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‘Nose Knows’ Visualization / Meditation to Still the Astral Chatter . channeled by Alice B. Clagett

Written and published on 20 May 2021

  • VISUALIZATION / MEDITATION TO STILL THE ASTRAL CHATTER
    • How to Do it
    • Benefits

Dear Ones,

If the astral chatter gets too intense, here is a visualization / meditation that may help …

VISUALIZATION / MEDITATION TO STILL THE ASTRAL CHATTER

How to Do It

Imagine that you are slowly and smoothly breathing in and out through your nose, but your nose is now located at your right eye (or your right ear, if you prefer). When you breath in and out, imagine you can feel the air going into, and then out of, your right eye (or your right ear) …

Image: “’Nose Knows’ Meditation: Breathing from the Right Eye,” altered and compiled by Alice B. Clagett, 23 May 2021, CC BY-SA 4.0 … from “Awakening with Planet Earth,” https://awakeningwithplanetearth.com … CREDITS: Large image of face and displaced image of nose: Image: “Self Portrait,” by Guiseppe Arcimboldo, 1570, in Wikimedia Commons … tps://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Giuseppe_Arcimboldo_-_Self_Portrait_-_Google_Art_Project.jpg … public domain … COMMENT: Altered.

Image: “’Nose Knows’ Meditation: Breathing from the Right Eye,” altered and compiled by Alice B. Clagett, 23 May 2021, CC BY-SA 4.0 … from “Awakening with Planet Earth,” https://awakeningwithplanetearth.com

CREDITS: Large image of face and displaced image of nose: Image: “Self Portrait,” by Guiseppe Arcimboldo, 1570, in Wikimedia Commons … tps://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Giuseppe_Arcimboldo_-_Self_Portrait_-_Google_Art_Project.jpg … public domain … COMMENT: Altered.

Image: “’Nose Knows’ Meditation: Breathing from the Right Ear,” altered and compiled by Alice B. Clagett, 23 May 2021, CC BY-SA 4.0 … from “Awakening with Planet Earth,” https://awakeningwithplanetearth.com … CREDITS: Large image of face: Image: “Self Portrait,” by Guiseppe Arcimboldo, 1570, in Wikimedia Commons … tps://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Giuseppe_Arcimboldo_-_Self_Portrait_-_Google_Art_Project.jpg … public domain … COMMENT: Altered … Image of displaced nose: Image: “Self-portrait on paper,” by Guiseppe Arcimboldo, 1587, in Wikimedia Commons … https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Giuseppe_Arcimboldo_-_Self-Portrait_on_Paper_(detail)_-_WGA00929.jpg … public domain … COMMENT: Altered.

Image: “’Nose Knows’ Meditation: Breathing from the Right Ear,” altered and compiled by Alice B. Clagett, 23 May 2021, CC BY-SA 4.0 … from “Awakening with Planet Earth,” https://awakeningwithplanetearth.com

CREDITS: Large image of face: Image: “Self Portrait,” by Guiseppe Arcimboldo, 1570, in Wikimedia Commons … tps://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Giuseppe_Arcimboldo_-_Self_Portrait_-_Google_Art_Project.jpg … public domain … COMMENT: Altered … Image of displaced nose: Image: “Self-portrait on paper,” by Guiseppe Arcimboldo, 1587, in Wikimedia Commons … https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Giuseppe_Arcimboldo_-_Self-Portrait_on_Paper_(detail)_-_WGA00929.jpg … public domain … COMMENT: Altered.

As you breathe this way, count the inhalations of the breath from one to five; then repeat, counting to five over and over again.

Benefits

Through the imagined relocation of the nose, the visualization directs prana  to your right brain. That side of the brain has to do with living in the ‘Now’, and not with cause-and-effect, which is what creates a timeline (whether a physical timeline or an astral timeline). The right brain does not support the notion of temporal limitation, or confinement of Awareness within a timeline created through a cause-and-effect construct. The right brain does not create or support the astral chatter or astral stories that glom and propagate in the noosphere, as these stories depend on cause and effect, and upon an imaginary or astral ‘timeline’. When Awareness is placed on the right brain, the notions of cause-and-effect … the notion of time itself … drops away. We are left with the freedom to react in multitemporal reality, which is, in fact, the understanding of Earth herself right now.

I have noticed that some of the astral chatter comes from the construct ‘geography’ … the notion of dimensional limitation. For instance, it may have to do with the thought that we cannot avoid astral chatter with our neighbors, or maybe our family. In our left brains, we have the notion that we are chained to our homes, and therefore chained to our families or to the people with whom we life, or to the people who live near us. These are left-brain cause-and-effect notions based on physical reality … on seeing other people around us, for instance.

But our energy body is a discrete, singular entity in relation …. not to our family or to our neighbors … but rather in relation to Spirit, to our Soul, to that Divine Spark within us. Thus the left-brain notion of territorial confinement, like its notion of temporal confinement, is but an artificial construct.

The right brain does not support the construct ‘geography’ … the notion of dimensional limitation, or confinement of Awareness within geographic boundaries. Thus by generating pranic flow into and out of the right brain, we circumvent the artificial left-brain construct ‘geography’.

The feral drives (pack instincts) of sexual aggression and territorial aggression: female competition and male competition; striving between family members or neighbors for female dominance, male dominance, or one-upmanship; notions of males flocking together and bonding, or of females doing so; notions that packs of neighborhood men ought to ejaculate together on the astral plane, or that packs of neighborhood women ought to climax together; striving for alpha or relegation to beta pack ordering; and shunning of a ‘pariah’ or ‘sin-eater’ as an outcast from the imagined astral pack … these all have to do with notions of physical geographic limitations developed in Stone Age times, when there were only about 50,000 human beings on Earth.

For survival purposes, these people aggregated into clans whose members lived in close proximity. Our current notions of geographic limitations with regard to the people we know have to do with feral drive hardwiring written into our subconscious minds in Stone Age and also in much earlier times. These instinctual notions roam through our dreamtime realm and through our astral realm, roping down our astral chatter to subconsciously perceived geographic restrictions.

But when Awareness is placed on the right brain, the notions of clan and tribe, of subconscious instinctual behaviors, drops away. We are left with the freedom to react in multidimensional reality, which is, in fact, where Earth herself resides right now.

Counting along with the breath is a famous Zen Buddhist form of meditation, and one that I like very much. I have noticed, though, that when I count along with the breath while placing my Awareness on the left brain, I am quickly cut short by the tendency of the left brain to step into my counting process with cause-and-effect stories that seem ‘juicier’ or more emotionally fulfilling than the dry notion of repeatedly counting to five or 10.

