:VFPt_dipole_electric.svg … CC BY-SA 3.0 Unported

Image:  “Electric dipole field of two point-charges with finite distance,” in Wikimedia Commons … https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:VFPt_dipole_electric.svg … CC BY-SA 3.0 Unported

Now, imagine that you are the blue sphere, and your twin flame is the red sphere. You, the blue sphere, are being constantly bombarded with signals … sometimes conscious telepathic signals, but largely unconscious signals that affect your gut brain … and these signals are emanating from your ‘opposite’ twin flame.

This can be the most galling experience, the feeling of being at the effect of someone else’s thoughts and emotions. It is good to keep in mind, though, that polarities can reverse any time, which then puts our ‘opposite’ twin flame at the effect of our own subconscious thoughts and emotions. This we may fail to notice, since the ‘takeover’ is taking place on a subconscious … or possibly unconscious … level.

On waking up from deep sleep, for instance, those who are clairaudient can sense what subconscious input they’ve received from an ‘opposite’ twin flame during the night, but not what subconscious ‘output’ they’ve sent to their opposite twin flame, who may be feeling equally put-upon.


With proper rewiring, we can achieve a ‘truer’ version of our personal electromagnetic field. It looks like this …

Image: “Magnetic Field of the Human Heart,” from English Wikipedia … https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Magnetocardiography#/media/File:Heart-field.jpg … public domain … COMMENT: The electromagnetic field of the heart: A torus emanating from the heart chakra.

Image: “Magnetic Field of the Human Heart,” from English Wikipedia … https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Magnetocardiography#/media/File:Heart-field.jpg … public domain … COMMENT: The electromagnetic field of the heart: A torus emanating from the heart chakra.

So how do we get from the energy configuration of the first picture, where we’re basically at the effect of someone else’s subconscious mind, to the truer, more self-contained configuration of the second picture?


The first thing to do is to walk outdoors as much as possible every day. This will help dispel the distortions in our electromagnetic field … what you might call ‘short circuits’ … and prepare our EMF to be in stand-alone status. Expect painful thoughts, feelings and memories to surface as you walk. Do not pay any attention to them, though. This just how your senses register the process as your EMF short-circuits flare up and your EMF adjusts to that of New Earth. The simple act of walking in nature achieves this rewiring process.

Just before a rewire, the twin flame chatter can get very intense. Fears can arise that you are losing your mind. In a sense, this is true … You are losing an old EMF configuration … But you are gaining a new one, in which your mind will function better. Naturally, fears will come up.  It is good to feel trust and faith during this process. These emotions will get us through with the least difficulty.  Whatever you are hearing in your mind, know in your heart that all is well …


As this rewiring process has been taking place with me, I have tried a shortcut that helps a little. Maybe it will help you too. Here is the technique …

Lie down on your back on the floor or on your bed. Do not put a pillow under your head. Make sure that your body is completely horizontal, and completely relaxed.

In an opposite twin flame relationship, one side of the body becomes more entangled, electromagnetically, because of the constant interaction with the other twin flame. And one side of the body becomes less entangled. If you have not already noticed this, you now need to determine which side is which.

Outstretch one arm on the floor at right angles to the body, and place your Awareness very single-mindedly on your outstretched palm. If the twin flame chatter increases, then you have extended the ‘more-entangled-side’ arm by mistake. Bring that arm back by your side, extend the other arm along the floor at right angles to your body, and concentrate your Awareness single-mindedly on the newly extended palm.

Image: Titmouse perched on a person’s hand … https://birdfeederhub.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/06/titmouse-in-hand.jpg ..

With luck, you will find, as did I, that concentrating on this ‘less-entangled-side’ palm decreases the volume of, or else creates a sense of distance from, the twin flame chatter. So if the chatter begins to decrease in volume, or if you begin to feel a mental distance from it, Just lie comfortably on the ground, and concentrate on the extended weak-side palm.

What happened for me when I tried this defies description. The rewiring process continued for several hours. So if the process begins to work for you, be patient. Trust in the outcome. Know that all is well.


Interaction between people after rewiring is completely different from the twin-flame dynamic. It is more like this …

Image: Two people, each with an EMF field emanating from their heart, standing close together, so that the EMF fields overlap … http://www.meditationplex.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/04/heart-electromagnetic-field.png ..

When two people have ‘stand alone’ electromagnetic fields, their EMFs remain relatively intact, even when they are physically near each other. However, the ‘flavor’ of one person’s EMF influences the overall EMF of a nearby person, or a person visualized. It’s more like an overall, homogeneous ‘love in’… Well, not in the personal sense; electromagnetically speaking.

This may sound outré, even off-putting, but it’s actually lots of fun; a very high experience. Uplifting and loving on a deeply personal level. Something to look forward to, as fog loves sun, as the shore loves the ocean, as time and space love the timeless, spaceless Source of All. We do not know it, we cannot imagine it, we sense it but dimly. We are all just on the verge of experiences wonderful beyond measure.

In love, light and joy,
I Am of the Stars


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Merging Polarities: The Shadow, Gender Roles, ‘Evil Twin Flame’ . by Alice B. Clagett

Filmed on 20 June 2015; published on 26 June 2015; final draft on 5 November 2018

    • For Each Soul, the Polarity Experiment Consists of 3D-4D Fractalization
    • Transformation of Our Shadow Side
    • Transformation of Shadow Gender Roles
    • Opportunities for Soul Clearing Through the ‘Evil Twin Flame’ Relationship
    • Multiple ‘Twined Flames’: Dealing with Complications of ‘Grouping’
    • How to Circumvent Complications of Twining and Grouping
    • To Sum Up …

Dear Ones,


This video is about merging our 3D and 4D polarities as we expand into 5D consciousness. It offers a fresh look at the concept of the demon realm, so prevalent as an archetypal symbol in many cultures, and how it might be considered an unconscious depiction of our ‘shadow’ side.