The above meditation circumvents these left-brain sabotage efforts of my left brain and leaves the field of my mind clear to create the numeric repetitions without interruption. Thus for long intervals (to get temporal about it) I can waylay the astral chatter through a visualization and meditation that moves me from temporospatial misery and enchainment … as in a sad or scary Hollywood movie … to a right brain space of effortless temporospatial freedom.

In love, Light, and joy,
I Am of the Stars

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Compendium: Dylan Redwine Murder Mystery . by Alice B. Clagett

Written and published on 22 February 2020; revised on 23 April 2020
Previously titled: Compendium: Child Torture

  • INTRODUCTION
    • Glomming of Groups and Names on the Astral Plane
    • Events List
  • COMPENDIUM: CHILD TORTURE

Dear Ones,

INTRODUCTION

Here is a compendium of astral insights into the murder of Dylan Redwine, who disappeared on 18 November 2012 in Vallecito Lake, Colorado.

As I spent the summers in Colorado for the next few years, I was very attuned to the upset of the people in those communities back then. I myself felt upset by their upset, and have done my best to chronicle the dreams I had back then, which I feel had to do with the collective unconscious of those communities as they came to terms with the disaster that had happened there.

I feel the results may help law enforcement and psychiatrists / psychologists pinpoint difficult couples relationships that may lead to child torture scenarios because of the couples’ catastrophic childhood experiences, especially during times of solar flaring and incoming coronal mass ejections.

Glomming of Groups and Names on the Astral Plane

At about the time that Dylan Redwine disappeared, there was a thickening and commotion in the ‘astral airs’, the fourth dimension or ‘dreamtime realm’. I thought at the time that the astral commotion, insofar as I clairly heard it, might have had to do with glomming of the groups of which I was a member, and maybe also to do with glomming of people with the same first names.

Events List

A number of noteworthy solar events were clustered around the date when Dylan Redwine disappeared …

11/08/2012 M1.7 Flare  @ 02:23 UTC – Sunspot 1611
11/11/2012 M1.0 Flare  @ 02:23 UTC – Sunspot 1614
11/12/2012 M2.0 Flare  @ 23:28 UTC – Sunspot 1613
11/13/2012 M2.8 Flare  @ 20:54 UTC – Sunspot 1613
11/13/2012 M2.5 Flare  @ 05:50 UTC – Sunspot 1613
11/13/2012 M6.0 Flare  @ 02:04 UTC – Sunspot 1613
11/14/2012 M1.1 Flare  @ 04:04 UTC – Sunspot 1613

11/18/2012 Dylan Redwine last seen (died later?)

11/20/2012 M1.6 Flare  @ 19:28 UTC – Sunspot 1618
11/20/2012 M1.7 Flare  @ 12:41 UTC – Sunspot 1618
11/21/2012 M3.5 Flare  @ 15:30 UTC – Sunspot 1618
11/21/2012 M1.4 Flare  @ 06:56 UTC – Sunspot 1618

11/27/2012 M1.0 Flare @ 21:26 UTC – Sunspot 1620
11/27/2012 M1.6 Flare  @ 15:57 UTC – Sunspot 1618
11/28/2012 M2.2 Flare  @ 21:28 UTC – Sunspot 1620

COMPENDIUM: CHILD TORTURE

Link: “Alice’s Perilous Tales: Fatal Dungeons and Dragons Game?” by Alice B. Clagett, partially excerpted on 23 April 2020 from blogs filmed on 15 March 2018 and on 20 November 2016; revised on 11 June 2020 … https://wp.me/p2Rkym-hHF … See the subsection: Tie-in to Dylan Redwine Murder Mystery

Link: “Kali,” by Alice B. Clagett, published on 21 August 2019https://wp.me/p2Rkym-dZZ ..

Link: “Astral Story about Dylan Redwine’s Disappearance in Colorado,” by Alice B. Clagett, written on 7 June 2019 and added to a blog published on 22 February 2020 … https://wp.me/p2Rkym-d2T ..

Link: “Antisocial Sense of Humor: ‘Prison Rehab Speak’,” by Alice B. Clagett, filmed on 17 April 2018; published on 29 April 2018 … https://wp.me/p2Rkym-8A7 ..

Link: “Telltale Signs of the ASP Sense of Humor,” by Alice B. Clagett, published on 15 March 2018; revised on 15 April 2020, 23 April 2020, and 11 June 2020 … https://wp.me/p2Rkym-8tR ..

Link: “The Voice of a Child,” a poem by Alice B. Clagett, published on 3 March 2018; revised on 2 December 2018 … https://wp.me/p2Rkym-8rg ..

Link: “Astral Story: S and M Couple Engaging 24-7 in Astral Rape,” by Alice B. Clagett, written and published on 14 April 2017https://wp.me/p2Rkym-77L ..

Woman in Couple … Link: “Soul Wounding and the Issue of Transgender Violence,” by Alice B. Clagett, filmed on 27 March 2017, revised … https://wp.me/p2Rkym-76p ..

Link: “The Serial Killer: Fact and Phantasmagoria,” by Alice B. Clagett, published on 17 November 2016https://wp.me/p2Rkym-6pR … See the subheading: Astral Story About Dylan Redwine, a Durango Child Who Was Killed

Link: “Acting Out by Followers When a Group Leader Makes a Subconscious Suggestion,” by Alice B. Clagett, filmed on 7 March 2016; published on 14 March 2016; transcribed on 5 June 2016; revised on 22 May 2020 … https://wp.me/p2Rkym-4ZP ..

Link: “Acting Out by Followers When a Group Leader Makes a Subconscious Suggestion,” by Alice B. Clagett, filmed on 7 March 2016; published on 14 March 2016; transcribed on 5 June 2016; revised on 22 May 2020 … https://wp.me/p2Rkym-d2B ..

Link: “Hornet Nest: An Ill Wind Blows,” by Alice B. Clagett, video filmed on 25 August 2015 and published on 28 August 2015; blog published on 27 June 2020 … https://wp.me/p2Rkym-iXu ..

Link: “Alice’s Perilous Tales: The Nagging Wife,” by Alice B. Clagett, published on 31 July 2015; revised on 2 December 2018 … https://wp.me/p2Rkym-5QZ ..

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See also … Link: “On Torture, and Being Tortured,” by Alice B. Clagett, published on 2 February 2018https://wp.me/p2Rkym-8hH… and my blog category: Torture – bullying – hazing

There is an interrelated topic to do with killing cults and groups acting out the subconscious suggestions of group leader. This topic might be explored by selecting from amongst the blogs in my blog categories: Crime families – cults that kill – outlaw gangs – street gangs  … and …  Circle of one

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Fake-Out to Shoo Away A Bossy Mind Controller . by Alice B. Clagett

Written and published on 12 August 2018

Dear Ones,

Here is a fake-out to shoo away a bossy Mind Controller …

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Animated Gif: “Bossy Mind Controller Animation,” by Alice B. Clagett, 12 August 2018, CC BY-SA 4.0, from “Awakening with Planet Earth,” https://awakeningwithplanetearth.com … DESCRIPTION: Frame 1: There are two stick figures, at some distance from each other. Each is facing forward. Both figures have triangles around them; the points of the triangles are high above their heads. The person on the left. whose triangle is pale blue, looks angry. Beneath the person’s feet is the label: Mind-Controlling Person. That person’s triangle is labeled: Their Team. The person on the right, whose triangle is pale green, looks contented. Beneath the person’s feet is the label: You. That person’s triangle is labeled: Their Team. Frame 2: An arrow is drawn from the eyes of the angry person to the eyes of the contented person. Frame 3: The two triangles are closer together than in the preceding animation frame. Frame 4: The two triangles are almost touching each other. Frame 5: The stick figure and high, encompassing, pale blue triangle of an angry person, which was on the left in the preceding animation frame, are superimposed on the stick figure and high, encompassing, pale green triangle of a contented person on the right. Beneath the superimposed blue triangle is the label: Their Team. Frame 6: The stick figure and high, encompassing pale green triangle of a contented person on the right are superimposed on the stick figure and high, encompassing pale blue triangle of an angry person who was on the left in the previous animation frame. Beneath the superimposed green triangle is the label: You. Frame 7: The two triangles have moved apart a little; they are almost touching each other. Frame 8: The two triangles are farther apart than in the preceding animation frame. Frame 9: This frame is identical to Frame 1 … COMMENT: If someone tries to mind control you, pull his Spirit and Team into your Spirit and Team’s energy field and say: Your every thought is known to me! Then that bossy person will flee from your energy field.

Animated Gif: “Bossy Mind Controller Animation,” by Alice B. Clagett, 12 August 2018, CC BY-SA 4.0, from “Awakening with Planet Earth,” https://awakeningwithplanetearth.com

DESCRIPTION: Frame 1: There are two stick figures, at some distance from each other. Each is facing forward. Both figures have triangles around them; the points of the triangles are high above their heads. The person on the left. whose triangle is pale blue, looks angry. Beneath the person’s feet is the label: Mind-Controlling Person. That person’s triangle is labeled: Their Team. The person on the right, whose triangle is pale green, looks contented. Beneath the person’s feet is the label: You. That person’s triangle is labeled: Their Team. Frame 2: An arrow is drawn from the eyes of the angry person to the eyes of the contented person. Frame 3: The two triangles are closer together than in the preceding animation frame. Frame 4: The two triangles are almost touching each other. Frame 5: The stick figure and high, encompassing, pale blue triangle of an angry person, which was on the left in the preceding animation frame, are superimposed on the stick figure and high, encompassing, pale green triangle of a contented person on the right. Beneath the superimposed blue triangle is the label: Their Team. Frame 6: The stick figure and high, encompassing pale green triangle of a contented person on the right are superimposed on the stick figure and high, encompassing pale blue triangle of an angry person who was on the left in the previous animation frame. Beneath the superimposed green triangle is the label: You. Frame 7: The two triangles have moved apart a little; they are almost touching each other. Frame 8: The two triangles are farther apart than in the preceding animation frame. Frame 9: This frame is identical to Frame 1 … 

COMMENT: If someone tries to mind control you, pull his Spirit and Team into your Spirit and Team’s energy field and say: Your every thought is known to me! Then that bossy person will flee from your energy field.

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If someone tries to mind control you, pull his Spirit and Team into your Spirit and Team’s energy field and say: Your every thought is known to me! Then that bossy person will flee from your energy field.

Here is the animation, frame by frame …

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Stick Figure Image: “Bossy Mind Controller Animation, Frame 1,” by Alice B. Clagett, 12 August 2018, CC BY-SA 4.0, from “Bossy Mind Controller Animation,” by Alice B. Clagett, 12 August 2018. in “Awakening with Planet Earth,” https://awakeningwithplanetearth.com … DESCRIPTION: There are two stick figures, at some distance from each other. Each is facing forward. Both figures have triangles around them; the points of the triangles are high above their heads. The person on the left. whose triangle is pale blue, looks angry. Beneath the person’s feet is the label: Mind-Controlling Person. That person’s triangle is labeled: Their Team. The person on the right, whose triangle is pale green, looks contented. Beneath the person’s feet is the label: You. That person’s triangle is labeled: Their Team.

Stick Figure Image: “Bossy Mind Controller Animation, Frame 1,” by Alice B. Clagett, 12 August 2018, CC BY-SA 4.0, from “Bossy Mind Controller Animation,” by Alice B. Clagett, 12 August 2018. in “Awakening with Planet Earth,” https://awakeningwithplanetearth.com … 

DESCRIPTION: There are two stick figures, at some distance from each other. Each is facing forward. Both figures have triangles around them; the points of the triangles are high above their heads. The person on the left. whose triangle is pale blue, looks angry. Beneath the person’s feet is the label: Mind-Controlling Person. That person’s triangle is labeled: Their Team. The person on the right, whose triangle is pale green, looks contented. Beneath the person’s feet is the label: You. That person’s triangle is labeled: Their Team.

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Stick Figure Image: “Bossy Mind Controller Animation, Frame 2,” by Alice B. Clagett, 12 August 2018, CC BY-SA 4.0, from “Bossy Mind Controller Animation,” by Alice B. Clagett, 12 August 2018. in “Awakening with Planet Earth,” https://awakeningwithplanetearth.com … DESCRIPTION: There are two stick figures, at some distance from each other. Each is facing forward. Both figures have triangles around them; the points of the triangles are high above their heads. The person on the left. whose triangle is pale blue, looks angry. Beneath the person’s feet is the label: Mind-Controlling Person. That person’s triangle is labeled: Their Team. The person on the right, whose triangle is pale green, looks contented. Beneath the person’s feet is the label: You. That person’s triangle is labeled: Their Team. An arrow is drawn from the eyes of the angry person to the eyes of the contented person.

Stick Figure Image: “Bossy Mind Controller Animation, Frame 2,” by Alice B. Clagett, 12 August 2018, CC BY-SA 4.0, from “Bossy Mind Controller Animation,” by Alice B. Clagett, 12 August 2018. in “Awakening with Planet Earth,” https://awakeningwithplanetearth.com

DESCRIPTION: There are two stick figures, at some distance from each other. Each is facing forward. Both figures have triangles around them; the points of the triangles are high above their heads. The person on the left. whose triangle is pale blue, looks angry. Beneath the person’s feet is the label: Mind-Controlling Person. That person’s triangle is labeled: Their Team. The person on the right, whose triangle is pale green, looks contented. Beneath the person’s feet is the label: You. That person’s triangle is labeled: Their Team. An arrow is drawn from the eyes of the angry person to the eyes of the contented person.