After the video there is a FINAL DRAFT OF THE VIDEO.

The topic of the video is described somewhat differently and more completely in the COMMENTS that follow the Final Draft. For those so motivated, I would suggest reading both the Final Draft and the Comments …

At the end of the blog, there is an edited TRANSCRIPT OF THE VIDEO (which I am going to offer as a transcript for the Youtube video),



For Each Soul, the Polarity Experiment Consists of 3D-4D Fractalization

New theory: When we beings of light decide to experience greater polarity, greater density, our awareness descends from 5D to 3D-4D, In these dimension we encounter negative emotions such as fear, terror, anger, lust, greed … emotions that are never encountered in 5D. These negative emotions allow us to fashion creations on the astral and physical plane that are much more diverse than those found in the higher dimensions. And that is the intention: to garner wisdom from experience of polarity.

So then, how does this polarity experiment take place? My theory is that, at the moment of descent in awareness from the fifth dimension, there may be fractalization into ‘good’ and ‘evil’ qualities of Soul, and these polarized qualities of Soul may exist separately but simultaneously in 3D (physical existence) and 4D (dreamtime realm).

Perhaps the ‘Veil of Forgetfulness’ is the mechanism that has till now allowed us to continue this polarity experiment.  What causes the ‘Veil of Forgetfulness’? Is it societal expectations, as previously discussed? (1) Does the ego play a role? These questions await future clarification.

As humankind expands its awareness from 3D into 4D, the Veil is being dissolved. Societal expectations are giving way to awareness of a truer reality. And so, we intrepid Souls are beginning to encounter our opposite polarity in the previously hidden-from-us realm of 4D, the dreamtime realm.

Transformation of Our Shadow Side

For those of us who identify as lightworkers, I posit we may encounter our ‘evil alter ego’ in the dreamtime realm. We may come face to face with our Dark Shadow. This shadow we must meet with Love, and transform with Love, so as to return to 5D.

And too, as ‘good’, or societally responsive, 3D people, we do sometimes ‘act out’ in the physical world our 4D shadow side, which has in it repressed, socially unacceptable, emotions and thought forms. The agency of repression might be conceived of as a ‘bubble of forgetfulness’ … a class of energy that is but one small part of the great Veil of Forgetfulness.

Then there are Souls that are experiencing the Genghis Khan (‘Corporate Raider’) mental filter. From a societal standpoint, their stance in 3D may be considered ‘evil’ … that is, ‘antisocial’, adverse to the mores of civilization. This is pretty much so … I mean, how many Genghis Khan types could there be in the world? Civilization as we know it would fall if everyone pursued the ‘master plan’ of dominating humankind.

So but anyway, in the world today, there are a handful of Souls that are acting out the ‘evil’ Genghis Khan mental filter in 3D. For them, I posit, the Light and Good aspects of their beingness are sequestered in their 4D, or dreamtime, fractal. As the Incoming Light steadily levels up, these Souls are tasked with integrating their own ‘good’ 4D aspect. It seems to me a difficult task, especially if ‘power over’ is held high as a standard, so I’m trusting in God to help them through this process. I have no doubt but what, for all Souls on Earth today, the 3D-4D merge is entirely possible.

Transformation of Shadow Gender Roles

I posit, similarly, that just as each of us has left-brain and right-brain aspects, each of us has both masculine and feminine aspects, and that these are expressed, from incarnation to incarnation, as sometimes a male incarnation, and sometimes a female incarnation. Over the history of our incarnations on Earth, each of our own Soul’s gender aspects has taken on samskaric distortions.

We express a certain gender in this incarnation in the physical realm. I posit that our opposite gender exists in Shadow aspect in 4D, and that each of us is now encountering this opposite-gender shadow as the Veil dissolves. As with the ‘good’ versus the ‘evil’ shadow, the positive gender aspect and the shadow opposite gender aspect must be met with Love, and transformed with Love.

There is most likely also hanging out in the astral plane as well, possibly as ‘bubbles of forgetfulness’, the shadow aspect of our current gender, also needing to be resolved.

[End of Video]


Opportunities for Soul Clearing Through the ‘Evil Twin Flame’ Relationship

Then there is the experience of meeting a Twin Flame in 3D, the experience of ‘Other’ (someone else’s ego) as ‘I’ (my own ego). When my ego flips back to an understanding that my ‘Twin Flame’ is really another person, not me at all, then the experience may become that of the much talked about ‘Evil Twin Flame.’ Physically, the Twin Flame relationship most likely ends at this point, and so 3D-3D interaction ceases.

But because each person in the Twin Flame relationship, putatively, expresses their gender shadow in 4D, and because psychic cords and emotional-mental resonances continue after the return of our egos to our normal state of ‘I-Other’ discrimination, there ensues a complex relationship of:

  • my own good gender aspects (3D),
  • my own bad opposite gender aspects (4D, beyond the Veil of Forgetfulness),
  • my own hidden bad same gender aspects (4D bubbles of forgetfulness),
  • and also in 4D, on the astral plane, the Other’s bad opposite gender aspects.

When the Other’s ‘bad’ opposite gender aspects clairly present themselves to us on the astral plane, then we may experience some egoic upset, some existential angst … perhaps the sudden realization that the ego is a pretty weak construct that artificially separates us from Other, from the Unknown, from the great All That Is.