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Stick Figure Image: “Bossy Mind Controller Animation, Frame 3,” by Alice B. Clagett, 12 August 2018, CC BY-SA 4.0, from “Bossy Mind Controller Animation,” by Alice B. Clagett, 12 August 2018. in “Awakening with Planet Earth,” https://awakeningwithplanetearth.com … DESCRIPTION: There are two stick figures. Each is facing forward. Both figures have triangles around them; the points of the triangles are high above their heads. The person on the left. whose triangle is pale blue, looks angry. Beneath the person’s feet is the label: Mind-Controlling Person. That person’s triangle is labeled: Their Team. The person on the right, whose triangle is pale green, looks contented. Beneath the person’s feet is the label: You. That person’s triangle is labeled: Their Team. An arrow is drawn from the eyes of the angry person to the eyes of the contented person. The two triangles are closer together than in the preceding animation frame.

Stick Figure Image: “Bossy Mind Controller Animation, Frame 3,” by Alice B. Clagett, 12 August 2018, CC BY-SA 4.0, from “Bossy Mind Controller Animation,” by Alice B. Clagett, 12 August 2018. in “Awakening with Planet Earth,” https://awakeningwithplanetearth.com … 

DESCRIPTION: There are two stick figures. Each is facing forward. Both figures have triangles around them; the points of the triangles are high above their heads. The person on the left. whose triangle is pale blue, looks angry. Beneath the person’s feet is the label: Mind-Controlling Person. That person’s triangle is labeled: Their Team. The person on the right, whose triangle is pale green, looks contented. Beneath the person’s feet is the label: You. That person’s triangle is labeled: Their Team. An arrow is drawn from the eyes of the angry person to the eyes of the contented person. The two triangles are closer together than in the preceding animation frame.

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Stick Figure Image: “Bossy Mind Controller Animation, Frame 4,” by Alice B. Clagett, 12 August 2018, CC BY-SA 4.0, from “Bossy Mind Controller Animation,” by Alice B. Clagett, 12 August 2018. in “Awakening with Planet Earth,” https://awakeningwithplanetearth.com … DESCRIPTION: There are two stick figures. Each is facing forward. Both figures have triangles around them; the points of the triangles are high above their heads. The person on the left. whose triangle is pale blue, looks angry. Beneath the person’s feet is the label: Mind-Controlling Person. That person’s triangle is labeled: Their Team. The person on the right, whose triangle is pale green, looks contented. Beneath the person’s feet is the label: You. That person’s triangle is labeled: Their Team. An arrow is drawn from the eyes of the angry person to the eyes of the contented person. The two triangles are almost touching each other.

Stick Figure Image: “Bossy Mind Controller Animation, Frame 4,” by Alice B. Clagett, 12 August 2018, CC BY-SA 4.0, from “Bossy Mind Controller Animation,” by Alice B. Clagett, 12 August 2018. in “Awakening with Planet Earth,” https://awakeningwithplanetearth.com … 

DESCRIPTION: There are two stick figures. Each is facing forward. Both figures have triangles around them; the points of the triangles are high above their heads. The person on the left. whose triangle is pale blue, looks angry. Beneath the person’s feet is the label: Mind-Controlling Person. That person’s triangle is labeled: Their Team. The person on the right, whose triangle is pale green, looks contented. Beneath the person’s feet is the label: You. That person’s triangle is labeled: Their Team. An arrow is drawn from the eyes of the angry person to the eyes of the contented person. The two triangles are almost touching each other.

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Stick Figure Image: “Bossy Mind Controller Animation, Frame 5,” by Alice B. Clagett, 12 August 2018, CC BY-SA 4.0, from “Bossy Mind Controller Animation,” by Alice B. Clagett, 12 August 2018. in “Awakening with Planet Earth,” https://awakeningwithplanetearth.com … DESCRIPTION: The stick figure and high, encompassing, pale blue triangle of an angry person, which was on the left in the preceding animation frame, are superimposed on the stick figure and high, encompassing, pale green triangle of a contented person on the right. Beneath the superimposed blue triangle is the label: Their Team.

Stick Figure Image: “Bossy Mind Controller Animation, Frame 5,” by Alice B. Clagett, 12 August 2018, CC BY-SA 4.0, from “Bossy Mind Controller Animation,” by Alice B. Clagett, 12 August 2018. in “Awakening with Planet Earth,” https://awakeningwithplanetearth.com … 

DESCRIPTION: The stick figure and high, encompassing, pale blue triangle of an angry person, which was on the left in the preceding animation frame, are superimposed on the stick figure and high, encompassing, pale green triangle of a contented person on the right. Beneath the superimposed blue triangle is the label: Their Team.

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Stick Figure Image: “Bossy Mind Controller Animation, Frame 6,” by Alice B. Clagett, 12 August 2018, CC BY-SA 4.0, from “Bossy Mind Controller Animation,” by Alice B. Clagett, 12 August 2018. in “Awakening with Planet Earth,” https://awakeningwithplanetearth.com … DESCRIPTION: The stick figure and high, encompassing pale green triangle of a contented person on the right are superimposed on the stick figure and high, encompassing pale blue triangle of an angry person who was on the left in the previous animation frame. Beneath the superimposed green triangle is the label: You.

Stick Figure Image: “Bossy Mind Controller Animation, Frame 6,” by Alice B. Clagett, 12 August 2018, CC BY-SA 4.0, from “Bossy Mind Controller Animation,” by Alice B. Clagett, 12 August 2018. in “Awakening with Planet Earth,” https://awakeningwithplanetearth.com … 

DESCRIPTION: The stick figure and high, encompassing pale green triangle of a contented person on the right are superimposed on the stick figure and high, encompassing pale blue triangle of an angry person who was on the left in the previous animation frame. Beneath the superimposed green triangle is the label: You.

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Repeat the above 2 images 4 times, first Animation 5, and then Animation 6 … and then continue …

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Stick Figure Image: “Bossy Mind Controller Animation, Frame 7,” by Alice B. Clagett, 12 August 2018, CC BY-SA 4.0, from “Bossy Mind Controller Animation,” by Alice B. Clagett, 12 August 2018. in “Awakening with Planet Earth,” https://awakeningwithplanetearth.com … DESCRIPTION: There are two stick figures. Each is facing forward. Both figures have triangles around them; the points of the triangles are high above their heads. The two triangles are almost touching each other. The person on the left. whose triangle is pale blue, looks angry. Beneath the person’s feet is the label: Mind-Controlling Person. That person’s triangle is labeled: Their Team. The person on the right, whose triangle is pale green, looks contented. Beneath the person’s feet is the label: You.