At which point, I am thinking, it might be good to take a big deep breath, or maybe practice the ‘Creator Breath’ described by Sandra Walter of Creative Evolution (2). And then, carefully observe our physical reality, our physical surroundings, the comforting presence of our own body, the sunlight, or the walls of our own house … like that. Here we are, right here, right now. And that is that.

The ‘Evil Twin Flame’ experience can be pretty intense, but it does have its good side. The Twin Flame – Evil Twin Flame experience represents two Souls’ decisions, preincarnationally, to help each other dissolve, in this incarnation, all their multi-incarnational gender shadows, irrespective of gender. In other words, two souls preincarnationally decide to get through the 3D-4D transformation in what appears to be the most efficient way, from a timeline perspective.

Of course, we do not need to have the Twin Flame – Evil Twin Flame experience in order to expand our Awareness into the fifth dimension. This is just one of many options. So, having decided mid-stride, as it were, that Evil Twin Flameness is a bit too intense, we can change the astral scenery anytime. (For this, see “How to Circumvent Complications of Twining and Grouping,” below.)

Multiple ‘Twined Flames’: Dealing with Complications of ‘Grouping’

It can get more complicated than this, as when three or more or more Souls preincarnationally decide to experience, in one lifetime, Multiple Twined Flame awareness. Basically, the potential complications in relationship of each additional twined flame to those already involved is logarithmic.

This is the difficulty in the concept of Grouping. Not only are the opportunities for transformation to Love logarithmically increased, but also the possibility of mutual Soul wounding is logarithmically increased.

How to Circumvent Complications of Twining and Grouping

As the Incoming Light intensifies these next 4 months, the twining and grouping experience can become too intense. In that case, the thing to do is to create physical distance from other folks EMFs.

A couple, for example, may find it too intense for both to always be under the same roof. One might feel more comfortable pitching a tent in the yard. Or both might decide to spend time outside, where grounding to Earth allows energy to go through the personal EMF vertically, rather than pinging horizontally between family members’ EMF distortions.

In the case of the simple notion that ‘I am a member of this or that group,’ when this idea of horizontal connection becomes too intense, simply visualize your own EMF, your own pranic column energy. This type of vertical imaging thankfully insulates the Soul from horizontal clair experiences.

Another way of dealing with group EMF distortion pinging is to optimize timelines, using this activation of light to back out of astral entanglement with the Twin or the Group:

Spirit to Team!
Optimize timelines!
For the All, through Free Will!

What happens to me when I do this activation under these circumstances, is that the clair impact of the Twining Soul(s) immediately diminishes, or else simply goes away. This gives me time to optimize my EMF without astral distraction.

To Sum Up …

In this time of intense Incoming Light, so it is with every polarity that we meet: Greet with Love, transform with Love. If the experience gets too intense, then ignore the horizontal (person to person) clair experience, ground to Earth, optimize physical distance from others’ EMFs, visualize pranic column energy, and/or optimize timelines to insulate the personal EMF.

When the work of transformation is done, the Veil of Forgetfulness will be completely dissolved. At that point, we will be free to experience the Void from which has always flowed our Soul’s power to co-create Reality, in alignment with the Power of God.

In love, light and joy,
I Am of the Stars


(1) See …

Link: “Sleepiness, Societal Taboos, and the Veil of Forgetfulness,” by Alice B. Clagett, filmed on 12 June 2015; published on 23 June 2015 … https://wp.me/p2Rkym-3oE ..

(2) Creator Breath is beautifully described here …

Link: “Ascension Path Meditation: Divine Neutrality,” by Sandra Walter … https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DXxnX4xWg8A ..


Hello, Dear Ones, It’s Alice.

I have an alternate theory regarding the Demon Realm that I have discussed on many past occasions. I am trying to get a handle on the Demon Realm.

I have an alternate theory that places more emphasis on our personal power in the world, as human beings. And it goes like this …

The fourth dimension and the third dimension are very unusual, because of the relative extremes of polarity involved. The Universe is made of love; but in the fourth dimensoin and the third dimension, all kinds of amazing things happen … Scenarios that have more to do with fear, terror, anger, lust, and greed … those kinds of emotions that are not even encountered in the fifth dimension.

The question for the creator mind was: How can these polarities be experienced?

Here is the hypothesis that I have been mulling over for quite some time now: Maybe you will see what you think about it, when you think about it one your own. If you do a search of Google images under the topic of Demons  … or … Devils … you will find pages and pages of pictures of the most gnarly, scary creatures that you can imagine.

From that I gather two possibilities …

One is that this is a kind of a beneath the table reality that is in the popular mind of many different people; and it bears remarkable similarity from people to people, from nation to nation, from religion to religion. and from culture to culture. It is amazing, the widespread nature of this, what you would call Terran cultural myth, or archetypal image, or archetypal moving picture show. So that is one idea: That of an archetypal image that is very widespread in the unconscious thought cloud of the world.

And the other idea I have is that people in this day of science, and of the left brain, are logging into something, in their dream world, that actually exists … not as a corporeal reality … not in the physical world … but in the fourth dimension.

It is the latter theory that I am going to talk about a little bit more. I consider it possible that, when a being of Light … such as you or me … decides to enter the lower densities, that it will agree to separate itself into two separate entities, one of whom remains in the fourth dimension, and could be termed the Shadow side, or the Demon world. And the other of which represents a generally relatively socialized being in the third dimension.

And the reason for that is, antisocial personalities and mass murderers and all kinds of people like that … who used to be greatly admired in the world, in the early days of civilization … people in whom was implanted the Genghis Khan mental filter … the conquerer of everything … today would be considered just not very viable in the civilization.

So there are not many Genghis Khan mental filter individuals around … not many antisocial personalities at all, these days. Some, but not many. Those that are here today … what you could say is that the Shadow side of their infinite beauty as beings of Light, and of the magnificence of their Soul … the Shadow side of this, that is engaging in these two, lower densities … is portrayed in physical form. But for these beings, there is an entity on the astral plane that is as beautiful and as full of love as the corporeal being on Earth is full of bloodlust, and raping, and all these bad things.

That is not usually the norm; usually it is the other way around, these days. And the corporeal entity … the physical me … has all the wonderful tendencies of the Soul … all the good tendencies of the Soul.

And the being that is affined with me … the portion of me that is the Shadow side … is on the astral plane, and taking up what you might call the role of the Demon or Devil … my Demon in me, compared to the Angel in me.

Of course, as ‘good’, or societally responsive, 3D people, we do sometimes ‘act out’ in the physical world our 4D shadow side, which has in it repressed, socially unacceptable, emotions and thought forms. The agency of repression might be conceived of as a bubble of forgetfulness … a class of energy that is but one small part of the great Veil of Forgetfulness.

This notion would account for a reality that does not involve overcoming any other class of beings here on Earth. In other words, by assumption, when I … the goodness of my heart … merges with all the negative polarities in my Shadow side, or Demon entity, in the fourth dimension, then third and fourth dimensions will cease to exist, and I will be in a state of unconditional love in the fifth dimension or higher once more.

So in that case there is nothing to overcome … no Satan to overcome … no Beelzebub or Lucifer … no Fallen Angels to be battling with … or at least not in the main. In the main it is a question of overcoming the polarities and merging the polarities of my own Soul once more back into the Light.

So, that is the theory, and I am going to go with that. I have some more propositions for you …

Suppose, when we come to Earth … that is, incarnate in physical form … a decision is made as to the gender that we will have … like, in my case, I am a woman. And suppose that, in the main, the Shadow side … the other side of us … is the opposite gender; this is the being on the astral plane that bedevils us with the samskaras and negative tendencies and habits of thought and emotion that we have accumulated over our lifetimes on Earth.

So we have left-brain, right-brain … Sacred Masculine, Sacred Feminine … already existing in us … already there. The only problem is, they are in two separate dimensions.

[laughs] … It is so dry here! This is New Mexico, and it is so dry! I am sitting under a big pine tree. It is wonderfully shady here, and there is a deep carpet of pine needles here that is like being on a feather bed, it is so comfortable! I feel like I am in heaven! But to get back to the point …

So there we are in a ‘setup’ here on Earth … Divine Feminine, in my case, seeking the Divine Masculine, which happens to embody all of my bad traits. So what that involves, here in the Ascension process, is forgiving all the things in the Masculine that I do not like at all, right? … Because there they are, on the astral plane, vying with me, and making my life dense, and polar.

So the thought of a merge of the third dimension with the fourth dimension, in my case, involves the feeling of love welling up in my heart, and meeting the negative tendencies of the heart of the Sacred Masculine that is also me on the astral plane. And the resolution of these polarities will result in the fifth dimensional experience.

So now, just hypothesis that, for people who incarnate as men on the physical plane, no doubt the astral Shadow is a woman … and has in it all the negative qualities that they just do not like about women in this dense polarity here (3D). All their lives they are ‘bedeviled’, as it were, by these negative concepts of the feminine … which include all the past lifetimes that they have had, here on Earth, which were feminine and which developed samskaric tendencies as well.

It is kind of an interesting play, is it not? It is kind of an interesting thought. There is a lot of humor there. God is pretty interesting … because, in reality, there is no such thing as ‘I’ and ‘Other’. And the stance of the Ego, in the physical world, is one of constant terror. Why? Because it is always facing the Unknown … which is God … and intending to keep the known … which is very frail and nonexistent. So how could an ego be anything but very upset? … [laughs] … And very defensive; always towards the ‘Other’.

But think of an Ego that is clarified, purified, distilled, as it were … like one of those skullcaps … a yarmulke … that changes color, and becomes transparent and porous and light as air. And so that then becomes the Ego. And when that happens … when the Ego is very transparent … why then, there is no barrier between the third dimension and the fourth dimensional experience. And that is probably pretty cool. That is my idea.


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Overcoming Power Over and Stepping into Fractal Awareness . by Alice B. Clagett *

Written and published on 30 January 2015; revised on 15 July 2020

    • In the Fourth Dimension
    • In the Third Dimension
    • Drawbacks of Group Red Tantra
    • Group Black Tantra M2M Yogic Meditation Array
    • Group Black Tantra M2F Yogic Meditation Array
    • Severe Drawbacks of Group Black Tantra
    • First Electron Energy State (n=1)
    • Second Electron Energy State (n=2)
    • The Concept of Nested, Fractal Realities
      • Individual Human EMF, n=1
      • Electron Orbital, n=1
      • Twin Flame EMF, n-2
      • Electron Orbital, n=2
      • Power-Over Twin Flame EMF, n=2, 2s atomic orbital
      • On Escaping from the Power-Over Twin Flame EMF
      • n=1. Individuality
      • n=2, 2p (donut shaped orbitals). Red Tantra
      • n=3, s3. Group Tantra
      • s3 Orbital State
      • On Group Members Ceding Power to a Group Leader
      • On Group Scapegoating
      • Visualization to Neutralize Group Scapegoating
      • Nighttime Meditation on a Candle Flame, channeled by Alice B. Clagett
      • ‘I’m Not That’ Meditation, channeled by Alice B. Clagett
      • Advanced Advaita Meditation, channeled by Alice B. Clagett

Image: Eye-gazing couple meditation …  https://www.wisemindbody.com/content/uploads/sites/8/2014/03/Eye-gazing-couple-meditation-300×180.jpg ..