Stick Figure Image: “Bossy Mind Controller Animation, Frame 7,” by Alice B. Clagett, 12 August 2018, CC BY-SA 4.0, from “Bossy Mind Controller Animation,” by Alice B. Clagett, 12 August 2018. in “Awakening with Planet Earth,” https://awakeningwithplanetearth.com … 

DESCRIPTION: There are two stick figures. Each is facing forward. Both figures have triangles around them; the points of the triangles are high above their heads. The two triangles are almost touching each other. The person on the left. whose triangle is pale blue, looks angry. Beneath the person’s feet is the label: Mind-Controlling Person. That person’s triangle is labeled: Their Team. The person on the right, whose triangle is pale green, looks contented. Beneath the person’s feet is the label: You.

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Stick Figure Image: “Bossy Mind Controller Animation, Frame 8,” by Alice B. Clagett, 12 August 2018, CC BY-SA 4.0, from “Bossy Mind Controller Animation,” by Alice B. Clagett, 12 August 2018. in “Awakening with Planet Earth,” https://awakeningwithplanetearth.com … DESCRIPTION: There are two stick figures. Each is facing forward. Both figures have triangles around them; the points of the triangles are high above their heads. The two triangles are farther apart than in the preceding animation frame. The person on the left. whose triangle is pale blue, looks angry. Beneath the person’s feet is the label: Mind-Controlling Person. That person’s triangle is labeled: Their Team. The person on the right, whose triangle is pale green, looks contented. Beneath the person’s feet is the label: You.

Stick Figure Image: “Bossy Mind Controller Animation, Frame 8,” by Alice B. Clagett, 12 August 2018, CC BY-SA 4.0, from “Bossy Mind Controller Animation,” by Alice B. Clagett, 12 August 2018. in “Awakening with Planet Earth,” https://awakeningwithplanetearth.com … 

DESCRIPTION: There are two stick figures. Each is facing forward. Both figures have triangles around them; the points of the triangles are high above their heads. The two triangles are farther apart than in the preceding animation frame. The person on the left. whose triangle is pale blue, looks angry. Beneath the person’s feet is the label: Mind-Controlling Person. That person’s triangle is labeled: Their Team. The person on the right, whose triangle is pale green, looks contented. Beneath the person’s feet is the label: You.

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Stick Figure Image: “Bossy Mind Controller Animation, Frame 9,” by Alice B. Clagett, 12 August 2018, CC BY-SA 4.0, from “Bossy Mind Controller Animation,” by Alice B. Clagett, 12 August 2018, in “Awakening with Planet Earth,” https://awakeningwithplanetearth.com … DESCRIPTION: There are two stick figures, at some distance from each other. Each is facing forward. Both figures have triangles around them; the points of the triangles are high above their heads. The two triangles are farther apart than in the preceding animation frame. The person on the left. whose triangle is pale blue, looks angry. Beneath the person’s feet is the label: Mind-Controlling Person. That person’s triangle is labeled: Their Team. The person on the right, whose triangle is pale green, looks contented. Beneath the person’s feet is the label: You.

Stick Figure Image: “Bossy Mind Controller Animation, Frame 9,” by Alice B. Clagett, 12 August 2018, CC BY-SA 4.0, from “Bossy Mind Controller Animation,” by Alice B. Clagett, 12 August 2018, in “Awakening with Planet Earth,” https://awakeningwithplanetearth.com .. 

DESCRIPTION: There are two stick figures, at some distance from each other. Each is facing forward. Both figures have triangles around them; the points of the triangles are high above their heads. The two triangles are farther apart than in the preceding animation frame. The person on the left. whose triangle is pale blue, looks angry. Beneath the person’s feet is the label: Mind-Controlling Person. That person’s triangle is labeled: Their Team. The person on the right, whose triangle is pale green, looks contented. Beneath the person’s feet is the label: You.

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Ninth Chakra Karmic Metaprograms . by Alice B. Clagett

Filmed on 5 March 2017; published on 22 March 2017

  • VIDEO BY ALICE
  • SUMMARY OF THE VIDEO
    • The Super Mind and the Super-Unconscious Mind
    • The Role of the ‘Other Woman’ in the Dreamtime Realm
    • Projection of Promiscuity Malspeak by a Wife onto the ‘Other Woman’
    • Super-Subconscious Ideation: Consumption of the ‘Other Woman’s’ Money by the Wife
    • Super-Subconscious Ideation: Taking of the ‘Other Woman’s’ Life by the Wife
    • Super-Subconscious Ideation: Power-Over Dark Love Triangle (Triangle Amoureux)
    • Conclusion

Dear Ones,

This video is about ninth chakra karmic metaprograms, and illustrations having to do with this. There is an edited Summary after the video …

VIDEO BY ALICE

SUMMARY OF THE VIDEO

Hello, Dear Ones, It’s Alice. I Am of the Stars.

The Super Mind and the Super-Unconscious Mind

In the ninth chakra, which feels to me to be two to three feet above my head, one of the things that I have been finding, especially recently, is that in dreamtime, before people wake up in the morning, they go over the karmic play … the main few lines of their karmic play, that they play out over and over again, day after day, in the astral realm and physical realm.

You know how there is the ‘superconscious mind’? There is also the ‘super-unconscious mind’ in the eighth and ninth chakras. In the ninth chakra negative, which is part of the ‘super-unconscious mind’, there are master plots or threads running through, that affect a person and keep coming up all day long.

If you are awake, say, at 4 o’clock in the morning, before they get up, you can hear what is really going on with them, and maybe how that is affecting you, if it has to do with you. What you may hear are rather melodramatic stories, to do with the subconscious mind, which thinks very vividly in physical images and also through metaphor.

The Role of the ‘Other Woman’ in the Dreamtime Realm

For instance, if a man feels that his wife will not love him unless she can feel that she is vanquishing another woman at the same time, he may involve himself and her in an astral play with a second woman that involves jealousy and putting her down; calling her names and so forth, so that his wife can feel that she is ‘one up on’ someone else all the time, and that he is a good deal. In this story, he needs to have this other woman attracted to him, and interestingly enough, he also needs for his wife to be attracted to her during the daytime, so that he can get his work done. So he sets up an unconscious attraction between his wife and the woman during the daytime.