Dear Ones,


Looks don’t kill! In fact, unblinking eye-to-eye contact is the first step in White Tantra. (1,2)

Folks get confused about White Tantra. What is it, anyway? White Tantra utilizes the Contiguous Energy Field of couples in a group setting so as to clear unconscious blocks.

Unlike Red Tantra and Black Tantra, White Tantra does not involve the act of sex. This is a good thing. Because the sexual drive is so strong, these two latter forms of Tantra often lead to attachment to sensual experience, a lack of flow of awareness.

Whereas White Tantra increases the flow of awareness, by increasing our awareness that the energy of the tantric partner, and indeed, the energy of the entire tantric group, is the energy of Divine Grace and Divine Love.

Image: Couples dressed in white, sitting facing each other, in rows, during a White Tantra exercise … http://www.centrobene.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/hswhitetantriccourselrg-300×199.jpg ..

And now on to the long-time contenders for the Title of Love: Red Tantra and Black Tantra.


Red Tantra is a way of relating to God during the act of sex. Ancient India ‘wrote the book’ on Red Tantra. The book is the Kama Sutra (3). Red Tantra can also be found in the Buddhist teachings (4).

Image: Tantric Buddha, showing a dark-aspected man sitting cross-legged, with a white-aspected woman on his lap … http://www.chinabuddhismencyclopedia.com/en/images/thumb/f/f0/Tantric-buddha.jpg/375px-Tantric-buddha.jpg .. 

As the Awakening proceeds, Red Tantra has been taking place in the fourth dimension. When two lovers are willing, and when they unite with each other through the Divine that they feel to be, each in the other, then Red Tantra in 4D has been helpful in allowing humanity to come to a realization that they are greater than they once thought themselves to be.

Trouble comes when a couple performs Red Tantra in 4D, and then the subconscious mind of one or both partners becomes fixed on the other person.

So Red Tantra in 4D has led to the perception of a Twin Flame mental filter. That I and my partner, our joined electromagnetic field, are one ‘thing’ in 4D. This is purely a mental filter that arises through the practice of Red Tantra. Not a Truth.

The fifth dimension, 5D, which is a truer reality, is not like this. Fractal reality is ever flowing. Never fixed.


Black Tantra occurs within the context of the Twin Flame mental filter when one partner does not want to be involved in the 4D act of sex, and the act of sex appears to be taking place anyway, because, mind-to-mind, the unwilling person ‘hears’ that the other partner is imagining having sex with them AND the unwilling person feels sexual stimulation.

So therefore, the perception is of power over in the attached person, and of powerlessness in the person who would prefer not to be attached. This is the energy sometimes termed V—  D— in the clair realm.

The mental filter of Power Over and Powerlessness ALWAYS leads the astral body to the lower realms of 4D, the demon realms. Simply because this mental filter is far from the Truth and Majesty of the energy of our hearts.

It’s easy to know when our thoughts are far from the Truth. Whenever the Heart feels fear, anger, rage, jealousy, the lack of flow known as ‘control’ (which stems from the notion “I need your love”), and other fourth chakra negative emotions, then we are far from truth. Whatever we’re hearing or seeing on the clair plane, if we’re experiencing these emotions, then what we hear and what we see is not true.


In the Fourth Dimension

As the Awakening process unfolds, Red and Black Tantra have been taking place in a group setting in both 3D and 4D.

You may recall in a recent video (5) a description of the Group mental filter as an umbrella. The pointy spine at the top of the umbrella is the group leader. The pointy tips along the bottom of the umbrella are the group members.

The group leader offers protection and spiritual guidance to the group. He protects them from the Awakening process by offering them a static blue sky vision. In return, they cede power to him. In his own mind, he ‘is’ the group, and the members are all part of him. Literally.

Image: Open umbrella, with blue sky and white clouds on the underside …  http://qpbs.imageg.net/graphics/product_images/pPBS3-15630380reg.jpg ..

So in 4D this extraordinary, but commonplace, Group mental filter has been manifesting as the male leaders of groups engaging in Red Tantra with female members. Or else, in the case of unwilling men and women that he perceives as group members, Black Tantra. This is not for naught … through Divine Grace, it is helping clear both pleasant and unpleasant Harem memories from the collective consciousness.  (6) However, the consequences in terms of consciousness for those practicing Group Red Tantra or Group Black Tantra can be uncomfortable to unfortunate, as described below.

In the Third Dimension

In times past, spiritual adept groups sometimes used Black Tantra or Red Tantra in a group setting as a means of speeding the process of kundalini rising. Even today I feel it likely that such practices are taking place.

Drawbacks of Group Red Tantra

I recall there is or was a group of yogic men and women some years back who practiced Group Red Tantra; the difficulties with this form of tantra being, I have heard, the tendencies of the lower triangle to jealousy and attachment. These emotions can cause currents of negative energy in Red Tantric Groups, I have heard.

Group Black Tantra M2M Yogic Meditation Array

As to Group Black Tantra, I saw a photo online once an M2M yoga meditation array in which male couples were placed with one man in an acute angle of downward facing dog, hands palms down on the ground close to the feet; and the other man just behind him with fingertips placed lightly on the sides of the other man’s buttocks.

The array was square, with couples in rows facing forward. Behind them was the yogic meditation leader, back center of the array. In the photo I saw, all the men were nude, but there was no sexual contact.