Projection of Promiscuity Malspeak by a Wife onto the ‘Other Woman’

The wife may have a repeating phrase from her early childhood or young adulthood, to do with parental guidance of the negative variety. Maybe a parent told her that she was promiscuous. And she repeats this, over and over again, in her ninth chakra. It becomes part of her metaprogram … her ‘uber-samakaraor highest tier karmic action. Because the wife is repeating it over and over again, the second woman becomes at the effect of that same karmic line during the day (because it is being repeated, and she hears it). In other words, by way of projection, the karma is passed on to the other woman.

Super-Subconscious Ideation: Consumption of the ‘Other Woman’s’ Money by the Wife

Here is something I sometimes run across: The wife may feel that she wants the second woman’s money. And so, she may devise upon her husband to find a way to get that money, either for her, or for a favored cause. In some cases, this involves the husband finding a friend or acquaintance who can fake marriage, ‘prove’ something that did not happen, and get money from the second woman in that way.

Super-Subconscious Ideation: Taking of the ‘Other Woman’s’ Life by the Wife

So the husband, say, is doing this: Trying to destroy the second woman for the sake of his wife, who needs to have someone to feel superior to and ruin, to get her money and kill her, or whatever it is. The wife may decide she wants the other woman dead, out of jealousy, whether or not there is any cause for that. There may be no foundation whatsoever for that. And the husband may agree to find someone to try to kill the other woman, just because he wants to keep his relationship to his wife.

Super-Subconscious Ideation: Power-Over Dark Love Triangle (Triangle Amoureux)

The man and the wife may both say, on this very high level (ninth chakra) in the dreamtime realm: May she [the second woman] never find another lover.

And the reason they say that is so that, in their minds, they can still imagine a trio or triad, a ménage à trois or astral triangle amoureux. And these are very destructive, I feel … destructive of the overall intimacy in a man-woman relationship, on both the physical plane and the astral plane.

Conclusion

So, on the astral plane, a couple may do their utmost, in some way or other, to destroy this second woman, simply because the man wants to keep his wifely relationship, and because the wife has a need to feel superior to another woman.

This has to do with the feral drive to being an alpha male or alpha female, which engages dominance-submission to order pack animals hierarchically in an alpha-beta manner.

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Psalm 25 . read by Alice B. Clagett

Filmed on 1 November 2015; published on 7 November 2015; revised on 11 June 2020
Location: Navajo State Park, Colorado

  • VIDEO BY ALICE
  • SUMMARY OF THE VIDEO
    • Psalm 25
    • Postlude: Chris Zabriskie and Scenes from Navajo Lake, Colorado
  • MORE INFORMATION

Dear Ones,

A reading of Psalm 25, with thoughtful comments. The Postlude features the music of Chris Zabriskie and scenes from Navajo Lake, Colorado. There is an edited Summary after the video …

VIDEO BY ALICE

SUMMARY OF THE VIDEO

Hello, Dear Ones, It’s Alice. I Am of the Stars.

I am here at sunset, at beautiful Navajo Lake, I thought I would read you the Psalm that was read at church this morning … which is Psalm 25. I have the King James version. I am going to read it right slowly to you. It is pretty cool; it is right uplifting.

I know a lot of people right now are feeling anxious and concerned about their safety; and just concerned about the future, because things are changing very fast.

You know, it is easy to feel that we have enemies in the world. That was David’s problem at that time: He was surrounded by enemies, and he was very concerned about that. But his faith brought him right through the whole thing.

One thing to consider is that, by means of this psalm … This is what it seems like to me … when he firmed his faith that everything would be ok, and that he would be victorious in the situation, then in my parlance, he optimized his timeline.

You can check … you can check my activations of Light for the way to optimize your own timelines, and pull yourself out of the mental tangles and mental filters of people that are stuck in the idea that they have enemies, for instance.

You do not need to be there. You can be directly existing in faith in God, and in Christ consciousness or the great, vast calm of the Buddha, if that is your faith.

But here I am, talking about my Christian thoughts. And here is Psalm 25 …

Psalm 25 (KJV, public domain)

1 “Unto thee, O Lord, do I lift up my soul.
2 “O my God, I trust in thee: let me not be ashamed, let not mine enemies triumph over me.
3 “Yea, let none that wait on thee be ashamed: let them be ashamed which transgress without cause.
4 “Shew me thy ways, O Lord; teach me thy paths.
5 “Lead me in thy truth, and teach me: for thou art the God of my salvation; on thee do I wait all the day.
6 “Remember, O Lord, thy tender mercies and thy loving kindnesses; for they have been ever of old.
7 “Remember not the sins of my youth, nor my transgressions: according to thy mercy remember thou me for thy goodness’ sake, O Lord.
8 “Good and upright is the Lord: therefore will he teach sinners in the way.
9 “The meek will he guide in judgment: and the meek will he teach his way.
10 “All the paths of the Lord are mercy and truth unto such as keep his covenant and his testimonies.
11 “For thy name’s sake, O Lord, pardon mine iniquity; for it is great.
12 “What man is he that feareth the Lord? him shall he teach in the way that he shall choose.
13 “His soul shall dwell at ease; and his seed shall inherit the earth.
14 “The secret of the Lord is with them that fear him; and he will shew them his covenant.
15 “Mine eyes are ever toward the Lord; for he shall pluck my feet out of the net.
16 “Turn thee unto me, and have mercy upon me; for I am desolate and afflicted.
17 “The troubles of my heart are enlarged: O bring thou me out of my distresses.
18 “Look upon mine affliction and my pain; and forgive all my sins.
19 “Consider mine enemies; for they are many; and they hate me with cruel hatred.
20 “O keep my soul, and deliver me: let me not be ashamed; for I put my trust in thee.
21 “Let integrity and uprightness preserve me; for I wait on thee.
22 “Redeem Israel, O God, out of all his troubles.”

So there it is … Psalm 25 … pretty cool, I think. David was in a pretty tough spot. It kind of reminds me of the spot I am in right now. And what did he do? He turned to God; and he said: Let me align my mind, my heart, and my will with Thee. Let me follow my covenant. Teach me. I place my faith in Thee.

I have nothing more to add to that. That is my only recourse. That is my only salvation. That is my only hope, in this world of Duality. So … Right on, David! [laughs, waves]

Postlude: Chris Zabriskie and Navajo Lake, Colorado

[Next in the video are the beautiful instrumental  “Prelude No. 1” from the album “Preludes” by Chris Zabriskie, CC by 4.0, and images from Navajo Lake at Navajo State Park, Colorado.

In love, light and joy,
I Am of the Stars

The photos from the video are here … Link: “Navajo Lake, Colorado,” photos by Alice B. Clagett, excerpted from a blog published on 30 January 2019 and published separately on 27 March 2020 … https://wp.me/p2Rkym-h7E ..]