Group Black Tantra M2F Yogic Meditation Array

I saw a more recent photo of a similar Black Magic yogic meditation array in which the people were similarly placed, but the group consisted of M2F couples, with the woman, as I recall, in an acute angle of downward facing dog, hands palms down on the ground close to the feet, and the male partner just behind her with fingertips placed lightly on the sides of the woman’s buttocks. In that photo everyone was clothed.

Severe Drawbacks of Group Black Tantra

Were this form of yoga to be consummated through rectal intercourse, on either the astral plane or the physical plane, then the result might be unfortunate. Apparently, Group Black Tantra can cause energy drain in … even vampirism of … the receptive rectal partner through reversal of the kundalini energy. The eventual result for both partners is thought to be Soul devolution; in the case of the receptive rectal partner, because of injury to and blockage in his or her basal chakra; and in the case of the insertive partner, Soul devolution because of the karma incurred through taking pleasure in injuring another person. There is more on this here …

Link: “Can People Who Practice Rectal Intercourse Attain Enlightenment?” by Alice B. Clagett, written and published on 20 June 2020 … https://wp.me/p2Rkym-iQn ..


There is another form of Black Tantra going round 4D lately. This is fueled by the notion that One Woman (or One Man), of demon origin, is forcing folks to have sex on the astral plane. It is the old incubus – succubus (7) legend surfacing in and disbursing from the Unconscious Thought Cloud of the World.

I just gave myself a start by searching Google Images for succubus, so my advice is: Don’t go there. However, I did find this painting, which conveys the archetypal image without being so very scary:

Image: “The Nightmare,” by Henry Fuseli … https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/5/56/John_Henry_Fuseli_-_The_Nightmare.JPG ..


A truer form of Tantra is that of our own incarnate Self, with our own Spirit. It is through this form of tantra that we begin to experience the fifth dimension, 5D, the fractal reality. Last night, a group of us were doing this form of tantra clairaudiently, and moving dimensionally (‘diming’) back and forth from 4D (causal reality) to 5D (synchronous, fractal reality). It was a lot of fun, and for me, it resolved a lot of the fears and misconceptions I had been experiencing in recent days.


I’m going to try, as best I can remember, to describe the discovery process we went through last night, by comparing changes in the configuration of the human EMF to changes or bump-ups in electron orbital states.

First, you may recall a recent discussion about electrons ‘jumping’ from one state to another, more highly energized orbital pattern when they are hit by a photon (8). Here’s some info adapted from that:

First Electron Energy State (n=1)

Here is a picture that shows some of the possible energy states of an electron. Note that each state consists of a cloud of possible orbits, rather than a set path. Also, for each energy jump, the cloud of possible orbits changes in shape.

Image: electron orbital states; the state with the least energy is the red sphere on the top row. For each bump-up in energy, there are a greater number of possible configurations …  https://qph.ec.quoracdn.net/main-qimg-359efc530fcf8c6cd37a70d72137bf8a-c?convert_to_webp=true ..

The first row, the red sphere, shows the configuration for the least energetic state the electron, n=1

What causes the changes in energy states of the electron? The change occurs when it’s hit by a photon. As in, the new Incoming Light….

Second Electron Energy State (n=2)

The orbit for the second state of excitation of the electron (n=2) can look like one of the yellow donut shapes in the above image, or it can also look like a sphere within a sphere, This latter is known as the 2s orbital.

The Concept of Nested, Fractal Realities

Keeping in mind that a Truer Reality is a fractal reality, we might imagine a nesting of fractals proceeding from the atomic level (electrons – photons – nucleus of an atom), and on to DNA, and from there to the human electromagnetic field (EMF), from thence to the Earth’s EMF, from thence to the EMF of the solar system, then galactic, then our Universe, then the Multiverse. A fractal ‘nesting’ effect, like Russian dolls, only not really with one smaller than the next. Actually all intermingled in the Now. Each without size, or the ‘same size’.

Image: Matryoshka Russian dolls … http://legomenon.com/images/russian-matryoshka-stacking-babushka-wooden-dolls-meaning.jpg ..

Most pertinent at this moment being the notion of fractalness for a jump in electron orbit shape and a jump in the shape of the human EMF.

Individual Human EMF, n=1. So, here’s a depiction of the human EMF at n=1:

Image: A person surrounded by an EMF torus … https://jsherwinblog.files.wordpress.com/2014/04/emotions-human-body1.jpg?w=479 ..

Electron Orbital, n=1. Note this is roughly similar to the spherical orbital shape for electron state n=1:

Image: Electron orbital state n=1 … http://images.slideplayer.com/12/3368699/slides/slide_30.jpg ..

Twin Flame EMF, n-2. And here’s a picture of the Twin Flame EMF, which also occurs in normal, day-to-day relationships. The difference being that in Twin Flame mental filters, there is an issue of mental attachment, whereas in normal day to day relationships, we feel the twin field for a moment or two, and then snap back into n=1. (9)

Image: Two people relating through the energy of their hearts … https://i.ytimg.com/vi/sSRwuO8SxqM/maxresdefault.jpg ..

Electron Orbital, n=2. See how the Twin Flame EMF resembles the shape of the donut-shaped 2p configurations for the n=2 electron orbital state?  …

Image: Configurations for the first bumped-up energetic state of the electron orbit, n=2 … http://www2.chemistry.msu.edu/faculty/reusch/VirtTxtJml/Images/atom2orb.gif ..

In the figure above, the last three configurations are 2p configurations (aka ‘atomic orbitals’).

The first configuration in the above image, which looks like a sphere, is really a sphere within a sphere, known as the 2s atomic orbital. Here is a better depiction:

Image: 2s Orbital …  http://www.grandinetti.org/resources/Teaching/Chem121/Lectures/OrbitalShapes/2sOrbital.gif ..

Power-Over Twin Flame EMF, n=2, 2s atomic orbital. Now as to the shape of the other n=2 electron orbits, which are dumb bell shaped, these remind me of an energetic configuration I was mulling over a few days ago. This was an energy state I felt in the middle of the night. The clairaudient chatter that accompanied it was to the effect that one person, who identified with the role of spiritual group leader, had ‘taken over’ my electromagnetic field, and was speaking to other group members through my own heart chakra.

So in the picture above, my first perception of the EMF event (on awakening from deep sleep), was that this group leader had formed an EMF around me that totally engulfed my own. In the n=2, 2s image above, that would be the larger sphere (him) encompassing the smaller sphere (me).

On Escaping from the Power-Over Twin Flame EMF. At that juncture, I was frightened. Then I remembered the advice of spiritual counselor Daniella Breen (10) to identify, not with my incarnate bodies (physical body, astral body, mental body, and so on) but with the majesty of my Soul. And the advice of spiritual counsellor Peggy Black (11) to rely on the help of my Celestial Team. So I did both, and did one of my usual Hathor activations of light:

Spirit to Team!
Optimize timelines!
For the All, through Free Will!
I Am in Service to Others!

This worked like a charm! I moved from a 3D-4D space of feeling powerless, to a 5D space of empowerment, just like that. So then that experience of personally shifting dimensions in that way led to a better understanding of the EMF field changes I’ve been experiencing… Or you might say, a truer sense of tantra.


n=1. Individuality. When I place awareness on my heart, after a while I can feel my spherical EMF. That’s one energy state, I feel, that most people can easily arrive at  … I am I. I am One. I am a unique, beautiful human heart.

n=2, 2p (donut shaped orbitals). Red Tantra. When I experience a Contiguous Energy Field, whether with a casual friend, a stranger, or a person perceived as ‘Twin Flame’, I can change dimensions (‘dime up’) to an experience of oneness.

Remember how the donut-shaped electron orbitals in n=2 … look like the Twin Flame EMF? Yet this is only ONE electron, whose energy field is twined. In the same way, the perception of a twined energy field we mentally experience as ‘Twin Flame’ is really a twined configuration of our own, personal EMF. Solely.

And in the same way, our Twin Flame’s experience of a twined configuration is his awareness of his own, personal EMF. Solely. In the n=2 excitation state.

To understand that the perception of a twined state is REALLY the perception of our own personal energy state, and not that of two people, is a very good thing. At the point where we reach this understanding, we’ve moved to a Truer Perception of Reality.

n=2, 2s. Black Tantra. Now on to the perception that another person can engulf our EMF. and have tantric sex with us against our will. Or, can simply engulf our EMF and become us. If this mis-perception arises, imagine that you are that person (the outer sphere), as well as yourself (the inner sphere).

You are this entire EMF configuration, both the inner and the outer sphere. You are all that.

n=3, s3. Group Tantra. I described the Group Tantra mental filter above as the group umbrella, with the leader of the group being the central spine or tip, the group members being the tips of the ribs of the umbrella, and the umbrella itself being the group structure or mind set:

Image: Open umbrella with sky and white clouds painted on the underside … http://blog.forbestravelguide.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/31587-resized5.jpg ..

s3 Orbital State. In feeling, though not in form, this Group Tantra mental filter is like the s3 orbital state for the second bump-up in electron energy (n=3, s3), which is the farthest right-hand picture here:

Image: S orbitals … https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/5/5c/S_orbitals.png .. 

This state may be likened to three spherical shells, one enclosing the next. The leader, in this energy state, would be the outer shell, the one containing all the others. One might posit s to the nth degree, that being the number of people in the group, in hierarchical order; the leader being the outer shell.

On Group Members Ceding Power to a Group Leader. These days some pretty odd things are happening. In my recent experience on the clair plane I’ve sometimes had the odd sensation that meditation groups are ceding their will power to the group leader. As if he were the entire ‘umbrella’.

On Group Scapegoating. This can be a daunting experience for an ‘out-grouper’, as in a deep unconscious way, in-groups consider out-groupers to be a threat to them. The Enemy, as it were.

It’s a scapegoat kind of thing. Any trouble of the group can be attributed to the out-grouper, a pariah. That’s safe. It can divert attention from the troubles of the group indefinitely, and so keep the power structure in place. In the same way, nations instigate wars with foreign countries to divert the public awareness from trouble on the home front…

Visualization to Neutralize Group Scapegoating. So let’s say a spiritual leader unconsciously is leaning on this out-group mental dynamic, and I … uncomfortable to say … find myself in the role of ‘out-grouper’. What to do? The entire great umbrella is against me!

In this case I simply visualize I am the sky around the umbrella. And the sunshine, the rain, Mother Earth. AND the umbrella. I am all that.

In terms of 3s orbitals, I become, in my visualization, the outer sphere.


As they say on the path of Advaita (which means ‘not-two’ in Sanskrit), the true Self, which is pure consciousness, is the highest Reality, Brahman, also pure consciousness (12). The truth about the illusion of the world of Duality, about Tantra, is the knowing that there is no ‘two’. There is only Awareness. I am That. I am I.

Here are three meditations to increase Awareness of Advaita …

. . . . .