This blog relates one of my Perilous Tales that occurred the same day … Link: “Alice’s Perilous Tales: The Man With the Pubic Hair Beard,” by Alice B. Clagett, published on 30 January 2019; revised on 11 June 2020 … https://wp.me/p2Rkym-bvu ..

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Link: “Telltale Signs of the ASP Sense of Humor,” by Alice B. Clagett, published on 15 March 2018; revised on 15 April 2020, 23 April 2020, and 11 June 2020 … https://wp.me/p2Rkym-8tR … Search the instances of the word: pubic

Link: “Curse of Delilah,” by Alice B. Clagett, filmed on 6 June 2018, revised and republished on 22 June 2018 … https://wp.me/p2Rkym-9s0 … Search the term: CURSE OF THE SHORT HAIRS AND THE HASIDIC BEARD

Link: “Alice’s Perilous Tales: The Nagging Wife,” by Alice B. Clagett, published on 31 July 2015 … https://wp.me/p2Rkym-5QZ ..

Link: “5D Skillsets: Rewriting History, Jumping Timelines, Merging Dimensions,” by Alice B. Clagett, filmed on 20 June 2015; published on 27 June 2015; transcribed on 12 November 2018 … https://wp.me/p2Rkym-3pV ..

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Alice’s Perilous Tales: The Nagging Wife . by Alice B. Clagett

Written and published on 31 July 2015; revised on 2 December 2018

  • THE PSYCHOLOGY OF BEING NAGGED
  • MALE VIOLENCE AND NAGGING BY WIVES
  • WHAT TO DO ABOUT BEING NAGGED?
  • THE KARMA OF BEING NAGGED
  • THE HYENA’S DAUGHTER . AND OTHER VIVID STORIES
  • PROFESSIONAL ADVICE ON BEING NAGGED
  • NAGGING, FROM THE STANDPOINT OF AN INNOCENT OBSERVER (ME)
  • ON BEING THE VICTIM OF CLAIR SADOMASOCHISM
  • FURTHER AGGRAVATION
  • A MESSAGE TO THE BOTH OF YOU
  • THE FARMER, THE DEVIL, AND THE SCOLDING WIFE

Image: Black-and-white sketch of the head of a feral-looking woman, transforming in about four stages into the head of a hyena; from “The Hyena’s Daughter,” by Simon Roy … https://40.media.tumblr.com/8ba67ac8ab7a46cf3462a4c2059d7391/tumblr_inline_nm6un4Ep4X1qzcbft_540.jpg .. (1)

Dear Ones,

As you may know, I have been studying the Book of Revelation in the Bible. In chapter 1, there is quite a striking vision that John the Divine had on the Isle of Patma. Highlights …

10 “I was in the Spirit on the Lord’s day, and heard behind me a great voice, as of a trumpet …

12 “And I turned to see the voice that spake with me. And being turned, I saw seven golden candlesticks; …

16 “And he had in his right hand seven stars: and out of his mouth went a sharp two edged sword: and his countenance was as the sun shineth in his strength.” –Revelation 1, KJV (public domain)

I am guessing that this great and shining presence had a two-edged sword in his mouth because he had learned to counter a nagging wife. (Not really, just a humorous thought….) There is a lesson here. How can a man be strong and shining if he suffers a nagging wife, anyway? What can more wear down a man’s spirit than a scornful attitude in his one and only?

THE PSYCHOLOGY OF BEING NAGGED

And what to do about it? If you speak up, she might kick you out. There is always that chance. And with some women, it is a sure and certain outcome of a man speaking up for himself and holding his own.

What can I say? Clearly, this woman must be physically exceptionally beautiful. Clearly, the husband must harbor some hint of a doubt that he will ever measure up.

And what if she does kick you out? Do you feel there is no one in the world like her? Or do you feel, like her, that you could walk right out that door and find the new love of your life waiting for you?

If you meet a wife’s scorn and derision with an open heart and that ‘sensitive man’ thing  … If, for instance, you say to her: When you nag me, I feel like curling up in a ball and crying … what will be her response? Being totally lacking in compassion and empathy, she will go for your jugular. For certain sure.

MALE VIOLENCE AND NAGGING BY WIVES

I saw on youtube just now a story about a husband whose wife was nagging him about a parking ticket. He ‘lost it’ and ‘acted out’ … which is to say, he ran over her. Twice. Then, leaving her body in the driveway, he went inside the house and took a nice, quiet nap.

What struck me most about the video was the smiles on the faces of the reporters who heard the story. They found it pretty funny.

Which, by my lights, points up the likelihood, in a nagged man, of acting out through violence, either toward his wife, or, if that is too scary, toward those he perceives as not so scary.

From this, I feel it is important to look for a solution to the nagging scenario, so that the urge to act out through violence will not crop up in the man’s subconscious over and over again. This will prevent social action against the man, in the form of a jail sentence or the like.

Men, it is important to understand that you are the wronged party in this instance. An abusive relationship is an abusive relationship, whether it is a man or a woman who is doing the abusing. The thing to do is to take the necessary steps to resolve the issue before violence occurs.

WHAT TO DO ABOUT BEING NAGGED?

Here you are. For the sixth time today, she speaks to you with scorn and derision ringing in her voice … Or, and this is a favorite of the nagging woman, she speaks to your friends about you … typically, in your presence … with scorn and derision. What to do?

For sure, like meets like. If you counter with scorn and derision, that will stop her in her tracks. Tell her how much your friends dislike her for her nagging. Tell her she is the lowest of the low. Close your heart like hers is closed. At least the blood flow will stop. But will you have a marriage? I dunno.

Here is a clue: If you or your spouse want rough sex, what does that mean? It means one or the other of you, or both, has a habit of thinking cruelly towards love and the lover.

What to do, then? There is always the possibility of getting counselling. If you leave her before working on your own response mechanisms, you are going to run into the same problem again and again, probably with increasing ferocity, till the issue of your own response is solved. Which is ok, too.

THE KARMA OF BEING NAGGED

That is just the way karma works. It is how Soul wounding gets resolved. God does this ‘ratchet up’ thing till we finally take notice, take action, and fix the hitch in our etheric net.

Keeping in mind, God is not a sadist. It is the lovers we attract into our lives who have that quality, when we have that ‘not worthy’, ‘not enough love in the world for me’ malware installed in the ether speak.

So God contrives this movie we call ‘reality’ … simply as a means of helping us clear our Souls of the wounding. God is love. God is the great healer.

THE HYENA’S DAUGHTER . AND OTHER VIVID STORIES

Speaking of movies, there is a comic strip conjured up by a guy who clearly has the ‘nag me’ bug … “The Hyena’s Daughter” (story and art by Simon Roy). This is a story about a woman who horrifically transforms into a hyena (1) …

Image: black-and-white sketch of an Amazon-type woman walking along with a pack of hyenas, from “The Hyena’s Daughter,” by Simon Roy … https://41.media.tumblr.com/df923e619b4af841bf00f67181e371cc/tumblr_inline_nm6ul5P00R1qzcbft_540.jpg ..