Nighttime Meditation on a Candle Flame
Channeled by Alice B. Clagett
30 January 2015

Image: “Candle Flame,” by Alice B. Clagett, 2 April 2020, CC BY-SA 4.0

Image: “Candle Flame,” by Alice B. Clagett, 2 April 2020, CC BY-SA 4.0

For this meditation you will need a candle, matches, and something to snuff the candle with.
Sit in a dark room. Spine straight. Relax your body.
Light the candle, and place it in front of you, on a table or on the floor.
Inhale and exhale deeply three times.
Watch the candle flame for 1 minute.
Then snuff it out.
Sit in the Darkness, and watch the Darkness for 1 minute.
Then lIght the candle again, watch for a minute, snuff it, and sit in the the Dark another minute.
Continue a total of 5 times.
At the end of your meditation, before you get up,
Inhale and exhale deeply three times.

. . . . .

‘I’m Not That’ Meditation
Channeled by Alice B. Clagett
30 January 2015

Sit in a quiet place. Spine straight. Relax your body.
Inhale and exhale deeply three times.
Think of a word that describes who you are. Then say to yourself: I’m not that!
Think of another such word. Say, I’m not that!
And so on, till you’ve run out of thoughts about who you are.
Then just sit, with that empty mind.
At the end of your meditation, before you get up,
Inhale and exhale deeply three times.

. . . . .

Advanced Advaita Meditation
Channeled by Alice B. Clagett
30 January 2015

Sit in a quiet place. Think of nothing …
Do this daily, until you can do it at ease.
Then carry this practice of the Quiet Mind into your daily life.

. . . . .

In love, light and joy,
I Am of the Stars

See also … Link: “Taoist Stillness Practices: Slowing the Whirly-gig of the Mind,” by Tom Kenyon … http://tomkenyon.com/taoiststillness ..

The above three meditations have been excerpted to this blog … Link: “Three Advaita Meditations,” channeled by Alice B. Clagett, excerpted and adapted on 2 April 2020 from a blog written on 30 January 2015 … https://wp.me/p2Rkym-hgN ..

See also … Link: “Tantric Yoga, Marriage, and Demonic Interference,” by Alice B. Clagett, filmed on 10 August 2015; video published 13 August 2015; blog published on 22 April 2016 … https://wp.me/p2Rkym-5aG ..


(1) See Link: “Eye Gazing – Couple Meditation,” by Josh Wise …  https://www.mindfulcouples.com/2014/03/14/couples-meditation-eye-gazing/ ..

(2) If you would like to learn White Tantra, I recommend 3HO’s white tantric yoga events. There is really nothing like hands on experience. For more info, see White Tantric Yoga Courses, at Healthy, Happy, Holy Organization (3HO) …  https://www.3ho.org/events/white-tantric-yoga-courses ..

A less intense version of White Tantra are the Venus Kriyas, also known as Couples Yoga. See Link: “Sacred Union (with 3 Venus Kriyas for Couples),” by Jivan Joti Kaur, at Healthy, Happy, Holy Organization (3HO) … https://www.3ho.org/3ho-lifestyle/authentic-relationships/sacred-union-3-venus-kriyas-couples ..

(3) Kama Sutra … http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kama_Sutra ..

(4) See also Tantric Buddhism … http://www.trimondi.de/SDLE/Part-1-02.htm ..

(5) Link: “Spiritual Ego: Pros and Cons; Aligning with God’s Will,” by Alice B. Clagett, published on 28 January 2015; transcribed on 3 October 2018 … http://wp.me/p2Rkym-6hp ..

(6) Link: “Forty-First Concubine . and Activation of Light to Annul Old Marriages,” by the Hathors through Alice, published on 25 July 2013 … http://wp.me/p2Rkym-6hO ..

(7) From Wikipedia:
Incubus: a male demon believed to have sexual intercourse with sleeping women
Succubus: a female demon believed to have sexual intercourse with sleeping men

(8) Link: “Human Energy Flow,” by Alice B. Clagett, published on 27 January 2015 …  http://wp.me/p2Rkym-6hD ..

(9) Here is the HeartMath video from which the image of the twin flame heart energy most likely derivew … https://www.youtube.com/watch?x-yt-cl=85114404&x-yt-ts=1422579428&v=QdneZ4fIIHE ..

(10) Daniella Breen … https://daniellambreen.com/ ..

(11) Peggy Black … www.peggyblack.com ..

(12) See Link: “Advaita Vedanta” in Wikipedia … http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Advaita_Vedanta ..


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Twin Flames: Reuniting Ego with God-Self . by Alice B. Clagett

Written and published on 14 February 2013

Dear Ones,

I had a rough night, one of the highlights being an up-close-and-personal look at the frankly unappealing construct of lower Ego. Apparently when we fell from the fifth dimension, we remembered that ‘I’ am one with All, but the definition of ‘I’ shifted from the Divine Spark to Ego. Cannot wait to get out into the sunlight and let the whole mental thing dissolve in the morning air.

But before that, would you not know it, while drinking my coffee I read a post from Amara Tia Ann. It is a Valentine’s Day gift for all of us who are searching for that Special Someone somewhere outside ourselves. Ann’s meditation is to reunite our Ego with our God-self. Now there is a twin flame relationship like no other! (1)

Here is my hope and my blessing: May you experience the joy of uniting Ego and God-self, now and forever. Happy Valentine’s Day!

In love, light and joy,
I Am of the Stars


(1) See Link: “Twin-Flame Reunion – Valentine’s Message from Goddess Hator,” a post on February 14, 2013, by Amara Tia Ann at “Pearls of Wisdom” …  https://acastdotme.wordpress.com/2013/02/14/twin-flame-reunion-valentines-message-from-goddess-hator/ ..


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