Who needs this kind of story line? Here is one that is more fun … the first part is the part about rough sex and nagging. Then it presents some alternatives, such as … go figure! … compliments … ?!

Video: “Star Trek Funny Love Scenes,” by ZeroRamzes, 8 January 2008 … https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M2IHx2Ts57E ..

Here is a song about a wife’s nagging habit …

Video: “The Nagging wife song – Belated Valentine – DJ Electro Swingable Mashup mix,” by ElectroSwingable, 12 February 2017 … https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bUCJrKI37V8 ..

Here is a lady named Dawndee … who strikes me as the epitome of the nagging personality (sorry, Dawndee!) … with her justification for nagging. Which I have heard from others…

Video: “Nag! Nag! Nag!” by DawndeeDALLAS, 7 July 2009 … https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UePc9-IELzM ..

The trouble I have with this is, who appointed her to be the person who figures out who should do what in the marriage? What about the guy’s ideas on what he wants from the woman? Where is his voice, telling her what he wants from her? I just do not get it!

PROFESSIONAL ADVICE ON BEING NAGGED

Here is Jim Marshall, a professional counselor with a thought on ending the torture …

Video: “Relationship Advice – The Nagging Wife Solution,” by James Marshall, 15 August 2011 … https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TYyShopRAhQ ..

And here is another expert opinion …

Video: “How to Deal with a Nagging Wife,” by Full Frontal Fatherhood, 26 February 2016 … https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1PmQUP_50Cs ..

My thought is, this might be a good way to start. She probably thinks you never listen to her. So, prove that you are listening …

Here is Dr. Dar Hawks counselling on nagging …

Video: “Dr. Dar – Dealing with a nagging wife,” by Dr. Daw Hawks, 1 Jul y2011 … https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EddKmmCWNDE ..

Seems pretty similar: Listen … then clarify. Negotiate a timeline. It mentions how men retreat in the face of wifely trouble … How it might help to respond verbally instead. Especially to a woman’s expectation that You’re in love with me. You should know what I’m thinking. What??

So Dr. Dar says, when confronted with what she calls ‘nonspecificity’, a husband might try to get clarification. For example, he might ask: What’s going on with you? What can I do to help you feel better in this moment?

NAGGING, FROM THE STANDPOINT OF AN INNOCENT OBSERVER (ME)

I have had my own unforgettable moments in the presence of a woman nagging her husband. Never before having had that experience … in my own significant other relationships or among my friendships, I was at a near total loss for words. However, I did finally (after multiple nagging wife syndrome exposures) cough up: I don’t think you should be mean to your husband like that. To which the response, the next day, was: Who are you to tell me howI should be with my husband? Dee ah duh … What do I say now?

So then on another occasion, I got together with them again. First thing, she said: By the way, my husband and I have talked it over, and we both agree, you don’t have any right to talk to me that way. Dee ah duh … What way? said I. To which she said: What I mean is, you have no right to tell me how to talk to my husband. He’s my husband. This has nothing to do with you.

I am speechless here. The wife is a nagging verbal abuser. The husband, by her account, agrees that this is his cup of tea. She thinks this has nothing to do with me.

What did I not say, here? I did not say: When I hear her cruel tongue, my heart shrinks to the size of a wizened walnut. And guys, if you hear this, just know it is not an invitation to renew our friendship. Not in the least. Cruelty is not my cup of tea.

ON BEING THE VICTIM OF CLAIR SADOMASOCHISM

And on the clair plane, not only did this woman for several years horrify me with hatred during the act of sex with her husband… This was not enough for her. She looked for a single woman, such as me, to torture on the clair plane during the day, when her husband is not readily at hand to be nagged.

So all day for several years, she tortured me with clair demands for sadomasochistic sexual daydreams … what she termed innocent ‘flirting’ … which is to say, cruel thoughts of sex. Then, during casual acts of sex-for-pay, she would imaging she was performing sadistic sexual acts with me. She being the sadist, and me the masochist.

Woman! Look this straight in the eye: You are a sex worker. Be with who you are with! If you cannot stand it, give it up.

FURTHER AGGRAVATION

To ante up, when the couple performed the act of sex, they would wait till I was asleep. Then as the wife poured her cruelty out into the husband’s open heart, he would try to snag my ‘desire elemental’ [see my blog category: Desire elementals ] … which is ever wakeful even when I am in dreamland … as a safe haven for his expression of sexual love.

The desire elemental has a limited intelligence. It has the will to survive. And an avid interest in desire. It can talk, too, on the clair plane, through the means of the intestinal neural network. And so, the husband has this recurring daydream, while having sex with what his unconscious mind conceives to be a ‘hyena woman’ … of having sex with me instead. Which he verifies through what he hears from my desire elemental while I am asleep.

Guy! I am not the person you are having sex with. I am not my desire elemental. It is just a little body elemental, a little thought form that zings in on the desire world. And you know very well, when I am wide awake, I change my own mind to a different thought train whenever you start to indulge in this daydream. Face the facts, and face your fears. Look the person you are with in the eye when you have sex. If you cannot stand it, find yourself someone else.

A MESSAGE TO THE BOTH OF YOU

It’s not ‘rough sex’ you are dreaming of. It is sadomasochism.

It is not a variant of the norm. It is a samskara that you carry, a karmic miasmic distortion, a wounding of the Soul.

Outa my life, dudes! Deal with it. Horrify me no longer. If you want friends, check it out! … Open your hearts to a loving relationship with your spouse.

THE FARMER, THE DEVIL, AND THE SCOLDING WIFE

Video: “The Farmer’s Nagging Wife,” by Paul Clayton – Topic, 12 April 2014 … https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q5NJ4H8IlE0 ..

In love, light and joy,
(well ok, less so at this moment)
I Am of the Stars

See also … Link: “Compendium: Dylan Redwine Murder Mystery,” by Alice B. Clagett, published on 22 February 2020; revised on 23 April 2020 … https://wp.me/p2Rkym-gz4 ..

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(1) For more on For more on this, see …

Link: “The Refutation of the Primitive, and the Exaltation of the Fantastic in Simon Roy and Jason Wordie’s Tiger Lung,” by Sarah Horrocks, 2 April 2015 … https://mercurialblonde.wordpress.com/2015/04/02/the-refutation-of-the-primative-and-the-exaltation-of-the-fantastic-in-simon-roy-and-jason-wordies-tiger-lung/ ..

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